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a show about finding love but also one's journey of healing

WAAHHHH why is it over? I kid you not, I stopped watching 2/3s in BECAUSE I DIDN’T WANT IT TO END. I have also literally booked an appointment with a TCM clinic too. I already have a husband locked in though so no rich TCM cutie patootie for me.

Shen Xi Fan and He Su Ye were written in the stars, in the flowers, and in the universe. I have soooo many thoughts about this show but I forgot to write them all down ASAP so I don’t know where to start. I just know that this show is a very HAPPY and LIGHT show for the most part DESPITE the premise also being about healing. While Shen Xi Fan has to heal from her emotionally abusive ex, He Su Ye is also having to re-confront his relationship with his semi-estranged father despite the resentment of his father’s lack of care while his mother died of breast cancer. Somehow, the bright & blossoming cinematography as the backdrop of their pure healing chemistry alleviates the heaviness of the show’s topics.

Watching He Su Ye try to “lowkey” win Shen Xi Fan over was perfection. Fake drunk, fake asleep, swooping in to defend her, making her scent sachets – the list goes onnnn.

While the show was more “slice of life” vibes overall, the main climax is when Shen Xi Fan’s mother is sick. This puts pressure on Shen Xi Fan to “choose” between her family and her dream to study abroad. While I wish her mother was never actually sick, it is the reality overall that so many women are affected by breast cancer. Luckily, the show gives her a HFN and she is on the mend. I did love Shen Xi Fan and her mom’s heart to heart about Shen Xi Fan still pursuing her education. It’s nice because Shen Xi Fan can say she did it, tried it, and still chose to come back to her home and family.

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a romance fated to be my obsession

FIRST WATCH REVIEW (10/24-27/25)
Lets start with the negatives of this show because it’s a short list. Basically, whoever was in charge of music, liked the song “fated hearts” a bit too much. Maybe because it was named the same as the show? I don’t know but in the show it was OVER PLAYED. That said, if I ignore that and just listen to the OST on it’s own the other songs are great and I’m not sure why they used them so much less than the first song. Someone else pointed out the music was too loud to hear the actual actors which I can’t say matters to me since I need subtitles regardless, but that is something that can be noted. Not a deal breaker for me though. Lastly, I really wish that Fu Yi Xiao had called Xia Jing Shi on the fact that he was running death camps. I know some things don’t need to be said, but I feel like sometimes the villain is SO blind to their hypocrisy that I just want it said out loud.

That’s it. Those are all my negative thoughts. I’m sure if I realllly wanted to nit pick I could find some other small things, but this show was just so excellent. I hate blood and gore but with this show, I can excuse the squelches and blood for the good of the plot.

Time for a break down!!! I had so many thoughts as I was watching but ofc now it’s hard to remember everything. For now, I think a review for this show makes more sense by per person rather than chronological plot.

Fu Yi Xiao and Feng Sui Ge were phenomenal. I loved just how regal and benevolent **Fu Yi Xiao** is throughout the show. We *meet* her shooting down Feng Sui Ge with no remorse but then killing several assassins and trying to help a stranger from being caught in the crossfire. We know from this, she is a strong and determined woman. From there her personality only strengthens and grows as she investigates the truth. **Feng Sui Ge** is just so *melt worthy.* Chen Zhe Yuan does SUCH an excellent job of the hard as stone man melting for an amazing woman. She is useful to him so he compromises, but the cold hearted First Prince doesn’t seem to be so cold hearted as time goes by. **The two of them** really take on the world as everyone tries to betray and kill them. I love that they both fight amazingly, but mourn almost every death. When they killed the people they trust but that betrayed them, the way the memories flash is so well done. Its this balance of remorse but fight for maintaining integrity (1). I love that for the romance, once they are together, they do not break apart but rather continue to fight to be together. It was BEAUTIFUL AND I WANT MORE. I want them to really be happy and living well haha.

