A big no....
The drama was shot nicely and had a great cast behind it but my god it was utterly boring, brain-dead and uninspired. The writing/dialogue is just too lame as it is, you can feel the cast was struggling to work with it. How the ML behaved was comical and people call it realistic! This is both the director's and writer's first project but it's hard to over look these things. Hope to see Jang Na Ra in better projects.Was this review helpful to you?
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SHORT REVIEW : They could have titled it « Patterns »
I detest dramas centered around extramarital affairs. I’ve always avoided them. As a viewer who doesn’t read synopses or watch trailers, I tend to drop them the moment I figure out this is the main theme. But what is a girl to do when the main characters are two of her all time favorite actors ? I got sucked into this dirty world, and although I predictably ranted a lot, cried a lot, cursed at Mr Park and his mistress a lot, there was an undeniable truth being taught behind the over dramatized « makjang-esque » plot :We recreate family patterns when we don’t deal with our traumas and sense of worthlessness.
Mr Park, ended up having a mistress just like his father used his mother as a mistress.
Ms Na was abandoned by her spouse, just like her father was abandoned by his spouse.
Ms On reduced herself to a mere temporary « option », just like her mother was to her father.
Most of us recreate family patterns, good or bad, and it’s not that a toxic pattern is an inevitable vicious cycle, but these subconsciously taught behaviors and mindset follow us unless we intentionally choose to be honest about and heal from our traumas. You see, all of them had to eventually face their unresolved issues.
The ending was satisfying enough. I feared a tragedy, but it was better than expected. This drama was overall well executed. Do I recommend it ? Only if you don’t get too emotionally involved when it comes to this theme. I had to binge watch it (which I may have done 5 times at best in 10+ years) to be done with it quick. It gave me a headache to be honest. I made my choice and delt with it, no regrets, but no re-watch. Now you decide.
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Relationships beginning, ongoing and ending...
This drama surprised me with the direction it took, because starting it I thought it would be about a wife getting revenge on her cheating husband, you know that type of vibe; But instead what I got was a very thoughtful take on what happens when a spouse cheats, how this can affect not only the aggrieved spouse but can affect the parents / in laws, friends of the couple and in this instance the professional relationship of the two. I also enjoyed the way the show portrays alls sides of the story. Every character is shown as they are, their backstory and their current actions so the viewer can see that there are a lot of grey areas and everyone is not just black or white.The characters are thoroughly explored and the ups and downs of the events and resulting emotions are well documented. There's a hint of mystery as the show tantalises the viewer with the possibility of who the mistress is, there's also a fair amount of emotional angst, which is not surprising given the subject matter but this is in no way irritating thanks to the wonderful acting abilities of the cast.
This show portrays romantic relationships in various stages, there's the married couple who both have careers and are grappling with child care and the division of duties within the home; there's a professional single woman who has a somewhat complicated family situation and work history who's dipping her toes into dating life; there's the married couple where the husband cheats on his wife (the main story line); there's the relationship between the cheating husband and his mistress.
I've seen many comments on MDL where viewers say they hate cheating stories etc, but this story is so impactful because it explores the full spectrum of motivation and emotions of everyone involved, so although you may be annoyed with the husband and the mistress, the Show does a very good job of showing where each character is coming from and how they got to this point in their lives.
The story is told against the backdrop of a department store where all these characters work, so there are some work related story lines which add more dimension to our characters.
The resolution of each couple's story is well thought out and exposed. I enjoyed the thoughtfulness of this script, it fully explores each character's emotional landscape.
Jang Na Ra is excellent as always, she lends the character of Jung Sun a steely vulnerability, a sense of flailing helplessness initially and at the end she finds peace and acceptance.
Sung Joon played by Lee Sang Yoon was the most grating character for me because he doesn't show much emotion, he has the same facial expression and says very little throughout the entire show, I suppose this is by design because his backstory is told to us so we have a good idea where his head was at when he made the poor decision to start the affair.
The rest of the cast is great with excellent acting throughout.
Give this one a try because it's story is well told, and every character's motivation is laid out in the open so it's up to the viewer to make their own judgement.
I gave it a 10 out of 10 because it's quite rare to find a drama that explores each character's internal landscape quite so thoroughly and thoughtfully. Very well done.
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one of the things I like most about this drama is how the female characters here each have a strong background story and can easily relate to most people. I also really like how each character develops from the problems they face.
all of these things certainly could not be achieved without the amazing acting of the actors, especially jang nara who was able to play na jungsun very well so that the audience could sympathize with her, feel her hurt, despair, and grieve with her.
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WORTH WATCHING !! WHAT AN EMOTIONAL JOURNEY
Actually when I started this drama I have different concept in my mind but as episodes goes by I emotionally got involved in the drama , I couldn't wait to finish the drama and eagerly waited for the end !!Story synopsis
Sung Jun ang Jung sun(wife) are a happy couple for 10 years. Both wife and husband have their difficulties since child hood.
Husband comes from a family where his mother is a mistress and he recieves no love from father where as wife comes from a family her mother abandons her and grew without mother's love.
