GT is a little bit annoying tho, I get his brother is particular and his life has been hard but this thing of…
I agreed with what u r saying. GT really pissed me off sometime. To be honest, He is the character that we often meet in real life. Act as a victim, try their best to be nice, keep everything inside...and after tolerating everything for a long time.... they explode. Then... they will always say such words... I am looking for happiness. life is full of unhappiness and so on. Let me share my point of view on how GT was like that. 1) Parents are also human beings. They also make mistakes and we, kids have to learn how to forgive them as we grow older. But his mother die before he even learn how to forgive her. So, whenever he think about his mom, all he remember is bad memories. 2) Experience make people change but he is a type of person who put a wall and don’t allow anyone to come in to his life and his life is always constant. So he always reminds as a kid who want to be loved (MY said it before) His age is just numbers. Btw, he got that one friend that I always want to hit that guy whenever they have conversation! What kind of friend encourage his bff to not change anything when they live in that unhappy life! Is it even friend? As for me, Friends are supposed to be someone who correct you when you are wrong and grow up together. 3) He is the character with the most flaws. In reality, to like this type of person is so tiring. (Thanks God for giving him handsome face) I really admire MY. She is so strong. GT seems nice but he is the most twisted character. As I mention before, he mental age remains as a kid, so he have a lot of problem reading people. Especially to MY. For example, he thought MY is strong and she will always like him so he always end up saying the most hurtful words to her Calling her empty can, without emotion, so on and hurt her again and again. I feel like he is enduring and focusing on his feelings all the time so he might forgot to look deep into other. He has to learn how to do things half endure and half explode like an adult, change himself, change his way of dealing with people instead of being drama king and learn how to not hurt MY just because she is strong. Ps: That’s why I love watching this drama. It make me realize a lot of things. I want to see them walking to the road of happiness.
1. it’s really useless to compare because GT is not him and he is not GT2. It’s okay. It match the scene.…
Friendly advice, there are a lot of people from the whole world who have language barrier. Pls learn how to be flexible. This drama will not be Oscar winner so I think you should not waste time arguing with everyone here. Just go and watch your favorite movie :)))
I get what you're saying but I'm still on GT's side. I 100% agree that the lying is a no-no and should stop but…
Yes. It’s because they are family. They effect each other and GT need to find different way to deal with ST instead of spoiling him. He has been spoiling ST for 30 years already.
1. it’s really useless to compare because GT is not him and he is not GT2. It’s okay. It match the scene.…
Yes. I think this drama is not for you. It’s all about feelings of weak people and how they heal. If you have not been though or have friends with such a background. It will be hard to understand. I think you should find the one that’s suitable for you.
sometimes i like this drama, sometimes im not. i have confused emotions on this one. might be because i've been…
1. it’s really useless to compare because GT is not him and he is not GT 2. It’s okay. It match the scene. The right music for the right emotion. 3. This goes between dark and bright. Fairytale and Reality. 4. Because the story is about childhood trauma. And everyone has different memories. It has been 20 years. 5. Because MY is brave, she know how to heal herself. The key is she need someone who she can trust and rely on and that person is GT.
I get what you're saying but I'm still on GT's side. I 100% agree that the lying is a no-no and should stop but…
Sometime what they said might not be what they truly feel. I was saying by looking at his painting. Because painting never lie, it always reflects what they truly feel. In the painting, ST draw 3 people. GT and MY at the back and he, himself at the front. If he doesn’t want GT to be with MY, would he draw like this? He would have drawn only 2. What I feel is he just want to be part of them without being abandoned. What MY is looking for is not ST position. Not to be another brother. It’s to become additional person who can share happiness with them. Another point is that, ST doesn’t make any trouble and try to understand when he know that GT went on a trip with MY and even lie to him. But when he got nightmares and try looking for GT, he can’t contact him. ST has pointed out this before “If I have to give my things to people who needed them, what will I left with?” What he fear is - GT will leave him.
GT has friend, coworkers and even the girls who like him. It’s just that he keep building his wall and don’t associate with anyone. But what does ST has? No one. He was so happy to become BFF with MY.
