okay that makes sense. i haven’t watched a lot of these, except the novelist and old fashion cupcake. i tend to skip jbl’s that have a lower rating (below 7.5 ish). i’m probably missing out on some gems bcs of it ik 😂
i have watched a decent amount jbls in the past few years. they’re my favourite. what are your examples of jbl’s with deeper kisses? i’m always looking for recs and it help determine if we might have different standards of what a kiss like that would look like lol
the way people hate this so passionately that they are leaving multiple negative comments each week is so…. 😭 you can drop the show? like i’m all for constructive conversation and genuine discussion but at what point are y’all just making yourselves miserable sticking with a show you hate lol
i honestly can’t think of one jbl (besides this one) that i have watched recently that has deeper more realistic kisses tbh 😭 i can for korean, taiwanese, and thai bls but not japanese. not saying there are none, i just can’t think of any off the top of my head lol
i don’t why but i just noticed how good looking the guy who plays takara is lol. like when the sunlight hits his eyes he’s like jaw droppingly gorgeous wow
just finished the ep and the way bahmee and judy have dodged accountability in the cheating mess is giving me the ick. they all had a part to play in it but i feel like tae is the only one who acknowledged what he did wrong. like i can understand judy being caught off guard in the moment but why didn’t she apologize to bahmee for kissing her even though she knew bahmee was drunk and confused? and why can’t bahmee admit her communication was lacking and although she has a right to her feelings of neglect, cheating wasn’t acceptable. feels like the only one holding bahmee (or someone who isn’t tae) accountable for her part is pah lmao (and that’s not even his place). i do like bahmee and judy together though so i would like to see some growth as it comes to how bahmee communicates as she explores her relationship with judy. id also like a happy ending for tae whether that’s the potential for new romance or an awesome promotion or something lol
(im only 3/4 way into the episode) pah saying “what’s up lover girl” to bahmee was crazyyyy 😭 ngl i burst out laughing. i love mess and she lowkey deserved it. i think the most interesting thing about the bahmee-tae (ft pah and judy) drama is how i can see all the sides. i think they’ve all done something to contribute to the mess (some more than others obviously) but i also can see why they did what they did even if i don’t agree with it or see it as the most mature course of action. it’s realistic messy as hell and entertaining
I don't think it's infantilising, I think she just assumes her experience re: disability is universal and she's…
That’s fair. The two concepts often overlap since they both involve being condescending and undermining someone’s capabilities/intelligence. I would argue that trying to save him by controlling who he talks to (taichi), going so far as physically dragging him away etc crosses into treating him like a child, but I don’t really care to argue the semantics. I am more upset that she’s undermining his agency.
Maya infantilises Kohei a bit imo. He’s capable of choosing his own friend/crush and determining if he’s being used, like she says, for himself. It’s frustrating because it feels like the other side of the coin on what he’s already dealt with because of his disability, like the girl who assumed he couldn’t take out the trash himself because he’s hard of hearing or the boys who were afraid to play basketball with him. Maya means well, and I understand her protectiveness but Kohei is not a child.
The way they think and act makes me feel like I am watching a highschool romance ngl 😭 They don’t read as early/mid 20s to me, particularly Natsume. That said, I am enjoying this so far. Their face cards are giving. They’re both stunning
girl takara's actor is around 180cm and taishin 's is around 165cm. so he wear a small probably. Takara M/L so…
there’s no way there’s that much difference between actors’ heights 😭 imma need them to pull out a measuring tape because i don’t believe it lmaoo. google says it’s more like 178 and 167 but even that seems a bit of a stretch to me haha, but maybe they just give off shorter energy
the way they’re pretending takara and taishin aren’t basically the same size is making me giggle. takara is like 2 inches taller at best yet taishin is like senpai’s sweater is so long on me 😭