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Replying to Ivy Aug 10, 2025
Title Beyond the Bar Spoiler
From the pro-choice camp.It's ultimately her choice but I think it's also something she should have talked to…
I really like your perspective and in that 1st parag. Its seems the main issue was the decision she made but not communicating to the one she loved and married.
"I don't think Yun was the problem, just the timing, which IMO is completely valid" this statement right here is very profound. My question though is, we may know/think this but does Lawyer Yun also thinks this. This is where it gets tricky cause maybe this poor guy spend years thinking, I caused this, it's my fault, I pushed her into this....
All this will seriously affect tour mental wellbeing and nowonder the guys always look constipated. So if their marriage ended without proper COMMUNICATION....hmmmm I would say, its more unfair to him🤔 😕
P.S. Love a male pov on this so thanks.
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Replying to Ivy Aug 10, 2025
Title Beyond the Bar Spoiler
From the pro-choice camp.It's ultimately her choice but I think it's also something she should have talked to…
Thanks for that link, very interesting. Just reminds recently a friend of mine said if she were to get pregnant right now, she will immediately abort and no questions asked. And her reason was not that she hates kids or never wants them it's that for now, she doesn't cause she hasn't had her ish together, mentally, financially, environmentally etc. So like you said, people sometimes forget that there are so many factor that could lead to someone making that decision.
Yeah I hope the drama handles this one sensitively. Ideally, I would want to see the exes meet and she explain that actually her decisions have got nothing to do with him so she can continue with her happy path and release him for maybe guilt, self doubt or hate from thinking he was the cause.
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On Legend of the Female General Aug 10, 2025
Now this is CHEMISTRY....and I'm melting over here 😍 🥰
Once I got over the everyone-is gender-blind issue, I'm all in for this drama and thanks to Zhou Ye to make me LOL every chance she gets...like for real 😂😂😂. So safe to say, we have a love triangle, which I'm not worried about cause our ML character is delicious looking...like man he's hot. Those eyes, aaah...my ❤️ Plus, he is the protagonist so the plot amour is on his side. I actually like Chu Zhao, he is cute but I don't get him. What would have been fun is if he and his sidekick who seems to have the hots for him join hands with our main duo and kick bu*** to the real villains. Cause so far I'm failing to understand why the vengeance, what happened to him and why target someone who seems to have been involved at all 🤔😏🤨
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Replying to Lmorgan0220 Aug 10, 2025
What baffles me is if you’re so adamantly opposed to having children then don’t let it happen. There’s ways,…
True...sometimes people forget that as long as they open their legs do the deed, there are chances of....you know....sigh
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Replying to aeducan15 Aug 10, 2025
I think wholeheartedly being in agreement to not have a child, or at least not try for a child is pretty common,…
You're absolutely right. A couple may start on the same page and then one might change or one might not have been on that same page wholeheartedly to begin with. But im this case, I think it was more of a communication either not deep enough or broken. For instance, these 2 could have explored the what ifs way earlier so when it happens the would handle it better. Or better yet, the wife should have at least clued him on what's what before handling it herself.
My question thougb would be, is it because she didn't want to or didn't want to with him given that last scene. Regardless, I think of the psychological impact it will have to the one ex.
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On Beyond the Bar Aug 9, 2025
Title Beyond the Bar Spoiler
Yo...Beyond the Bar is definitely dropping some bars, here. I have since dropped Law and the City and this is my new obsession.
That last scene...Woah what..."Our little miracle" are we talking about Hashi?? or a human miracle 🤭😲
Lawyer Yun-nim, do you know this cause woooow.
Okay the My body my choice troopers where are you cause I'm seeking your 2 cents on this nicely presented case study....
To summarise, Lawyer Yun and his wife made a decision not to have children (not sure how that conversation went but it seems he went along with this decision against his heart...just an inkling). After marriage and a while later, his wife gets pregnant, doesn't tell hubby and I guess she terminated it quietly. Ofc, Lawyer Yun finds out, addressed this which led to the truth. So it's highly probable that this led to the demise of their marriage. And now they coparent their fur baby. And it seems ex wifey remarried, and has a little miracle coming up which I suspect to be a baby. So how do we all feel about this one.
