this was much better than I anticipated. The romance is very cute, the fl is actually were smart, and it is actually shown not only told. the twists are actually pretty good planned and there is quite a lot of foreshadowing going which I love, but without actually giving it away.
I agree on all of that. At least you could see Yuan Song fall for Fang Xin, but I still wonder why Fang Xin liked him. Though I personally grew to like him, there was no reason for FX to be with him other than him being at the right place at the right time, being the first potential boyfriend. They had better chemistry when they were broken up. They're whole relationship was rooted with the anxiety of how FX would fuck it all up and at the end, when their relationship was revealed, NOBODY had anything to say against it. There were literally NO consequences of her dating a guy 10 years younger, so their whole issue was for nothing at all.
I find this drama to be very relatable its a great drama overall. I do not know how people could feel otherwise.…
I think it's more of a problem of Fang Xin, her disability to convey her issues was deeply rooted with her insecurity in their relationship. Communication is always hard, but it has to be done at some point. The only thing I remember she ever tried to talk to him about was that she returned the necklace - a secret that has not been revealed to him until the end, she didn't even think of asking him if and how he could afford it, she just assumed. What I mean with she didn't even try, is that she didn't even *thought* about talking to him about most of their issues. I almost pretty sure that all her complaints and thoughts were explained to Yuan Song by other people. I don't hate Fang Xin, I did like her a lot in the second half, and I liked that she actually was able to convey her opinions to Lu Ming, though I guess that was more because she was used to talking with him, rather than her having learned anything from her relationship with Yuan Song. However, it is the perfect example of her trying to communicate her wishes to him, and Lu Ming just ignoring that. More than her experience being the issue, I'd say they didn't know each other enough, and that their relationship just developed a little to quickly for her to get used to Yuan Song, and of course that she could always escape the communication because their relationship was a secret and she didn't think it was gonna be forever.
I would've never expected to like the post-break up part much more. I guess it's because for a change Fan Xing actually gave her best, though it wasn't for the guy I was rooting for. I really disliked her in the beginning, because I really thought she was treating Yuan Song very unfairly, despite me totally understanding her issues. However, I like that both matured and developed after breaking up and that the causes and reasons were on both sides. I feel sorry, that I don't feel sorry for Lu Ming. In the beginning he was just manipulating her feelings and using her inexperience, then he fooled her into the next relationship without giving her any time whatsoever. After that he just continued to push his agenda on her, not considering her feelings at all while forcing progress in their relationship she wasn't ready for. And then he wondered why she wasn't already over her ex and madly in love with him. It's good that he realized all that by himself, but it still won't get him any browny points. IMO he crossed every boundary there was while still remaining as the nice guy. Also, Fan Xing and Can Yang's parents really were biased. Their reaction over their two kid dating people 10 years younger then them was completely different, and it wasn't really stressed wether their problem lied with Min Min being Lu Ming's niece. Overall, I really did like the second part of the drama a lot. I liked the side stories as well, Fan Xing's friend were very interesting to me and while I liked Fan Xing "finding herself", I don't think I learned anything particularly from this.
hey guys so whats the deal with mumu manager or am i missing something
I glad I am not the only one confused. As what I gathered so far, I guess the lawyer is threatening her with something which made her change sides, but I am really clueless as to what does documents are supposed to be and why she has to break them up for it.
I find this drama to be very relatable its a great drama overall. I do not know how people could feel otherwise.…
I agree on all of this, and it's not that I don't understand Fang Xin's struggles, it's just that I really dislike that she is unable to communicate with her lover. The only thing I really disagree on is that Lu Ming is not manipulative. Because he absolutely is. He hid his real agenda, gave Fang Xin advice that he knew would sooner or later cause her and Yuan Song to break up. He infiltrated her family and often tricked her into couple-like events. If he wasn't manipulative, he would respect her being already taken, be honest about his feelings or at least he wouldn n´
I find this drama to be very relatable its a great drama overall. I do not know how people could feel otherwise.…
I guess my biggest issue lies with Fang Xing. I know it's her first relationship, but a lot of decisions she makes could just be solved with common sense, and/or talking to your partner - what she literally never does. I find it extremely difficult to root for a women that praises herself being an adult but fails to communicate. Just based on that, Yuan Song seems so much more mature than her. It makes me sick, because I am watching Fang Xing getting hardcore manipulated by Lu Ming, and her relationship with Yuan Song therefore sees no real development. From the beging on, I felt that their relationship was too sudden and missing something, while we saw Yuan Song being shy and excited in her presence, it felt like for Fang Xing feelings only came because she slept with him. It makes me sick, because I am basically seeing Yuan Song getting used by her for love experience. This poor boy gives all of his heart to her, and she only thinks about how long she can keep him a secret until she has to break up with him. Not once so far has she envision a future with him, because she believes they have an expiry date. While I know that there have to be issues and conflicts to make it a story, I am just tired of the seemingly endless repetition of the same problems. Like I said, I am not even halfway through but I know that their relatioon´ Wether it's relatable or not, I find no fun in watching it.
