You are surely lives in a bubble, either you are born into the latest control mind media, or either you are in…
Oh, you're right I just realized I didn't bother make enough spaces lol, I will fix that. I was in a rush to reply since I had something else to do back then.
Lmao I find it amusing how you treat me like a retard in a way even though you might not mean to. Just cause "TV is made by sick people" doesn't mean I should stop watching completely and go live as a hermit in the mountains to avoid the toxicity of the world. I would turn into a monk if I wanted to live such a life. That's not how the world works.
In a way I think this mindset of turn your head the other way and don't nag a big issue. Like yes, people should take and fix the wrongs if that's possible instead of pretending to be blind and letting shit happens which will make it awfully normalized. Just like BL dramas, many people started talking about how toxic BL plots and characters can be, and thanks to it, even Thailand which is popular for it's rape and abuse romanticizing in dramas culture started to make some very healthy and nice BL shows like Lovely Writer and Bad Buddy who go as far as making fun of how bad the BL industry can be. It's thanks to people pointing out wrongs that the world can move forward.
Same goes with the LGBTQ community or any other minorities, these minorities were killed and treated horribly by people before like 50 years or whatever, but since many people figured out it didn't make sense to hate on them, now they can live more openly and happily, even get married/adopt kids and all. Just cause TV is ugly or sick and I don't agree with that fact, doesn't mean I can't watch it to see how people use such technologies and learn more about the messed up side of the world, and tell my opinion and how much I don't agree with that side.
Besides not all shows are sick, so not watching TV completely cause you're afraid of the sick shows is pointless. By the way, not only TV that is sick, people on streets can be sick, in schools, work places, every where such people exist, so only way to avoid all that and stay clean like you said is by locking yourself in cave or something. Even my own parents are sick as well, does that mean I should just ignore it or just follow in their steps cause that's how the world goes? Obviously not! We should learn about these things to realize that they are wrong, and shouldn't be repeated. Telling people to get over it and don't complain, or stay away if they don't wanna support it, is not a good advice.
I fixed the comment before, feel free to read it with spaces now, if you didn't already do before. See, this is what I meant, yes, I was wrong about not making spaces that could make it easier for others to read, you pointed it out to me and thanks to it, I noticed and fixed it. You could ignore it and let me continue doing it, instead you complained and it helped me improve.
Same goes with raising kids as another example, supposedly no one is more clean or pure than kids, yet it doesn't mean their parents can always keep them away from sick people or shows. Even if they manage to do that at home, they won't be able to do it when their kids are far away in schools or streets, interacting with strangers. So instead of trying so hard to shut them in and keep them covered, they should slowly try to make them understand the wrong and bad things so they be careful and avoid them when their parents aren't there to protect them.
You are surely lives in a bubble, either you are born into the latest control mind media, or either you are in…
I get your point of view, but as a younger individual I also gotta my different point of view. Since I'm not even 30 yet, obviously I wouldn't really agree with yours. Yeah to you both Shin and Minato will seem okay and very young, to me someone like Minato is almost my older brother age so not really very young, yes he isn't old at all, still not that young either. To someone who is 15 or 17 years old, 30 might seem like a literal geezer lol, like In SKorea for example, some teens even if they are 18 would go as far as calling people who are 30 uncle and aunt cause to them they are just too old to be called older brother/sister. I still would never support the concept of someone like Minato being with Shin (Back when Shin was 17), or Asuka (If we assume Asuka isn't 18 yet) being with that Architect obsessed dude, or Shin's sister being shipped with Architect dude. My whole issue is them being underage. Although I still find it kinda gross for 30+ going for 18-19 years old as well, but since they are legal adults then sure. I wouldn't personally do such a thing or support it, but also wont nag nor bother people who do it. I also hate how some people think dating a very young person will somehow make them get younger, it's pure stupidity (My father got married to a girl who is in her late 20's and he is is older than you...it's his third time getting married and godman it made me shudder and hate him even more, glad we had nothing to do with him since my mother divorced him anyway. Everyone assume he is her father, some even go as far saying he might as well be her grandpa since he looks quite old compared to how she looks).