Murong Yao and his father, Murong Zhong, were interesting to watch unfold. I had a gut feeling **Murong Yao** was going to be a villain and the man in the mask not right away, but pretty early on. It was a tad disappointing because you really sympathize with all the betrayals Feng Sui Ge has had to experience. Murong Yao was hard to “figure out” other than he was traumatized by that childhood event and never unpacked it – because what do you mean Feng Sui Ge has been your *best friend* since childhood, but you have wanted vengeance for over 10 years of that friendship? Its weird because he claims to have cared for Feng Sui Ge but everything feels tainted by the fact that he’s been wanting to “reclaim the Murong family name”. It was painful to watch Feng Sui Ge suffer deeply as he thought of all their memories and closeness. If only Murong had just said something to Feng Sui Ge all those years ago, maybe he could have had a healthy path forward. I was also frustrated because Feng Sui Ge was a CHILD. He was protected because he is the First Prince, but that was never his choice. He was never malicious or arrogant with Murong Yao due to his position (4). He spoiled Murong Yao if anything and Yao was afforded such an extravagant and wasteful life, but still he wasn’t satisfied because to him Feng Sui Ge had it even better and the Emperor was to blame for all his woes. I think what really disappointed me though, is **Murong Zhong**. I loved that Murong Zhong was such a simple and loyal man. All he cared about was his son’s happiness and the royal family’s safety. I had really hoped he’d hold his son accountable but instead joined him in treachery (2). This show was SMART though because in the Murong family home, one of the “courts” is called **“**e***mbrace simplicity and uphold the truth”** (3)*. I wanted him to hold Murong Yao accountable but the way the plot unfolded was still well done. It was curious though, that when Murong Zhong was begging the Emperor for leniency, I thought the Empror gave it. But Murong Zhong kept asking the Emperor and the First Prince for help, so I thought I misunderstood the Emperor. ONLY FOR Feng Sui Ge’s last words to Murong Zhong to be that he and the Emperor never actually planned to kill Murong Yao anyways. But of course, the bad guys have to force the good guys’ hand.

Feng Cheng Yang and his mother, Empress Zhuang, where almost a precise contrast to Murong Yao and his father. While Murong Yao leads his father astray, **Cheng Yang** tries to get his mother to turn away from evil. **Cheng Yang** is not an unloyal son – he does what he can to keep the peace between his parents, brother, and even his grandfather. He has no desire to steal the throne from his brother, but **his mother** was obsessed with the Emperor and hated the previous Empress. Rather than be content with the life she had after her father killed the previous Empress, she projected her sins and hatred onto Feng Sui Ge. She was adamant that Feng Sui Ge wanted to kill her, and while he hated her for obvious and fair reasons, her manic disposition and insistence that Feng Cheng Yang must become Emperor or they will die was her way of deflecting her own role in the tragic past. Her spiral into insanity felt very Lady Macbeth-ian. I think it was executed well, because she never really got her hands “dirty” until she actively killed the Emperor but her jealousy and paranoia had already been eating at her. I LOVED when Feng Cheng Yang clocked his mother’s own hypocrisy. She was livid that the Zhuang’s had been sidelined by the Emperor, but was ready and eager to do the same to the Murong family (4).