Who doesn’t wish ST to have to work is also GT. He is being overprotective. The one who said he would sent ST to his part time job is also GT. Even though ST said he could go on his own. The one who ask first “who do you like more? MY or me?” Is also GT. In my opinion GT need ST more than ST need him. Remember the scene ST said “ST is ST’s, not yours” He really doesn’t need GT to make every decision for him. And, MY did say “ don’t worry. GT cannot abandon you” To be honest, I believe what is pulling back GT from his freedom is not ST. It’s his own guilt and his mother last word. And in this world, everyone has selfishness on its own way and not everyone is perfect.
I just love how show really amazed me. I understand how everyone is taking on GT side. Don't get me wrong, it also break my heart seeing GT cry. However, I can also see why ST explode like that. First, I have noticed that everyone treat ST as a kid and no one really try to understand him. Only MY treat him as an adult like a normal person. Autism does not mean that he is a fool who knows nothing and he is not a kid too. ST always know how to read people more than GT does. Second, What ST hate the most is LIE and GT always did it. He hide everything that involve MY. For example, on a trip with MY, he could have told the truth. Even if he can’t say 100% honest word, we could have said some reasoning about how he went on a trip. If he told the truth, will ST really not understand? Will he really feel being abandoned? I doubt. I believe ST will understand because he also love GT and GT is the only one in his world.
All ST wish is to treat him as a family, a brother who GT can rely on and talk about how he is feeling but he always end up being treated as a kid, an idiot, an abnormal person who know nothing. They are all becoming adult and ST is not the kid that he used to be 20 years ago. GT also have to learn the fact that ST is an adult who has his own thoughts and respect him. When u only have each other in both worlds, lying is the worst and make people feeling like being abandoned. You lie because u don’t think that person will understand you if you say the truth. In my opinion, ST understand GT more than GT understand him. And of course, ST is also at fault for hitting GT’s wound. They both need to grow up, talk properly and apologize to each other.
I don’t think anyone should be subjected to the kind of fate where you constantly suffer every cycle, every…
I believe at the end, they are not the character who are under control anymore, which mean they will be able to move freely and find their own happiness. I am just thinking it as, writer is God and the characters are just normal human being. There are times In life we failed because fate play us. However, I do agreed that fact that writer is cruel and they should not suffer every cycle.
The ending is still enjoyable for me. As life is like this, not all the time can be lucky and fortunate. If fate is something that you can't change, then you just need to find the best way to enjoy your live in the unfortunate world. Even if you can't change 100%, you can still find your happiness.
No matter how much I love Xu Kai, not gonna watch! this is what it called "old cow eat young grass" PS: in manga, FL is so beautiful because her age freeze at "young beautiful age"! why look like old mother here!!! >•<
today episode really make me feel like crying! i want to know more about their past!! More importantly, I really would like to know who the writer is! so that I could give him or her a Slap!!
Tang Nian is a bit creepy. Well, not just a bit. First she is that crazy stalker that thinks someone really cares…
Hey! it's love that make one's IQ lower~ You can't except for perfect 10. Actually, their IQ is good only got a problem with EQ~ :P Trust me, people do stupid things everyday. Another thing is you should try to understand their culture. Not the whole world is the same.
Let me share my point of view on how GT was like that.
1) Parents are also human beings. They also make mistakes and we, kids have to learn how to forgive them as we grow older. But his mother die before he even learn how to forgive her. So, whenever he think about his mom, all he remember is bad memories.
2) Experience make people change but he is a type of person who put a wall and don’t allow anyone to come in to his life and his life is always constant. So he always reminds as a kid who want to be loved (MY said it before) His age is just numbers. Btw, he got that one friend that I always want to hit that guy whenever they have conversation! What kind of friend encourage his bff to not change anything when they live in that unhappy life! Is it even friend? As for me, Friends are supposed to be someone who correct you when you are wrong and grow up together.
