Ep18: The parallel in Yusen's father and Zhaung Xu... despite the ending, the dad communicated his feelings and…
If you think about it, apart from his cowardice, life also played its hand. When he went over to her uncle's place to tell her about his feelings (presumably), she wasn't there and thought she would never be back, and then she also never found out that he had gone there. They also had so much miscommunication. Life has also played its part in keeping them apart, and imo, for good reason. Ofc, if he were a more confident person, these things wouldn't stop him. But bro is a chicken and won't admit it. At least admit you're a chicken💀
now I'm really thinking SML doesn't actually like ziguang, because how the hell is he so nice to other people…
He has weird self esteem issues with her. He criticises everything she does - it’s not giving that he truly likes her. And even if he does, they’re not a good fit
Am I the only one who found ep 9 so toxic?! when she thought he has a son and treated him so badly. I would get…
I'd say the biggest reason she was mad was that he didn't tell her he had a kid. In China, if you've had a kid, it's considered a special situation, so if you date someone like this, when you've never been married, lots of people will ask you why you're dating a person who has a kid when you haven't been married yet. The main point is that, if it were true, and he didn't tell her about his "special situation" early on, then in their culture, it would be considered taking advantage of her. It looks like he's taking advantage of her youth or naivete because he didn't tell her and wants her to fall in love with him first before she fully understands the situation. That's why their reaction was like that anyway
Okay, so guys I don't like the scene where they kiss for the first time - let me explain why! She is drunk, and…
It's okay, I agree. The director should've been more careful on this point. IMO, we've definitely gotten to a point where consensus in the drama universe where a kiss should be avoided when a character is drunk, but many dramas still miss this point. It's not like things in a drama need to be perfect, but I personally think it's always a good opportunity to also teach the general public about consent when someone is drunk. She was drunk. Whatever she says in that state now doesn't count,
😂omg!! I was like, " The most fantastical part of this show is that he's a specialist doctor that tends to come home early and also does most of the cooking😂" I was like, "welp, I guess that's why they call it fantasy😂"