IndigoMoon:
American Fan you spoke against leaving negative opinions about the dramas.
Hi IndigoMoon,
I'm going to respond to this unfortunate situation this one time only
Negative opinions about dramas isn't my issue. Anyone is welcome to express whatever opinion they want, and we do so here. I do it too. It's the AMOUNT of complaining and negative posts over a period of MONTHS that led to my final straw. It was a regular stream of negativity without an end in sight. That's what led to my blocking her, thinking that I won't have to see those posts on this thread anymore, which I was wrong about. I did still see them...and everyone knows the rest of what happened.
IndigoMoon:
But I think you were being negative in attacking FaeryWren like you did
I have to disagree. In response to her post about not seeing my profile, I explained in the least hurtful words (and certainly not "attacking") that I could to tell her how I felt. What I should have done is to contact her directly to tell her my reason for blocking her.
IndigoMoon:
It was said that negativity has driven some people out of the group but that is exactly what you did.
IndigoMoon:
How does it feel to know you were the reason someone left the group
We all have choices to stay or leave, to talk things through or not. I refuse to be burdened emotionally by this incident or by anyone in this thread. I've been a part of the BL group for over a year and have never had an issue with anyone (that I know of anyway, lol).
As to your "bully" accusation, I consider that to be a very serious matter and smth that shouldn't be taken lightly. I am not and have never been a "bully". If you knew me irl you would know how inaccurate that statement is. It was uncalled for and doesn't fit the circumstances.
IndigoMoon:
Because believe me FaeryWren’s comments are the least of worries in a world full of negativity.
I understand what you mean, but for some of us this club is part of our world and it's been a very positive and enjoyable one for over the year that I've been here. Many of us value this online connection.
IndigoMoon:
I'll put it behind me when American Fan is no longer part of this group so.........
That's not happening.