They fall in love and dreamed to be a perfect family which they couldn't have !!
Husband is aware of wife's mother and family background but wife is not aware of husband's family issue.
Jung sun gets aborted and goes into a trauma in the same time he have an affair with a girl called yue-ri which has identical past of Sung Jun.
Sung Jun father dies when Jung sun is in depression and he could not share his sadness with her, I was very frustrated throught the episodes why does husband doesn't share his sadness irrespective of having 10 yrs of relationship. While Jung sun is such a brave lady even after knowing her husband's accidental affair, she tries to understand him and forgive him and gives a chance to him.
There is no annoying second male lead so the drama carried the cheating husband and brave and confident wife's emotion through out the drama
In the end I understands why husband can't share his sadness about his family, because wife was already disappointed in her mother as she abandoned her bcoz of other man, where as if she finds out hero came from the opposite scenario his mother is a mistress who destroyed a happy family. So he couldn't convey his situation to her.
But being with her for 10 yrs he could have understood her and be honest with her.Even I got more annoyed when he tried to hide the things of women who is he having affair with irrespective of how many times heroine tried to find out and give him a chance
Clearly he is not in love with yue-ri, I hated him not being clear of his thoughts, may be in real life people are like him.
I was happy they are not together in the end because sung Jun doesn't deserve Jung sun
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Binge worthy and a good one time watch
The story was interesting and well narrated and the actors were all amazing in their roles. I absolutely loved Jeong Seon, she was admirable and aspirational and never sunk to the level of those who hurt her. I wanted to hate the male lead a little more, well I did hate him but I wanted my hatred of his character to be singular, but I could actually sympathize with him to some extent. There is no justification for cheating though, period! And the mistress was absolutely awful, impossible to relate with.Overall it's a good one time watch, pick a weekend though coz after episode 6 it will be impossible to stop watching until the very end.
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This is a final review with major spoilers. For 14 eps, this drama was excellent. It draws you in fully from the first moments and becomes more compelling as the story progresses. The cast is perfect for each role and the acting is just as perfect. The physical and voice acting is nothing short of phenomenal. The drama is very intelligent with sharp, clever and often inspired dialogue. It's a very deep drama with lighter scenes and touches of humor and charm. Unlike many shows that come across as scripted and acted, this drama has much more substance and reality beneath the story. The drama is particularly adept at showing true adult human relationships. Although some scenes are not easy to watch, the acting is so wonderful in capturing the emotion of the moment that the scenes are often truly beautiful. The characters are multifaceted. So they have different sides and traits depending upon the moment and the context. Interestingly enough, we can hate a character for what they do in one scene and then feel for that same person in other scenes. It all comes across as very natural and real. The story is just as multifaceted. The writing is masterful in presenting this story at the right pace and with the right tone. Deliberate and not rushed but never boring. And at times very surprising as new information is revealed - often in incredibly smart and creative ways. With an ever changing focus that moves from history to present, work to personal life, lighter tone to deeper and changing which characters are center at any given moment. Very well done on every level. The background music is the best of any drama I've seen. The cinematography is just as good as every other part of this production with many stunning visuals. Up through ep 14, I watched every episode a second time and they were as good every time.But I now need to mention some very major negatives about the last two eps. The last two eps were not a natural and necessary continuation of the wonderful 1st 14. In fact, the drama totally stopped doing everything that worked well. It was no longer a stunningly good mood piece. There were some really nice scenes. But the tone of the drama changed and it lost all emotional resonance and intensity. I actually grew weary of every character or story arc except the lovely romance between Ms. Lee and Mr. Cha and nice scenes with Mi Na's family. Overall, the story just fell apart. Some plot lines like the end of the company back fighting and the VP and his family were a waste of time. The work event was only there to give an excuse to have Jung Sun fall down the stairs. And it all felt contrived and pointless. And just about every bad guy character began to grate on my last nerve. The story had no more suspense since all secrets were disclosed. And the story stopped having any real drama. This story inexplicably lost the very intense emotional bond built with the audience during the prior 14 eps. All of the main characters related to the most dramatic story arcs just stopped moving forward. Jung Sun for some reason became contemplative and oddly accepting of things. I'm glad the story let her find peace. But this transition never felt real and it surely wasn't the ending the story and her character deserved. It was too uneventful and felt like her story just fizzled out. The writing also seemed to give up on any plot progression for the husband and his mistress. Their stories became boring and pointless as they both became super annoying pathetic losers. Having them give up or lose their relationship added no sense of justice or satisfaction. It just punctuated their descent into boring irrelevance. Maybe the drama became too intense and emotions wound too tight. And then when it all unwound in the last few eps, the show lost the tight punch that had us constantly on the edge of our seats. But whatever the reason, I felt that the show just sank instead of ending on a high note. His closing explanation to his wife was pathetic and his reasoning absurd. He was always a lying cheat. But now he was also an incredibly annoying loser who offered nothing to the story. He never had any affect but that was OK since the others around him had affect and emotion to spare. But now with no one showing much emotion, his lack of affect became a noticeable negative. Yu ri was always a conniving cheat. And she was pathetic for quite a while. But she turned into such a supreme loser that I continually wanted to yell at the screen for her to just shut up already. Aside from the good scenes involving Mi Na and Ms. Lee, this drama totally lost all momentum in the last 2 eps and just limped along to the end. Given how brilliant it was, this show should have ended as an all time favorite. The writing in the last 2 eps was a major disappointment and ruined this show for me.