Now to talk about Xia Jing Shi, Xia Jing Yan, and Feng Xi Yang. They need to be talked about specifically for the context and lens of viewing Xia Jing Yan (Emperor of Jinxiu). **Xia Jing Shi** was tormented as a kid and lived a horrible life with his brother and step-mother. This is undeniable and clear. He had to get scrappy and harden to survive, but in true film fashion he is the foil to Feng Sui Ge. Feng Sui Ge wasn’t tortured quite the same way but his own father wanted him to be so heartless as to usrp the throne and at every turn people would betray and try to kill him. And yet, Feng Sui Ge leads an army loyal to him not out of pity or fear, but rather out of a shared desire to protect the kingdom and it’s people (1). But Xia Jing Shi has his army from death camps. He fosters a false sense of care from the people he wants to use. He torments and tortures to *force* loyalty. Fu Yi Xiao thought he saved her, she thought he was a man of principle that cared for those around him. But at the end of the day, his revenge was worth the lives of endless innocent people including but not limited to Feng Xi Yang. **Feng Xi Yang** was inarguably very stupid for not heeding her brother’s warning about Xia Jing Shi. Never does a healthy romance start with “I can change him”, but that said, her one mistake was loving him. Can’t fault her when she was indeed sheltered and clueless about reality. I love that she actually is VERY similar to Feng Sui Ge becoming as decisive & unbending as him. She does not let her circumstance cage her in from pushing back. Last but not least, **Xia Jing Yan**. As an actor, Qin Tian Yu is getting his flowers for such an excellent portrayal and I couldn’t agree more. Xia Jing Yan is temperamental at best, a murderous manic at worst. He bullies his brother endlessly and I do think his abuse directly led to his own demise. It felt very much a self-fulfilling prophecy. Would Xia Jing Shi been so evil if his brother had loved him and treated him well? We will never know, but of course constantly treating Xia Jing Shi like an outsider and a person who will rebel only encouraged that to become true. But the depth the writers gave Xia Jing Yan was unparalleled to *anyone* else in the show including the protagonists. His character as Feng Xi Yang 1000% gave dark romance because he is in fact unwell, but that doesn’t change the reality that when he told his mom Feng Xi Yang didn’t need to bewitch him, all she did was need him, I understood where he was coming from immediately. I cannot relate to him at all in reality, but when he told his mom why he was so into Feng Xi Yang, I immediately sympathized with him. As the Emperor, he can do whatever he wants, but his mother has always undermined him and based of the few flashbacks, his father preferred Jing Shi so expectations of him were so low he had no reason to try or be better. Feng Xi Yang is terribly honest with him that she need him so she will do whatever to get what she wants. When she insists on going back to Susha his sadness was palpable because he would have to return to a life where he is alone and no one needs him. Ironically Xi Yang wanted to change Jing Shi with her love, but changed Jing Yan with their symbiotic relationship. When Jing Yan is being beaten and bruised, he still refuses to bend to Jing Shi. But once Jing Shi sets his eyes on Xi Yang, Jing Yan immediately crumbles. He begs for Jing Shi to spare her and the unborn child. And it is that moment that both viewers and Xi Yang realize how much more of a man for Jing Yan was for Xi Yang than Jing Shi ever was. Regardless of his many sins, he had officially changed. I honestly think if Jing Yan had survived the coup, he and Xi Yang *could* have had a new chapter.

**Feng Ping Cheng** was an infuriating emperor but even more frustrating father. When we learn about Wei Qing Yu’s death and how Feng Ping Cheng resented her, it truly explained his stupid parenting. He only wanted Feng Sui Ge to be Emperor, but wanted Feng Sui Ge to break as an empathetic warrior and rebuild as a power crazy man. The show does a good job of showing Ping Cheng’s obsession with power and his son taking the throne, but I still wish we saw a bit more. We know that he fought wars and is the first ruler for the land but I will never understand his logic. Probably because I would be more aligned with Wei Qing Yu’s logic. He also had an interesting form of love for Wei Qing Yu and Feng Sui Ge. He “loved” them but really he just wanted to “possess” and have control over them.

Honorable mentions, **Ling Xue Ying** was a cute doctor character and her father was also integral to the plot as a miracle healer saving all my babies to maintain my HEA.

**Xiao Wei Ran** was layered and complicated, but ultimately dullened by the reality he forsake his principles and brotherhood. ~~I really wish he knew just how horrible Jing Shi truly is. We know he has an idea, but I can’t help but wonder how his choices might have differed if he knew Jing Shi still had the death camps running.~~ [After second watch, I realize he DID know. What an idiot.]

**Ning Fei** was a wholesome character and I am glad Fu Yi Xiao got to maintain at least one brother. I knew he was going to end up with Ling Xue Ying haha. I am so glad he didn’t die.

Overall, the pacing of the show is amazing. It felt so seamless how each plot point folded into the next. It’s also well done specifically because the plot doesn’t linger. We are wondering if the protagonists can get along, then slowly but also quickly they do. We wonder who shot Fu Yi Xiao, then we find out and move on to the masked man but then we find that out too. Honestly by the 20th episode I didn’t understand how there would still be 18 episodes when issues were resolved so quickly, but the writers maintained such a healthy tempo for the plot as we watch the lives of so many different characters unfold.

