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Oh? Some of the comments made it seem like she does as much for him as he does for her lol so that's not the case?

I'm a woman and I would love to see most otps be both characters falling just as hard instead of the ml always being obsessed and fl having him as number 9274 on her priority list but as you said most people want this kind of very unequal dynamic.

Lol I'm laughing because those are the only options, a FL falling harder or even just as hard is basically unheard of.

Oh we're getting the express? I haven't caught up on the last episodes (from 22), The thing I loved about this drama is it seemed MJ really loved CY as much as he loves her and is willing to be as devoted towards him as he is her which is sooo rare in cdramas where MLs almost always do all the work and are much more devoted but some of the spoilers I saw re the latest episodes and some comments saying she doesn't treat him well and he's a doormat etc makes me think they're back to the usual cdrama dynamics, can I ask is that the case?

Is it a good love story? I don't need kisses but I need actual equality and balance i.e both characters putting in as much effort and as devoted towards eo like Love between fairy and devil or veil of shadows where fl is as in love and puts in as much effort unlike most cdramas where the ml is giving 110% and getting 5% in return.

Is it a good love story? I don't need kisses or hugs but I need actual equality and balance i.e both characters putting in as much effort and as devoted towards eo like Love between fairy and devil or Lighter and princess unlike most cdramas where the ml is giving 110% and getting 5% in return.

Hi! Appreciate the response, also I'm a woman too and I like my otps to be as responsive and caring towards each other whether they're women or men tbh .

Thank you again, it's hard to know atp because most recent dramas are extremely one sided with the mls carrying the entire rlsps on their backs. Something like It's okay that's love or I hear your voice or Queen and I which were very balanced vs the newer dramas like Filing for love and Love next door, Spirit fingers where the ml is the down bad loser doing 90% of the work and chasing and everything else.

Thanks, everyone is talking about ml and how much of a greenflag he is but I don't enjoy one sided ships where the ml is more in love and does everything. Is that the case here? Because judging by the comments he seems way more into her than she is into him...

Is she the same, as in as in love and giddy and sweet towards him as he is towards her?

I dislike those dramas too, romance to me is two people being in love, not just one. I'll wait for more episodes then since it seems like it could go either way.

This one seems promising, any chance of it being a actual love story i.e focused on both leads and them being just as caring and supportive towards each other? Or is it like most recent kdramas ; fl's story and ml is only there to be the greenflag down bad loser in love.

😂 Surely it can't be 50/50 that's asking for too much (sarcasm), thank you for the answer and I'll ask for your opinion again when it's over.

Is there a chance in hell this is one of the rare balanced equal otps? Or should I just go back to rewatching older dramas 😂. Per our discussion in the Never ending summer comments you seem to be one of the only people who knows what a mutual otp is and isn't 100% focused on MLs feelings as long as FL doesn't murder him it's considered equal when it's almost always 80-20 if we're being generous.

Thank you, I saw the character dynamics being compared to Love beyond the grave and that's the furthest thing from mutually and equally devoted like 99% of cdramas so I wasn't interested tbh.

I don't mind spoilers but in general just tell me if the ml is as important to the FL as she is to him, is she as devoted and as in love with him as he is with her. Basically an otp like the one from LBFAD vs well... Almost every cdrama but for example are you the one, kunning palace or Till the end of the moon where the ml is obsessed and the you can barely tell if the FL is in love.

Does that RR entail everything that comes with the ML being the dominant one? as in is the FL the protector, the care taker, the one who is giving more in the rlsp like every ML or is it the usual cdrama dynamic with the guy madly in love and the woman with him as number 8928 on her priority list?

Much appreciated, I need true equality and mutual love to invest in a romance and that's something we almost never get nowadays since it seems almost every romance has the ml obsessed the entire drama and the fl lukewarm at best so it sucks as someone who believes romance is two people as in love and devoted but it is what it is.

It's not about the percentage, when almost every drama is much more in love and doing all the work that's not romance to me, that's not love. I doubt most people would think the same and not care how unequal it is if it was the opposite and the FLs were doing almost everything in most dramas while the mls barely lifted a finger. And honestly just saying you don't care about percentages tells me that it's not balanced or equal at all.

"They love each other so much" what does that mean if it's not supported by actions and words for me to believe it, this is a written narrative not random real life, if the ML is madly in love about to drop from exhaustion but still picks up the FL, what is the FL's equivalent action that shows me her love etc? Again if the ML and the FL's roles were reversed in this drama would you have no problem with it and find them as in love as you do now? Would you put as much emphasis on his actions and how much he's doing for her if she was the one waiting and making trips and he was the one doing whatever she's doing which I don't even know because all anyone is talking about is the ML and how in love he is which leads me to believe that it's not equal and that's real love to me especially in fiction.

It's your prerogative if you prefer dynamics where the ML is way more devoted that's the way most people feel but I was asking for me personally because I don't, if it was reversed the FL was doing more I would dislike it just as much, like I said, real love and romance to me is genuine equal devotion not a down bad ML and a FL who gives 15%, just like it wouldn't be a down bad FL and a ML that gives 15%. Lol sorry that got long.

Yeah, LBL the lines was basically the only drama this year that had a balanced dynamic which is kind of crazy considering how many romance dramas have come out in the last six months, I honestly don't know why or when did a love story become a madly in love man doing everything and having no self respect and a woman who barely cares about him and prioritizes everything before him.

I love badass strong and independent FLs but it seems like that's not what this is( in general not this drama), bc you can both be in love and be a well written female character. And if your story is a romance and it's not just a small part of it, then I would expect equal focus on both characters and the strength of their feelings for eo but it looks like we're in the "wish fulfillment" pretend you're the FL era of romance where the MLs role begins and ends with being down bad to insane levels and the FL can barely muster a word of devotion and a single act of care towards the last few episodes. If the roles were reversed people would be soooo mad bc this isn't how love is supposed to be but alas.