3) He is the character with the most flaws. In reality, to like this type of person is so tiring. (Thanks God for giving him handsome face) I really admire MY. She is so strong. GT seems nice but he is the most twisted character. As I mention before, he mental age remains as a kid, so he have a lot of problem reading people. Especially to MY. For example, he thought MY is strong and she will always like him so he always end up saying the most hurtful words to her Calling her empty can, without emotion, so on and hurt her again and again.
I feel like he is enduring and focusing on his feelings all the time so he might forgot to look deep into other. He has to learn how to do things half endure and half explode like an adult, change himself, change his way of dealing with people instead of being drama king and learn how to not hurt MY just because she is strong.
Ps: That’s why I love watching this drama. It make me realize a lot of things. I want to see them walking to the road of happiness.
Today I just want to slap both of them
Is it what people called as Mood Swing?
I think you should find the one that’s suitable for you.
2. It’s okay. It match the scene. The right music for the right emotion.
3. This goes between dark and bright. Fairytale and Reality.
4. Because the story is about childhood trauma. And everyone has different memories. It has been 20 years.
5. Because MY is brave, she know how to heal herself. The key is she need someone who she can trust and rely on and that person is GT.
Another point is that, ST doesn’t make any trouble and try to understand when he know that GT went on a trip with MY and even lie to him. But when he got nightmares and try looking for GT, he can’t contact him. ST has pointed out this before “If I have to give my things to people who needed them, what will I left with?” What he fear is - GT will leave him.
GT has friend, coworkers and even the girls who like him. It’s just that he keep building his wall and don’t associate with anyone. But what does ST has? No one. He was so happy to become BFF with MY.
Who doesn’t wish ST to have to work is also GT. He is being overprotective. The one who said he would sent ST to his part time job is also GT. Even though ST said he could go on his own. The one who ask first “who do you like more? MY or me?” Is also GT. In my opinion GT need ST more than ST need him. Remember the scene ST said “ST is ST’s, not yours” He really doesn’t need GT to make every decision for him. And, MY did say “ don’t worry. GT cannot abandon you”
To be honest, I believe what is pulling back GT from his freedom is not ST. It’s his own guilt and his mother last word.
And in this world, everyone has selfishness on its own way and not everyone is perfect.
First, I have noticed that everyone treat ST as a kid and no one really try to understand him. Only MY treat him as an adult like a normal person. Autism does not mean that he is a fool who knows nothing and he is not a kid too. ST always know how to read people more than GT does.
Second, What ST hate the most is LIE and GT always did it. He hide everything that involve MY. For example, on a trip with MY, he could have told the truth. Even if he can’t say 100% honest word, we could have said some reasoning about how he went on a trip. If he told the truth, will ST really not understand? Will he really feel being abandoned? I doubt.
I believe ST will understand because he also love GT and GT is the only one in his world.
All ST wish is to treat him as a family, a brother who GT can rely on and talk about how he is feeling but he always end up being treated as a kid, an idiot, an abnormal person who know nothing. They are all becoming adult and ST is not the kid that he used to be 20 years ago. GT also have to learn the fact that ST is an adult who has his own thoughts and respect him.
When u only have each other in both worlds, lying is the worst and make people feeling like being abandoned. You lie because u don’t think that person will understand you if you say the truth. In my opinion, ST understand GT more than GT understand him. And of course, ST is also at fault for hitting GT’s wound. They both need to grow up, talk properly and apologize to each other.
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I am just thinking it as, writer is God and the characters are just normal human being. There are times In life we failed because fate play us.
However, I do agreed that fact that writer is cruel and they should not suffer every cycle.
If fate is something that you can't change, then you just need to find the best way to enjoy your live in the unfortunate world. Even if you can't change 100%, you can still find your happiness.
PS: in manga, FL is so beautiful because her age freeze at "young beautiful age"! why look like old mother here!!! >•<
More importantly, I really would like to know who the writer is! so that I could give him or her a Slap!!
Actually, their IQ is good only got a problem with EQ~ :P
Trust me, people do stupid things everyday. Another thing is you should try to understand their culture. Not the whole world is the same.