### Original Thoughts & Ideas
I had SO MUCH to say in my review that I am linking the “plot points” in my review to my thoughts here.
1. Fu Yi Xiao grew up an orphan and in a death camp. After Feng Sui Ge’s mother was framed and murdered, he had no one he could trust or rely on *and* took on a paternal role to care for his sister. I think when you compare all the “antagonists” with the “protagonists”, you really hit up against the age old “trauma/being wronged does not mean you can disregard the life of others”. You can’t fight evil with kindness, but at what point does fighting back turn you into the same kind of person that wronged you? Xia Jing Shi hates his brother, Xia Jing Yan, with a passion and honestly I would too if I were him, but while Xia Jing Yan was able to find compassion for Feng Xi Yang and his unborn child, Xia Jing Shi still could not think beyond himself and tried to kill Feng Xi Yang simply for getting pregnant with Xia Jing Yan’s child.
2. This was a great example of why you should *not* love your child to the point of evil. I would like to think if my son tried killing the man he thought of as his best friend, I would hold him accountable and even if I don’t want him to die, I wouldn’t kill so many others in that cause. It actually makes me think about Prophet Ibrahim and how he almost killed his son Ismail. I honestly understood this story only on the most surface level of it’s lesson, but after this show, I realize that having devoted loyalty to a human is a dangerous game. This is proven several times in this show but more so between this father and son duo.
3. Embrace simplicity and uphold the truth: to what end is simplicity about being a pushover? Was Murong Zhong a pushover with how corrupt he let himself become? He went against the family governance of truth - he actively buried the truth. his son *literally* buried the truth when he thought Feng Sui Ge was dead. There’s something to be said that the Emperor, for all his many faults, *ACKNOWLEDGED* that if Murong Zhong wasn’t always away at the border, maybe Murong Yao would have been a better son and man. I felt like that moment was the epitome of all of Murong Zhong’s hard work truly being recognized, so to turn back on it just makes you think – what is a person’s line? what is their real goal? Is it recognition, power, money or maybe even something as debased as just revenge.
4. Power is an active evil. When Feng Cheng Yang called his mom out for wanting to sideline the Murong family, it highlighted that power is always insidiously working to corrupt. The Emperor couldn’t trust the Zhuang’s after they helped him claim the throne and the Empress couldn’t trust the Murong’s in the same situation, but so many humans do not know when to recognize enough is enough. They don’t know how to be grateful for all the things they do have, and instead dwell on what they don’t have.

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good drama

Crítica (Episódios 1–5):

Do episódio 1 ao 5, Love Beyond the Grave entrega um começo forte e envolvente. A abertura já te prende com visuais belíssimos e uma história intrigante, criando um clima misterioso e ao mesmo tempo emocional.

A construção do mundo é bem feita, revelando aos poucos os detalhes sem parecer apressado. Cada episódio adiciona mais profundidade aos personagens, especialmente os protagonistas, cuja química já é perceptível e cresce de forma natural.

A direção e a cinematografia continuam sendo um grande destaque — as cenas são visualmente deslumbrantes, com ótimo uso de iluminação e cores que elevam a atmosfera. A trilha sonora combina perfeitamente com os momentos emocionais, tornando as cenas importantes ainda mais impactantes.

O que torna esses primeiros episódios tão envolventes é o equilíbrio entre o desenvolvimento da trama e a construção emocional. Dá a sensação de que algo maior está se desenrolando, enquanto ainda mantém o foco na jornada pessoal dos personagens.

Até agora, é um começo muito promissor que te deixa querendo mais a cada episódio.

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P’Dome, I'm scared! I’ll never believe your 'Comedy' again! ??

At first, I expected this drama to be a lighthearted rom-com, but it turned out to be an emotional rollercoaster that kept me both laughing and crying. Every episode is packed with meaningful life lessons that resonate deeply and offer something new to learn each time. The acting is phenomenal, especially seeing the lead transition seamlessly between different facets of Santa character. One moment, he portrays the innocence of a clueless 7-year-old child so convincingly, and the next, he transforms into a mature, composed teacher. This stark contrast in his performance truly showcases his incredible range and dedication as an actor. The storytelling is rich and multifaceted, providing a perfect blend of humor, heart, and wisdom. It’s a masterpiece that offers a diverse range of emotions, making it a truly unforgettable viewing experience. Highly recommended for those who love deep characters!

