"mean if she just enjoyed advanture more and was into deep raw romance, she may long for XL type for sure"
I do not get why assuming that deep raw romance = XL .
No offence but it kind of look at XY feeling for TSJ as safe. People forget that Nice guy can make woman love them with passion and longing. TSJ did.
From the meaning of deep raw love, I read on Google, it is exactly what she has with TSJ/ YSQ hence she only longed for him all the time _-him being alive or dead she did. TH made sure of that. She even showed it to the highest level during their break up period.
So I do not get where the XL = passionate love or raw love come from.
Jing being husband type does not mean there is no passion or deep raw love or romance in his relationship with XY. TH showed that there is indeed.
I could be wrong of course. May be it is in the novel. And XY feel passion for and from XL.
I need an extra from the novel.
And not those where she get excited because he is biting her because those do by no mean = their love would be deep raw. Is it because XY said XL was not the type a woman wants?to pit in her dream? Lol if that is the case people are reading too much into this.
I am not saying this to defend Jings at all nor hate on XL. But because I saw s this a lot o. Youtube where people have been saying XY/XL love = passion,. Pure, deep and now raw... I am like where?
So I need extra because in the drama so far there has been none of tthat. So I must have missed these when I read the book.
https://mobile-dictionary.reverso.net/en/english-definition/raw+love