They're whole relationship was rooted with the anxiety of how FX would fuck it all up and at the end, when their relationship was revealed, NOBODY had anything to say against it. There were literally NO consequences of her dating a guy 10 years younger, so their whole issue was for nothing at all.
What I mean with she didn't even try, is that she didn't even *thought* about talking to him about most of their issues. I almost pretty sure that all her complaints and thoughts were explained to Yuan Song by other people.
I don't hate Fang Xin, I did like her a lot in the second half, and I liked that she actually was able to convey her opinions to Lu Ming, though I guess that was more because she was used to talking with him, rather than her having learned anything from her relationship with Yuan Song. However, it is the perfect example of her trying to communicate her wishes to him, and Lu Ming just ignoring that.
More than her experience being the issue, I'd say they didn't know each other enough, and that their relationship just developed a little to quickly for her to get used to Yuan Song, and of course that she could always escape the communication because their relationship was a secret and she didn't think it was gonna be forever.
However, I like that both matured and developed after breaking up and that the causes and reasons were on both sides.
I feel sorry, that I don't feel sorry for Lu Ming. In the beginning he was just manipulating her feelings and using her inexperience, then he fooled her into the next relationship without giving her any time whatsoever. After that he just continued to push his agenda on her, not considering her feelings at all while forcing progress in their relationship she wasn't ready for. And then he wondered why she wasn't already over her ex and madly in love with him.
It's good that he realized all that by himself, but it still won't get him any browny points. IMO he crossed every boundary there was while still remaining as the nice guy.
Also, Fan Xing and Can Yang's parents really were biased. Their reaction over their two kid dating people 10 years younger then them was completely different, and it wasn't really stressed wether their problem lied with Min Min being Lu Ming's niece.
Overall, I really did like the second part of the drama a lot. I liked the side stories as well, Fan Xing's friend were very interesting to me and while I liked Fan Xing "finding herself", I don't think I learned anything particularly from this.
Tine: What?
S: Choose.
T: 1
S: 2 means I'm hitting on you. 1 means you're getting hit on ... by me. Both mean "I like you"
The only thing I really disagree on is that Lu Ming is not manipulative. Because he absolutely is. He hid his real agenda, gave Fang Xin advice that he knew would sooner or later cause her and Yuan Song to break up. He infiltrated her family and often tricked her into couple-like events.
If he wasn't manipulative, he would respect her being already taken, be honest about his feelings or at least he wouldn n´
I find it extremely difficult to root for a women that praises herself being an adult but fails to communicate. Just based on that, Yuan Song seems so much more mature than her.
It makes me sick, because I am watching Fang Xing getting hardcore manipulated by Lu Ming, and her relationship with Yuan Song therefore sees no real development. From the beging on, I felt that their relationship was too sudden and missing something, while we saw Yuan Song being shy and excited in her presence, it felt like for Fang Xing feelings only came because she slept with him.
It makes me sick, because I am basically seeing Yuan Song getting used by her for love experience. This poor boy gives all of his heart to her, and she only thinks about how long she can keep him a secret until she has to break up with him. Not once so far has she envision a future with him, because she believes they have an expiry date.
While I know that there have to be issues and conflicts to make it a story, I am just tired of the seemingly endless repetition of the same problems. Like I said, I am not even halfway through but I know that their relatioon´
Wether it's relatable or not, I find no fun in watching it.