yes, the FL obviously needs to cry better... she's not crying pretty enough for you. 🙄
You know how wild it is to read a woman is not crying (ugly or pretty) enough to meet your standards.
Also bear in mind that this was Sun Yu's storyline too, so I imagine the show runners didn't want the FL overshadowing the SFL in a story arc about the SML ; also she's literally going to be crying in tonights episode too so.... maybe chill hating on Sun Qian.
In Ep 12. When Taotao was sick, she repeatedly asks Luan Nian to take her home. He (roundaboutly) refuses to do so. He even opens the balcony to let in cold air and "freeze them" together unless she agrees to take back the suggestions they end things. Many people see this as romantic, but is it??? the poor girl has pneumonia .
I bring this up because it's clearly another example of why Taotao doesn't tell him things, it's because he doesn't listen to her when she says things or asks for something.
How can western viewers get VIP access to Youku? I want to be able to watch the last 4 episodes when they are released but I don't think Netflix will do the early release?
She was outside of the matchmaking event helping people get their entry passes. She was not in the event nor was…
You are not good at this and if you aren't going to actually consider the questions I ask and you are just going to keep blindly defending a man who is clearly verbally abusive, controlling, manipulative and hypocritical then we don't have anything further to discuss.
She was outside of the matchmaking event helping people get their entry passes. She was not in the event nor was…
Throwing insults at me then calling me childish is peak.
I have answered your questions you just keep moving the goal posts, but to answer your most recent question (again) the FL doesn’t feel confident talking to ML because he is verbally abusive, jealous and manipulative
The ML is “not just bad with his words” he is very jealous and manipulative.
As for the ex she has no plans to see him again. She doesn’t owe the EX boyfriend details on her current relationship, what is important is she told her CURRENT partner WHO her EX was and made it clear that he is her ex (she hasn’t even seen this guy for 4 years why was the ML jealous????)
Now answer my questions
Did the ML tell FL he was going out with his childhood sweetheart?
Why does the ML get to hug the Childhood sweetheart and no one is mad?
Why does the ML get to stalk the FL and that’s not seen as negative behavior? If the female lead was clingy and watching him when he walked with his roommate or went out with childhood sweetheart you would say she was WRONG.
Why do you dismiss that this man insults this woman in every single episode but expect her to be ready willing and communicate with him?
Do you know that she is the YOUNGER and LESS experienced person in this relationship, (this is only her 2nd relationship but he’s had many more than her)?
Why should she have to be more mature than him?
Don’t reply if you can’t address all of MY Questions.
She was outside of the matchmaking event helping people get their entry passes. She was not in the event nor was…
*******First of all talk nice to me or I will report you. ******
Second, Luke is an INVESTOR in the dating app, he knows she is supporting her friends business because he helped her review the business plan, he even was able to find out that the account had 45 conversations because he has internal access to SEE everything the goes on via the app -to which she immediately clarified it wasn't her sending messages and the app developers have automatic messages that go out- Why are you babying him and acting like he has no idea what is going on? You just are so quick to dismiss the FL when she speaks because you are enamored with the ML even though he is verbally abusive, jealous and manipulative.
Luke's childhood friend was still very actively pursuing him, and Luke still hugged her even knowing that only to turn around and get mad at Flora for the exact same thing. He's a hypocrite!!!
Lastly, what do you mean she didn't clear boundaries with the ex: when she understood her ex was trying to rekindle things with her she immediately said she was happy that they were able to build their own lives and that she doesn't regret the choice she made to go to Beijin (meaning she was happy they broke up). She was kindly letting him know she has no plans to reunite.
it’s because he is attractive , so people close one eye instead. he literally belittles her calling her cheap,…
100% agree.