By the way if I want to start watching the anime, can I just start from the part where this movie ends? I don't want to start from the very first boring episode of anime while already knowing what's gonna happen on them, especially since there are more than two seasons. If yes then can you tell me which episode exactly should I start with? Like what season, and what number of episode.
I watched 10 episodes so far and godman, they were super boring and I also find main couple irritating. Especially…
Ikr! I don't know what's going on with this website, lately many people of this type keep appearing out of nowhere and acting overly aggressive over the stupidest reasons. Like they just wanna start arguments for the sake of fighting and that's it, even if they don't make sense themselves, they just love to hate on others and say rude remarks.
I watched 10 episodes so far and godman, they were super boring and I also find main couple irritating. Especially…
You do realize others can have different opinions and tastes, and them being that way doesn't mean that they know less or didn't watch as much stuff as you did right? If I didn't watch many contemporary Cdramas and realized that I couldn't really enjoy them, I wouldn't say that. Stop acting stuck up and think watching more stuff makes you a god figure, it's cool if you disagree with me, that's your right, but don't be rude or make fun of me over it. No need to spread pointless hatred, or act as if people are insulting you personally if they criticize shows you happen to like. Your opinion isn't 100% correct or the only one that matters. Same goes with mine or anyone else's.
You are surely lives in a bubble, either you are born into the latest control mind media, or either you are in…
I'm biologically a female, but identify as genderfluid and actually no I don't live in USA, I'm African Arabian. I didn't say people who are 29 are old, but compared to 15-17 years old yeah it's very huge ages gap. almost double age at this point. I myself mentioned in another comment that I find it okay if 18 or 19 years old person dates a 17 years old. Because lets assume two people were dating when in high school, one is 14 and the other is 15-16 just cause the older one turned 18 doesn't mean they gotta break up or anything of the sort so yeah that's too much. But I really can't stand people who are almost turning middle aged, who like to go for teens and minors overall. Like seriously the world is filled with adults and people who might be of more proper age, why go for freaking kids?! It's fine if someone is 40 and dates a 30+ years old, 30 going for 20 something, or stuff of the sort, but 30 going for 17- doesn't make sense, like why?? Adults should date adults and kids should hang out with fellow kids. The whole minor rule of throwing people in prison for sleeping with minors actually make sense since if they don't do that, a huge amount of creeps who enjoy that crap will be more brave about it and these minors might also think it's totally fine to let them do such things to them and guess what? Most teens are stupid as hell, they love doing dangerous and reckless shit then pay the price highly for the rest of their lives. So it's good for the age of consent to be high, like not less than 16 or 17. I think 18 is very good, since at that age you're an already an adult legally and so it makes sense to start exploring such things. Talking from experience since my mother was still 17 when she gave birth to my brother and since that day everything about her life became cursed, and the curse still continue to this day with me paying the price of her awful life decisions. Also she never managed to fully get what it's like to be a proper mother, and almost made my brother die many times as a baby cause she was still very young to know how to raise a fucking kid in a right way. That's why you should wait till you're an adult and fully prepared for such huge responsibilities. Sex and relationships aren't a game. They are not worth making yourself and maybe your future kids miserable just cause you are too horny to wait a bit. Yeah you can have sex and all that, but be careful, always use protection, and find someone decent, not just any human being who can get hard cause for females if they get pregnant, most guys just wanna run away, make the girl abort the kid (Which I actually support, I don't think anything is wrong with it, as long as the girl is convinced), or they do stay with the girl but the pressure and responsibilities drive them crazy and they end up hating each other and abusing the shit out of their kids (Like my case). Most people who are way older, just want to have fun, they don't want more responsibilities or kids, they just view these kids as sex toys to mess with for some time till they are bored. I know everyone's opinion differs, but to me personally, I wouldn't want to date anyone who is more than 5 years older than me maximum and no more than 2 years younger. Because I have an older brother and he is 9 years older than me, so anyone who is close to that age gap between me and him, make me feel as if I'm dating an older brother figure and it makes me turned off. Let alone someone who might be as old as my dang mother. I know it might not make sense to some people but anyway I'm just that way.