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Why do I like this drama so much?
I cant pinpoint one overall reason why I like this drama. Is it the way the writers and directors sneakily lead us one way and then flip everything to show us that we were wrong? I love how they present everyone and no one as a suspect at the same time. Its a great way to unravel a mystery, and makes us just as eager as the lead to find out who is the source of her turmoil. The show is riveting and enticing, with excellent cast members who each add a different dynamic to the story. I really appreciate how besides the ML/FLs, the supporting characters are quite well fleshed out and we truly get an insight into their life and how they navigate their struggles. The show seems balanced in giving every character a good individual storyline while also making sure that these storylines intertwine quite skillfully. I absolutely love Lee Hyun A, she is my favourite --the definition of a talented, confident, badass, hardworking woman. But we also get to see the reality of women working in the corporate world who are forced to put on a brave face in order to thwart unwanted sexual advances/flirting or appear competent at their jobs and get their voices heard. The show did a great job of showing the struggles of a working mom, and the things that already competent women have to do just to get a promotion.The show has some tough scenes to watch, and deals with very real subjects such as the effects that infidelity, miscarriage and raising children while working has on couples. Although sad, its realistic. Problems are not solved overnight and behind the scenes, there is no pretending that things are okay. The cast gave great performances in showing what people who seemingly have it all go through behind the scenes. This show has some important lessons, and shows that even though people may have top careers and seemingly warm and wonderful marriages, not all that glitters is gold and everyone is hiding secrets and living with hidden pain.
I also love the OST and main title/ending song, very riveting and fitting for this type of drama.
I would only give it a low rewatch value because after watching it the first time, I already know the main culprits of the main issue sooooo....?
All in all, I love VIP!!! Its a great start to my 2023 kdrama viewing streak :)
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High Class Mimickry
Despite how wealthy the drama alludes, this drama leaves nothing rich behind.Half the drama was comprised of episodes from Scooby Doo's series of unsolved mystery to 'find the mistress'.
In my defense, the suspense dried up before we even found the sungjoon's lady accomplice.
To add on, half the cast seem disinterested with their characters, which made it harder to continue. I can't blame them though. If I were tied to Yuri, I would be just as miserable.
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I've never seen any drama drag out a story longer than Brangelina's divorce.
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Apreciei como conseguiram encaixar as histórias dos funcinários do departamento V.I.P; os personagens são maduros e os problemas que enfrentam são totalmente compreensíveis e reais. A maneira como abordaram questões como: a luta da mulher que deseja ser bem sucedida no emprego e seu esforço para conciliar seu trabalho com sua vida familiar (criação de filhos), assédio sexual e traição, foi bem crível.
Foi doloroso assistir à tudo que a protagonista passou pois me apeguei muito a sua personagem. A forma como ela lida com todo o inferno que sua vida se transformou é de se admirar, ela é surpreendentemente inteligente, elegante e em momento algum ela se rebaixa ao nível de sua “oponente”.
Com um figurino impecável, fotografia atraente, atuações convincentes, OST maravilhosa e um enredo extremamente intrigante este K-Drama ganhou o meu coração e está agora incluído na minha listinha de favoritos.
- Altamente recomendável, amei!
P.S: A traição nunca compensa.
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Sinto que o meu interesse pela historia que já era grande aumentou ainda mais depois que descobri quem é a traidora, confesso que estava com um pouco de medo do ritmo cair depois disso mas aconteceu o contrario e passei a gostar ainda mais da protagonista depois daquele momento.
Esse drama tem um enredo bem maduro e personagens femininas muito fortes, e gostei muito de ver isso porque elas se mantiveram assim durante todo o drama..
Senti pena da protagonista por tudo que ela teve que passar pelas atitudes absurdas de seu marido, amei ver como ela não se deixava abater por causa dessa situação e foi inspirador ver como ela conseguia manter a classe quando descobriu quem era a mulher e nunca baixou ao seu nível.
A história dos personagens secundários é muito interessante também e realmente senti que eles tiveram o desenvolvimento que mereciam.
Odiei com todas as minhas forças o marido da protagonista e a mulher traidora também, e mesmo que eu não pense que o adultério seja justificável achei muito ridículo o motivo que ele apresentou para a traição, é realmente absurdo buscar consolo em outros locais sem ao menos dar a oportunidade para o parceiro fazer esse papel. Sinceramente, não posso esperar que alguem me entenda se eu nem ao menos contar que estou passando por dificuldades.
Esse drama é realmente um belo exemplo de que uma paixão leviana não vale a pena.
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