Oh and my Anti-choice/pro-baby troopers, what do you think of this case.
P.S. Sorry if it's an annoying request, I'm just curious about peoples opinions especially on this case.
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Replying to Ximena Aug 4, 2025
Xue Man has every right to suspect Bei Ming kills her father. If Bei Ming is innocent, he won't runaway and hide…
Oh you misunderstood me completely. I'm not emotional AT ALL 😂😂 I'm merely arguing the logic and emotions involved. And like I said, I never doubted ML charactet reactions especially how he empathise and even feel guilty about everything. I would too. That guy was too arrogant and O bet he thinks heis arrogance led to his mentor's death hence the guilt . But he tried and tried to tell this FL character he didn't kill him, even making so logical statements and yet this gal decide to believe what she wants to believe. We have to agree to disagree on this one.
P.S. Apart from thinking I'm being emotional (which is wrong) I gotta thank you for being nice in your arguments.
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Replying to Xiao Bai Aug 4, 2025
Didn't you see his video? He was happy around his wife, was smiling, and loved his dog. Something and he still…
Not saying he wasn't happy. I'm talking about his current state. If you think broken hearted man needs a woman to mend then that's fine...I will not judge. I just beg to differ. Why do a woman have to be the one to make him change. I just feel like we all need to do inner work, make changes ourselves before being involved with someone else. That's my opinion
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Replying to Ximena Aug 4, 2025
Xue Man has every right to suspect Bei Ming kills her father. If Bei Ming is innocent, he won't runaway and hide…
He is empathising with her...it's not Logically speaking...come on now.
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Replying to Ximena Aug 4, 2025
Xue Man has every right to suspect Bei Ming kills her father. If Bei Ming is innocent, he won't runaway and hide…
My dear, it's not for us....hahaha
I reject this type of logic.
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Replying to Ximena Aug 4, 2025
Xue Man has every right to suspect Bei Ming kills her father. If Bei Ming is innocent, he won't runaway and hide…
Hmmm a dumb wife would belive that and leave it at that. A smart wife would belive that and then start do some digging about this so called husband and mistress so she get all her facts in order for divorce.
We can excuse her reaction on the scene but 3 years later she sti thinks he killed her dad despite all the so called evidence she collected. Naaah she is just dumb. Plus like I have already said, she doesn't need to do much but go back to the first murders and ask herself where was he...and she will have her answer then. Tbh I feel for the guy cause thats a double betrayal he is going through.
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Replying to Ximena Aug 4, 2025
Xue Man has every right to suspect Bei Ming kills her father. If Bei Ming is innocent, he won't runaway and hide…
Logical Plot! Where?
Okay let's use your argument right... you say why runaway if you are innocent....Hmmm because 1)you are being framed so you need time to figure this out without having someone running after you to kill you 2) Didn't he got stabbed and poisoned...logic would be, is he alive or dead not why did you run away.
3) it's not his actions that are the problem but the FL character actions that are a Mega problem. Her thinking WTH did you kill my dad when she found him is logical, but her thinking thst he did for 3 whole fu*** years is ridiculous. This giy was not a stranger to her....they grew up together, trained, eat, train, converse together and she believes he could kill the man who raised him out of the blue.
Make it make sense!
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On Beyond the Bar Aug 4, 2025
Omg, that so called boyfriend is a self-proclaimed jerka**. Like dumping someone for having a family member with a hereditary condition is madness. Tbh he talks should have been enough to tell Hyo Min that he is no good so I wonder why spend a whole year with that Self-proclaimed jerk. It's not like she is a self-proclaimed dumba** 🙄
Okay what is exactly is YSH's deal, I mean his personal life 🤔 He walks around carrying this morose face everywhere and I thought maybe it's cause his wife passed away and he is still grieving. But was that not the wife?? arriving at the dog day centre soon after he left or am I tripping 🤔
Tbvh I really don't want any romance here especially if it becomes about a woman who comes and heals this man's emotional wound. Woman don't need projects in form of men, thank you.