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Skam but make it Korean (and make it THAT GOOD)

As someone who has watched most of the SKAM remakes, the OG version, and over 100 BL series, I can confidently say that this is the best show of its kind. It feels like a fusion of those two worlds—and please tell me I’m not the only one who noticed! I’m not usually a huge fan of Korean BLs, but this one absolutely blows something like Semantic Error out of the water.

​While watching, I kept wondering if the creator was inspired by SKAM. It wasn't a frame-by-frame copy, but the overall concept and the story felt like a constant nod to it. Does that bother me? ABSOLUTELY NOT.

​I’ve already watched it four times (maybe five?), and I feel like I’ll never get bored of it. Every single time, I experience it as if I’m seeing it for the first time.

​Let’s be real—Lim Ji Sub’s acting does an incredible job here. However, I feel like every character and every actor complemented each other to create one cohesive picture. Despite that, Kim Ji Hyeon’s transformation was the most visible, even though Seo Jae Won’s backstory was more detailed and developed, which really helped in understanding his character.

​I’ve seen some reviews complaining about the editing and "messy" cinematography. Personally, I love that atmosphere. The use of color was great—it started off all warm, and then the tones became cooler depending on the situation (even the characters' clothes!). The transitions also gave off that SKAM vibe, which only made me like it more. Amd maybe it's only me but it is worth to notice because it helps with understanding the storyline and emotions behind it.

​The Music – I’m so glad there was no music in the pivotal moments, like that scene on the beach. In other dramas, I often have to mute the sound during intense scenes because the music ruins the tension, but here? When there was music, it couldn't have been a better fit.

​I don’t know what else to say. I am absolutely in love, and I’m writing this review after multiple rewatches. It’s a total must-watch for all fans of K-dramas and BL. I’ll definitely be coming back to it.

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Arranged Marriage x Enemies to Lovers

This show was a perfect portrayal of love, loss, forgiveness and mercy in a world full of too many people that look after their own interests instead of the masses.

Two solid secondary characters died and one truly BROKE my heart but at the end of the day, the main couple gets their happy ever after and in this universe the lands actually find peace which I wish we could have in reality lol.

Original Thoughts & Ideas
- Is it really possible to give love unconditionally and if it is, can doing so mend old wounds? How does one learn to trust again after so many betrayals? To what end is revenge justified? If my parent’s make a mistake, am I to be held accountable?
- One life *can* make a huge difference. Her cousin felt she plays no role in the larger scheme of things but her choices directly impacted the FML and the politics that unfolded. Had she not died and removed herself as leverage, the story would have had a very different ending. On the flip side, I wonder, if her husband had just chosen to stand for what’s right outside of just ensuring his wife’s safety, how differently could the plot played out?

(I already plan to re-watch soon and try writing a better review. )

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A sweet drama told with patience, a rare gem!

With Miles Wei as elite lawyer Xu Huaisong and Zheng Hehuizi as the resilient novelist Ruan Yu, the drama successfully balances professional challenges with a slow-burn, nostalgic romance.

Plot: After being accused of plagiarism, the very person she based the story on just showed up out of nowhere. But ahh the feeling of meeting the right person at the wrong time...

This story is not about falling in love - its about returning to it. The central conflict isn't just whether they love each other- it's whether the timing is finally right,

It's a romance built on timing not iust chemistry.
He is a classmate from the next class she'd never spoken to. She thought he had never even known her before. Ten years have passed. They've changed, grown, and built separate lives.That makes every interaction carry more weight, because this time the stakes feel real.

Time and opportunities were needed and had to be built up through their interactions after a long separation.

It wasn't the obsession of an 18 year old Ruan Yu for an 18 year old Xu Huaisong that she couldn't have. It was a 28 year old Ruan Yu, still falling for a 28 year old Xu Huaisong all over again. Her lingering feelings weren't about regret, but about wondering why a reunion after so long couldn't lead to a different outcome.

Alas! If only she knew that her secret crush wasn't one sided...

