RiqueXinw:
I saw a post on social media that was relatable to me and others in the comments it said, "M/M book fans and BL fans will ignore almost anything except cheating and violence/abuse between the couple." This made me stop and think and I realised it was somewhat true of me not on the moral side but because it challenges my ideas of romance however if romance is not the focus then I don't have an issue. Maybe that is why my moral compass does not play into my watching and rating of series because the themes I love to read about such as Mafia is rife with the gore, violence and the morally grey in order for the story to progress, remain realistic and to allow for a happy ending and the fact that it all exist in the realm of fiction. Does anybody else relate to this?
I think this is partly true for me all. My enjoyment of reading about and watching some gore (can't be too gory, no brains please) in Samurai & crime shows is so different from what I can tolerate IRL. For romance, if there's violence or abuse between the couple, that typically escalates and doesn't get better so it's not something I want to watch. I was surprised at myself about the cheating though, because I watched Together with Me: The Next Chapter. I thought it was something I would absolutely not tolerate. Instead, I really was curious how they would handle it and build up the trust between the couple and if the couple would get their HEA.