I also want to add folks keep bringing up how he was the one giving her the title of "girlfriend" but she never wants to call him boyfriend but lets look at how he does that: he's only told his 4 friends mostly to get his childhood friend to stop trying to pursue him, he is very private about his life outside of that, they do not go on regular dates, he doesn't want her to meet his parents, he gives her gifts that she doesn't use because he doesn't really know what she likes. He doesn't wish her happy birthday, barely wishes her Happy New Year. He gets mad at her when she goes through something traumatic and embarrassing (i.e. real estate fight & and SA). Why would she feel like his girlfriend if all they really do is meet up at his house and go to pound-town.
She struggles calling him her boyfriend because he doesn't act like one.
I don't understand how folks can get on here after watching an episode and blame Flora when also knowing she is…
If Flora stopped talking to her roommates and went around introducing Luke as her boyfriend everywhere they went like some of ya'll expect you would be calling her clingy, weak, unprofessional and a bad friend.
I don't understand how folks can get on here after watching an episode and blame Flora when also knowing she is several years younger than Luke, this is only her second ever relationship, and she is his subordinate that he ridicules all the time.
Of course she makes mistakes, of course she struggles with the right thing to say, but he definitely doesn't help her figure things out when it comes to their relationship. Everyone just expects her to constantly cater to him at work and in this relationship while he demeans her and that so weird.
Don't drink with others, don't talk to other men (even if they are just friends/roommates), tell me first about everything is very controlling behavior!!!!
She was outside of the matchmaking event helping people get their entry passes. She was not in the event nor was…
How about I answer your question with another question:
Was it necessary for Luke to hug his childhood sweetheart who confessed to being in love with him and wanting him to leave Flora for her? Or do we only blame the FL for these things?
What is this about not telling the ML about the matchmaking event, how was he able to find her if she didn't tell him? He even helped her with he business plan for the friends business so this idea that Luke "didn't know" is incorrect.
She does not get jealous like Luke, he even tried to make her jealous this very episode and she took it all in stride.
Yeah, people would think he’s sweet for thinking about marriage BUT there’s NO way they’d be taking his…
Did Flora not tell Luke that she was having lunch with her ex or did we watch different shows?
Did Flora not tell Luke she was helping her roommate with her business (that he even reviewed the business plan for) or are we watching different shows?
Luke tends to ridicule Flora any time she says or does something so of course she is reluctant to tell him. She wants him to trust her but he's never trusted her or her ability from 'day one' and she is very aware of this.
Yeah, people would think he’s sweet for thinking about marriage BUT there’s NO way they’d be taking his…
You know what's weird, the constant demand that she needs to "tell him first" that I see echo'd in the comments is exactly why she see's him primarily as her BOSS.
'She needs to report to him first' before she does anything, 'she needs to tell him first' so he can tell her what to do, 'she needs to tell him first' so he can make a plan...
You know who people behave that way for, their BOSS!!!
Yeah, people would think he’s sweet for thinking about marriage BUT there’s NO way they’d be taking his…
OMG !Thank you for being a voice of reason in these comments, I feel like I am losing my mind reading some of the takes today.
It's fascinating to see how male centered folks there are, a girl can't even take a walk with her roommate or help her friend organize *a business event* without a witch hunt.
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Also bear in mind that this was Sun Yu's storyline too, so I imagine the show runners didn't want the FL overshadowing the SFL in a story arc about the SML ; also she's literally going to be crying in tonights episode too so.... maybe chill hating on Sun Qian.
What behaviors/statements from her lead you to believe she is a red flag?
I bring this up because it's clearly another example of why Taotao doesn't tell him things, it's because he doesn't listen to her when she says things or asks for something.
He just does whatever he wants to do.
Enjoy being blocked.
and he never told Zhitao the childhood sweetheart is just a friend until AFTER he went out with the sweetheart.
I have answered your questions repeatedly, at this point don't reply unless you answer all *NINE* questions I asked you.
I have answered your questions you just keep moving the goal posts, but to answer your most recent question (again) the FL doesn’t feel confident talking to ML because he is verbally abusive, jealous and manipulative
The ML is “not just bad with his words” he is very jealous and manipulative.