On the other hand, it didn’t bother Xu Huaisong that he had a one sided crush on her. What troubled him was that after all those years, suddenly when he looked back, someone told him that they could be together. Now! Yet, Xu Huaisong at 28, didn't dare to confess easily. He was afraid that if he confessed, it would be 'in the past' for Ruan Yu. Insecurity, fear, hesitation kept deliberating him whether he could win her over again if he made his move, and how he should even begin. So he schemes to get chances to be close to her.

We follow their journey while their "long simmering affection" matures into a stable relationship, and builds a future together.


Review Highlights:

Refreshing Lead Dynamic: Miles Wei delivers his signature "charismatic, reserved yet sweet" performance, perfectly. In addition, he is seen as scheming, petty and witty and has been rightfully nicknamed as a "sly fox" by many commenters here 💖. Zheng Hehuizi shines as a badass and relatable female lead who takes charge of her own career. Their chemistry is sweet and natural, avoiding over the top tropes or forced dramatic moments.

Engaging Plot: The "plagiarism" mystery provides a solid professional backdrop that keeps the stakes high while allowing the leads to reconnect through a shared cause. Another point of note is the mutual support between the leads as they face career trials together. Ruan Yu's career progression to a screenwriter and while Xu Huaisong is already established as a highly driven and hardworking IP lawyer he reaches a high point in his career and successfully clears his father's name. There seems to be just enough family dynamics, sibling interactions, friendships and supportive partnerships

Creative Storytelling: The story weaves together dual timelines of campus flashbacks and the present day work related reunions which I thought was novel. It features inventive visual choices such as video/voice call participants appearing physically next to the characters which adds a modern and humorous flair. There are internal monologues and telepathic conversations which make the narrative lighthearted.

Easy Watching: "Comfort food," low-stress, warm vibes that is both hilarious and endearing.

The supporting cast are doing a pretty good job. Of note, Li Jun Xian, as Lawyer Liu Mao was great adding some hilarious interactions with Lawyer Xu (Miles Wei). It was great to see the siblings from 'I May Love You" back as siblings. Zhang Mu Xi as Xu Huashi was charming and played an important role to get the leads together.

OST, cinematography, dialogues everything is so beautiful.

Overall a charming and lighthearted modern romance that serves as a "belated joy" not only for fans of the "childhood crush to lovers" trope but for anyone who loves a warm, endearing story.

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eat, run, love and... BOREDOM

I feel this title sums it up pretty well. They eat, sometimes they run, they surely love each and simultaneously try to kill us through boredom.

Plot🗯️🗯️
Ml and FL clearly share a common past but are at odds right now. We go back to their college days to see them fall in love and what is now keeping them apart.
This kinda of plot are really fishy. They know how to hook the viewer with a mystery to then serve us a tasteless drama.

The drama:🗯️🗯️
we dive pretty much immediately into the past to see the main characters fall in love with each other but do they really?
I personally love slow burns but I am ok with a good "fast paced" romance. There is nothing good here for me. The ml immediately falls in love with the FL for no reason. I think that love at first sight are a lazy plot device to avoid exploring characters and showing actual action.

Characters 🗯️🗯️
Ml: I only saw this guy in "lighter and princess" and even though I dislike his character I think the actor did a pretty good job at portraying an asshole. On the other hand I feared he just played "himself" but I can see that he's actually able to portrait other characters as well .
In this drama he is playfully, determined and lovely. Worst part is: he is a simp.
At a certain point the FL has menstrual pains and he so shocked like she is about to die. Dude calm down, she is not meeting the grim Reaper. Too much too soon.
He helps her out so many times which is something I don't particularly like. It makes her see unable to do anything on her own.
His love confession was laughable. "You touched my heart". When? She has done nothing for him (they barely know each other) and the only force pushing this love story forward is his obsession for her.( Obsession in a good way, I don't mean creepy).

FL: I never saw this actress work before and as a first experience I can say : I'm not impressed.
Personal taste but I find her voice quite annoying. The script doesn't help at all. I don't know why they gave a good characterization to the ml but left nothing for this girl. She is poor, smart and..nice I guess. Nothing is engaging about her which makes me dislike the "love at first sight" even more. I feel that without that these 2 wouldn't even talk. Their relationship feels so forced by the script. They get a 100% compatibility on a mating app, they like the same song, the same color etc.
What is this? Is a kid Fantasy?