I really like Hyo min cause she is centred. Her high IQ and EQ are well balanced so just want to see her thrive in her job not make a man smile (who couldn't before because of another woman).
Btw, damn that guy (forgot his name) has been in so many dramas lately albert type casted toi as the never serious, comical, loud friend. Isn't he on Law and the City too with similar personality. And he was in that doctor drama with that smiliar personality....wow. Guess, if it ain't broke, don't fix it.
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On The Wanted Detective Aug 4, 2025
3 ep. in and I'm out. Aaah, I hate it sooo much when these dramas prepare these illogical plot lines. So you are telling me that this girl (FL) went through 3 whole years still thinking her husband?/childhood friend/comrade/father's godson etc killed her father...like haaah. And then she poisoned him. Like maaam, really, with what evidence or even possibilities would he be able to pull that off. Like he (ML) said, she knows him better than anyone so really with her little wits, can't she think could he have done this. I mean when in doubt, she could have just looked at his whereabouts when those first 3 ministers were killed and albert he probably was nowhere near the scene. I mean, make this story make sense. So since I'm not sold on the plot, I will just stop now before my frustration grow.
Btw, I see absolutely 0 chemistry between these two. I mean was there even love between these 2 because, I would never set up a trap to catch criminals on my wedding say.
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Replying to onmyway123 Jul 31, 2025
I’m sooo here for these original drama-only plots! Like, no novel spoilers, no clue what’s comin’—just…
Yes, a fresh script so we go in without bias. Man, if I tell you how my experience of Immortal Ascension has been tainted by the novel readers. And it's not that they provided spoiler but the mere fact the novel is very long which means the series story could be affected. So I say, yay for original drama scripts.
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On The Immortal Ascension Jul 31, 2025
After reading the comments I'm literally on a pause with this drama cause some say it's pretty impossible to cram everything that is in the novel/donghua into a 30ep. drama. Which means either 1) they will chop this story and condense everything i to a nonsensical way. 2) its gonna be an open ending leaving room for a sequel. And I don't like either. One thing I cannot seem to be able to do is watch dramas with seasons or shall I say watch the next season after the 1st one. I've tried it and can't do it. Everything always fall flat for me after the 1st season so I gave up. Nonetheless, I'm holding out hope on Imperial coroner (please be decent).
Or it could turn out great ....a miracle = hmmmmm don't know about that.
So I will leave things to run it's cause I guess.
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Replying to Da-mimi Jul 31, 2025
Hmmm.. i dont understand the supposed righteousness of the righteousness sects... stealing from.one another killing…
Oh the So-called righteousness are the devils in sheeps clothing. Each time I see a drama with this introduction, I automatically go on the sect's side. And even though the demon sect are literally demonised, they always have a gripping story behi d their actions whilst the righteousness whatever always do evil just cause...
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On Sword Rose Jul 30, 2025
Title Sword Rose
I just know that if my child were to be abducted (touch wood), I would go vigilante and find him/her myself. I'm not leaving it to the police, no offence, cause these guys are mostly swamped with cases so I will take the matters into my own hands. Yeah, if those abductors haven't seen evil, well thy will see it in the name of me. Anyone I suspect, I will burn them alive...will literally give them hell on this earth. And I pray it never happens to me or anyone I know cause I don't know my limit to how far I would go.
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Replying to vidalme01 Jul 30, 2025
Title Sword Rose
Sorry, for a parent to screem at the police for not doing their job to find your missing child is just fucking…
There!!! Absolutely true. The things that they put police into smh.. Like thsi case of the baby in a stroller.. like why oh why would someone leave a baby unattended to go play hero. Like I could never given what this world is like. So I was screaming to the daughter...maam, your anger is misplaced, if you want someone to blame, blame your mother. Not that I want the blame game cause it does nothing apart from creating hatred.
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