As for the ex she has no plans to see him again. She doesn’t owe the EX boyfriend details on her current relationship, what is important is she told her CURRENT partner WHO her EX was and made it clear that he is her ex (she hasn’t even seen this guy for 4 years why was the ML jealous????)
Now answer my questions
Did the ML tell FL he was going out with his childhood sweetheart?
Why does the ML get to hug the Childhood sweetheart and no one is mad?
Why does the ML get to stalk the FL and that’s not seen as negative behavior? If the female lead was clingy and watching him when he walked with his roommate or went out with childhood sweetheart you would say she was WRONG.
Why do you dismiss that this man insults this woman in every single episode but expect her to be ready willing and communicate with him?
Do you know that she is the YOUNGER and LESS experienced person in this relationship, (this is only her 2nd relationship but he’s had many more than her)?
Why should she have to be more mature than him?
Don’t reply if you can’t address all of MY Questions.
Second, Luke is an INVESTOR in the dating app, he knows she is supporting her friends business because he helped her review the business plan, he even was able to find out that the account had 45 conversations because he has internal access to SEE everything the goes on via the app -to which she immediately clarified it wasn't her sending messages and the app developers have automatic messages that go out- Why are you babying him and acting like he has no idea what is going on? You just are so quick to dismiss the FL when she speaks because you are enamored with the ML even though he is verbally abusive, jealous and manipulative.
Luke's childhood friend was still very actively pursuing him, and Luke still hugged her even knowing that only to turn around and get mad at Flora for the exact same thing. He's a hypocrite!!!
Lastly, what do you mean she didn't clear boundaries with the ex: when she understood her ex was trying to rekindle things with her she immediately said she was happy that they were able to build their own lives and that she doesn't regret the choice she made to go to Beijin (meaning she was happy they broke up). She was kindly letting him know she has no plans to reunite.
I also want to add folks keep bringing up how he was the one giving her the title of "girlfriend" but she never wants to call him boyfriend but lets look at how he does that: he's only told his 4 friends mostly to get his childhood friend to stop trying to pursue him, he is very private about his life outside of that, they do not go on regular dates, he doesn't want her to meet his parents, he gives her gifts that she doesn't use because he doesn't really know what she likes. He doesn't wish her happy birthday, barely wishes her Happy New Year. He gets mad at her when she goes through something traumatic and embarrassing (i.e. real estate fight & and SA). Why would she feel like his girlfriend if all they really do is meet up at his house and go to pound-town.
She struggles calling him her boyfriend because he doesn't act like one.
He acts like her BOSS (who she sleeps with).
Of course she makes mistakes, of course she struggles with the right thing to say, but he definitely doesn't help her figure things out when it comes to their relationship. Everyone just expects her to constantly cater to him at work and in this relationship while he demeans her and that so weird.
Don't drink with others, don't talk to other men (even if they are just friends/roommates), tell me first about everything is very controlling behavior!!!!
yes JBR is attractive, but lets be reasonable!!!
Was it necessary for Luke to hug his childhood sweetheart who confessed to being in love with him and wanting him to leave Flora for her? Or do we only blame the FL for these things?
What is this about not telling the ML about the matchmaking event, how was he able to find her if she didn't tell him? He even helped her with he business plan for the friends business so this idea that Luke "didn't know" is incorrect.
She does not get jealous like Luke, he even tried to make her jealous this very episode and she took it all in stride.
Did Flora not tell Luke she was helping her roommate with her business (that he even reviewed the business plan for) or are we watching different shows?
Luke tends to ridicule Flora any time she says or does something so of course she is reluctant to tell him. She wants him to trust her but he's never trusted her or her ability from 'day one' and she is very aware of this.
'She needs to report to him first' before she does anything, 'she needs to tell him first' so he can tell her what to do, 'she needs to tell him first' so he can make a plan...
You know who people behave that way for, their BOSS!!!
It's fascinating to see how male centered folks there are, a girl can't even take a walk with her roommate or help her friend organize *a business event* without a witch hunt.