The drama itself:🗯️🗯️
I am currently at episode 11 struggling to keep my eyes open. This drama is so boring, full of fluffy loving moments and the most mundane stuff happening on screen.
I can describe the vibe as "Disney movie". It has the same "fakeness, fantasy" feel to it. Everything is corny as hell.

The only reason I keep watching is to find out why they ended up hating each other but almost half way through I think the mystery is not worth it.

I am dropping it.

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Best cdrama I have ever watched (Masterpiece )

This drama absolutely demands a 10/10. I was hooked from the first episode. The plot is solid though it got a bit confusing they did a great job trying to include as many aspects as possible from the book it would have been great if it had 10 or more episodes.
The characters got depth in them.the casting is perfectly done.everyone had their moments.the lead actors brought a raw authenticity to their roles and allowed the audience to feel every ounce of their joy and turmoil.The chemistry was undeniable.The villains were so good that they made us hate them.
Technically, it’s a fest to the eyes the cinematography was breathtaking I would say combined with a beautiful music .
The director had a very clear and unwavering vision which we felt in every frame.
An absolute must watch and an obsessively rewatch.
That is it .my first ever drama review.

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great show for fun vibes and light hearted plot

I want to say this is def a light and fun show. It is not to be compared to more cinematic /dramatic shows because I can say if we were to rate it off that logic it would fall a bit short. HOWEVER, this show was a flush as I loved everything from the music to the romance to the plot.

The drama, on a high level is relatively one dimensional. There are people in power that are helping the enemy kingdom for the usual reasons of money, power, and jealousy. However, with this more basic backdrop of espionage, the romance and silliness shines through. None of the “good” side characters has to tragically die or sacrifice for the betterment of the main leads.

Luo Ling Yu’s personality was great – she was sassy and determined. What might seem cunning and underhanded to someone on the outside is actually her acting out of loyalty to her parents *and* her sister but most importantly, she was also acting for herself. Lu Yun thinks less of her at first due to their poorly timed first interactions, but he is also similar to her in his own pursuit of the truth about his father. He seems aloof to others but it was a persona he crafted to better serve his goals. He is stellarly loyal to those he trusts and cares for. He wasn’t the cliche playboy, but he also wasn’t the cliche straight lace either so watching him fall in love with Luo Ling Yu for who she was fully was mighty fun to watch. Their romance just felt sooo seamless and natural. They bantered off each other fantastically from start to finish. I love that they were able to morph their banter from “rival” to “romantic”.

Luo Ling Yu’s attempts at catching Lu Yun were hilarious. I love that she came off a *tad* too eager but her logic was sound because Lu Yun really was paying more attention to her than any woman ever before – but only because he thought she was the enemy lol.

His exasperation with her antics was the perfect level. He was attracted to her physically and mentally, but refused to accept it by insisting she is tricking him. This makes their love much sweeter as he doesn’t actually hate her to begin with, but doesn’t know how to deal with these unprecedented feelings.

OF COURSE, as she accepts that he was stringing her along and trying to re-direct, he figures out he is in love with her. Tragically timed on his part but the plot made it work. How? By having him now have to equally chase after her. So now the power dynamic has flipped between them but because of their banter, it also works to equalize them. They both equally love each other even if her attempts were more for money at first.

I love that because of the pacing of the show, we get them being in love/romantic with each other for the last ≥ 20% of the show which is honestly generous. Most shows like to only give us the last 5% or give fake us out with a secondary break-up.

The last portion of the show is set up as a them vs the world rather than vs each other.

