Reading sane comment like this and not reducing to BL feel like finding diamond under dirty mud.
And I see and have no issues with your points whatsoever. I am one of the introverts, and I can see how what is happening thanks to the internet gets too far too easily and too fast. You are right to complain about that and not like it one bit. Because I don't either.
Doing any harm to any partners that cross other people's imagination is far beyond any limit and acceptability. I am just pointing out that we are not talking about everyone here from this group.
Also, I would make a differentiation to your AI reference. Even in a group of BL lovers, you will statistically find sick people who cannot help themselves. It is difficult (...for me, it should be generally, though...) to judge someone for doing something, even if it is against the rights of other people, if they themselves are obviously not well.
The biggest issue here remains the problem of such people posting it publicly. If they didn't, we wouldn't know. It is still an issue because they are not doing good for their own lives, but the damage is much more controllable and much less than the way it is now.
Maybe they add this bcz of romance between Pi-O and Jae In
hmmmm, so she used him, i see. still has points for sticking to him though. if someone is this obsessed over other things, it is hard to stay by their side. Plus she is cute (ikr, but she still used poor Pio *sighs* ๐)
Reading sane comment like this and not reducing to BL feel like finding diamond under dirty mud.
Hm. Fair. But not everyone who watches or likes BL or bromance is an 11-year-old, hormone-crazed, self-reflection-lacking douchebag. Also, not everything that is sexualized must be bad, and everything has the potential to be sexualized, romanticized, horrorized, dramatized, or gore-ified. Thatโs simply how imagining, projecting or fantasizing works.
I donโt think everyone sexualizes bromances. Some people just donโt. But โbromanceโ literally refers to a close, affectionate connection between men, it literally has โromanceโ in the word, so I donโt think itโs that strange if some people interpret or fantasize about that connection in a more romantic or sexual way. I feel like it can stem from peopleโs need for intimacy and for a relationship, that is already working, to become even closer.
I think they should remove Romance from the genres and add slight romance to the tags instead
what are you on about? There is plenty of romance! Pi O and his piano. Pi O and his music. Pi O and art. Pi O and moping after 9 years lost psychomaniac. Pi O and his fashion. Pi O and his skills and potenhtials. Pi O and his mother's hysterics. Pi O and his crushed hopes and dreams. Pi O and his ambitions. Pi O and... ahhhh... who did i forget? Who? Who...? Hmmmm, who....? Who am I even forgetting... ๐๐๐
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah! Pi O and his psycho maniacal genius idol - Choi Jeong Yo. I would opt for hard romance, definitelly not slight... (it is SO juicy IDK who is adding the tags anyways! I have noone to blame! XD)
Maybe they add this bcz of romance between Pi-O and Jae In
lol, idk, but she is into him. and didn't they kiss? anyways, he cannot, he cant afford to. he is wanking to his piano, to his art and that other male psycho manipulator, so where he would have energy for rl romance? with a girl on top of that? XD
The original composition by Jeongyo was meant to be played by him alongside Pi O. So I am kind of hoping some…
That is not true though. It was obviously suggested in the drama Pi O would be absolutely friends with Jeongyo, but he subconsciously knew his mother and background would be an issue, esp. with another pianist, so he did not dare to. Invite friends into his life and world. Fair, to be honest. a) He was obviously right, b) He did not give hope to other more honest more pure people based on realistic assesment of his real life situation.
Doing any harm to any partners that cross other people's imagination is far beyond any limit and acceptability. I am just pointing out that we are not talking about everyone here from this group.
Also, I would make a differentiation to your AI reference. Even in a group of BL lovers, you will statistically find sick people who cannot help themselves. It is difficult (...for me, it should be generally, though...) to judge someone for doing something, even if it is against the rights of other people, if they themselves are obviously not well.
The biggest issue here remains the problem of such people posting it publicly. If they didn't, we wouldn't know. It is still an issue because they are not doing good for their own lives, but the damage is much more controllable and much less than the way it is now.
Thank you for this discussion. ๐
I donโt think everyone sexualizes bromances. Some people just donโt. But โbromanceโ literally refers to a close, affectionate connection between men, it literally has โromanceโ in the word, so I donโt think itโs that strange if some people interpret or fantasize about that connection in a more romantic or sexual way. I feel like it can stem from peopleโs need for intimacy and for a relationship, that is already working, to become even closer.
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah! Pi O and his psycho maniacal genius idol - Choi Jeong Yo. I would opt for hard romance, definitelly not slight... (it is SO juicy IDK who is adding the tags anyways! I have noone to blame! XD)