Side character wise, I love what they did with Chen Xiu and Prince Heng Yang. Chen Xiu likes Lu Yun because of his kindness during her childhood but also because of what he represented to her while she was stuck with her terrible parents. Seeing her grow into her own self and befriend Luo Ling Yu was great. Prince Heng Yang was also a great “second lead” 1. him and Lu Yun’s banter as friends was *fantastic* 2. because he truly cares for Luo Ling Yu but just not quiet the same as Lu Yun. He loves her because she is fierce but he put more meaning into some of her actions than their original intention while Lu Yun could see her fully. I’m so happy with how Prince Heng Yang bows out of trying to win her over and does not fall into the crazy jealous trope (probably bc Fan Qing Chen has enough crazy jealousy for 10 people). But not only do I like how he bows out, I also like how he engages with Lu Yun *afterwards*. He still sees him as a brother but he still teases him about stealing her away. I like it because I do think he loves/cares for her so I would hate for him to just suddenly not care about her. I think she plays this role of showing him what life could be when you let others in which he wasn’t a stone cold man either, but he was more solider/war oriented before her. That said, I like to imagine his love slowly morphing into a healthy friendship love and that he finds another woman to hold dear because he honestly was a hot guy personality wise.

Prince Chang Yi and Zhou Yang Ling’s side romance was cute. Pretty straightforward once the identities are revealed but I liked that it wasn’t superfluously complicated. The emperor when they asked for an annulled engement was hilarious. I actually liked the emperors’ normal-ness overall. Usually they are just horrible or stupid but he wasn’t lol.

I will share a few “nits” that I had with the show. 1. Fan Qing Chen is such a one dimensional creep. As a woman, I know these men exist but it would have been nice if they explored a bit more on why he was obsessed with her. Especially because we get that flash back at the end which had me like “wait a minute, he has a bit more of a reason than she’s pretty?” and I can’t help but wonder if there was other things she did for him in the past. 2. I could explain the “sudden” setting switch to war when the espionage was linked to a war solider and ambush but the snowy mountain felt realllly abrupt. They were in these dessert looking lands and then look snow. I know they did it for the drama of the avalanche but they could have switched it up with a sand storm or smth lol 3. Speaking of the snow, we have ALL this angst and stress over Lu Yun being hurt, only for us to time jump a month. I thought he was in coma or something but he’s just fine??? I mean could we have a least seen him wake up in her arms or in the bed then do the time jump? It was a weird choice.

Overall, this is a feel good romantic comedy and 100% delivers on that experience. I highly recommend it especially if you are getting a bit tired of the more “classic” historical dramas and death of the secondary leads.

### Original Thoughts & Ideas
- To what end are we expected to live for ourselves versus for others. What does “freedom” look like? Is it loyalty to family? Is it loyalty to society? Or loyalty to one’s own desires? Maybe a bit of all three?

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a show well deserving of its fame (a shot of serotonin in the form of a tv show)

This was so cute. A shot of serotonin in the form of a tv show. I love that we get to follow Su Zai Zai and Zhang Lu Rang‘s romantic journey. Zai Zai’s crush from the start was never a question, but she throughly enjoys befriending him and his two friends. Her personality is sunshine and bubbly cuteness. What I loved about her character is even though she was super bubbly she didn’t read as cliche or “manic pixie”. When she’s bullied by others, she stands up for herself accordingly. When she sees someone being bullied, she stands up for them. Those moments of fierceness were refreshing and satisfying to watch.

Zhang Lu Rang was shy and timid due to his parent’s ridiculous behavior. His growth was beautiful. Quite literally like watching a flower bloom from bud to blossom. He is silent and brooding but the actor did such a good job with nonverbal communication that you can tell how much he enjoyed Zai Zai’s company even as words fail him.

The show is mostly of their first three years of friendship in high school but we do have time jumps and get to see them in college and adulthood. The show is not full of stressful climaxes for the sake of plot, but rather very slice of life with the rollercoasters of joy and sadness as the characters navigate youth and adulthood. It was so satisfying to see Zhang Lu Rang go from a boy that says three words at a time to a man that says what’s on his mind unabashedly to the woman he loves 😭.

My only “complaints” are:
- I’d have liked more of Zhang Lu Rang‘a family life after his brother called out their parents.
- More for technical reasons but why was Zhang Lu Rang able to make Zai Zai’s high school and college graduation? Why didn’t she go to one of his? Did he finish before her both times?
- Because we get from 10th grade to them become full grown adults and parents, the timeline jumps a decent amount after high school. I don’t think this is wrong but I would have liked an episode more covering college and work, but I get why it was kept brief. I will say I like that the time jumps were seamlessly interwoven into the show rather than just a scene change and the words “2 years later” showing on screen.

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