You are surely lives in a bubble, either you are born into the latest control mind media, or either you are in…
Dude, I'm seriously sick of talking about this and I already explained my whole point of view to others, including the fact that I don't give two fucks about what Shin does after he turned 18, I nagged about the story starting with him being 17 and the inclusion of even younger characters like his sister who also ends up being into an adult dude who seems to be at least 24 or something. If you want to know more about what I think feel free to read all the comments I made (Maybe except for the replies I made to SnowRegret since that toxic ass dude was basically being rude to me personally instead of actually discussing and so we fought, don't waste your time reading his bullshit).
Also I don't care if marrying kids happened before and all that you mentioned, doesn't make it less creepy or gross. Just like murders, yeah they happened before and still happen, does that make it normal and cool? Obviously not. Marrying a much much younger person just to convince yourself that you're young/immortal or whatever sounds more like a mental illness lmao
I know many Japanese are into this shit which is painfully clear from their fucked up loli culture in anime or idol industry, but just cause they are into it doesn't mean I should view it as normal. Some countries are into extreme misogyny or other awful stuff, does that makes it normal? No. I don't live in a bubble, I myself live in a fucked up country as well, but does not mean I should follow every stupid thing people do here like a sheep, all cause it's natural, or cause everyone are doing it.
We live in a different age than the age people married kids so they be quite fertile to produce as much kids as possible like rabbits. History is filled with dark crap, and mentally ill people and practices, we should eradicate these things instead of defend them. At least that is what I think is logical and I'm not trying to be rude to you personally at all, just I don't get why some of you are trying hard to defend it as if I said people shouldn't fall in love at all or something extreme of the sort.
At this day and age, anyone who actually have some sense would rather die than see their kid/teen get married or date someone who is an adult and is way older than them cause guess what? Most of these adults don't hang out with minors for the sake of marriage, real love, and having hundreds of kids nowadays. They do it to have sex, abuse and fetishizes the shit out of them unlike the medieval ages and guess what, tons of teens are so freaking easy to manipulate, cause many of them let their hormones control them, or go through lots of mental issues thanks to people around that might make them easy to fool, yeah I know that can also happen to adults, but most people don't act or think the same way they used to do back when they are a teenager. They do cringe and toxic stuff then become adults, and hopefully grow up and realize how stupid they were back then.
This why stuff like the Juvenile law exist, why? Cause everyone know it's hard to judge people who are still minors/not fully matured mentally, the same way as adults. You can't just let these kids do everything that adults are allowed to do and be like "As long as they act mature enough or pretend to be adult like, it's all cool and dandy". This type of mindset is the reason why there many teens who commit suicide, get pregnant...etc all cause they rush to do stuff they aren't ready for yet and it leads to them ruining their future and life along with their future kids future as well.
Some say the age of consent in Japan is 13...but if you think about it well, it's one hell of a disturbing decision, cause what would happen if a girl have sex while that young? She might get pregnant and if she doesn't abort the child, she will have to become a teen mother, at that age someone still need others to guard and guide them so they can grow into a decent human being especially with how bad of influence social medias are, so expecting them to actually raise another human being is just pure craziness.
This dramas plot is fiction, I know, but doesn't mean anything can also be viewed as normal and something to defend just cause "it's fiction". Just like some other BL dramas which romanticize rape and abuse, they are fiction, does that mean we should normalize them or be okay cause that type of thing happen in real life? No, I sure hope not! This drama isn't as dire and awful as the dramas I mentioned, I know. So far it has nothing sexual, just teens being stupid and reckless as hell, but I still won't think it's 100% cute and fine. Like seriously all the teens here could be at least 18 and the plot won't change much and nothing would be that much off, it's not really necessary for all of them to be minors. You can make an relationship with high age gap concept, without it going in the illegal path or crossing any lines.
After all what I said if you still think am not making sense and that these teen x adult culture is okay then sure, you do you, and have a nice day. I won't force myself to agree with you, still doesn't mean am trying to be rude to you in person, just that I won't agree with your opinion about this specific topic.
Depends on you, as someone who is awfully used to horror and gore stuff this doesn't deserve to be called scary…
No, not really. It's more of a psychological horror I will say. So anything is basically a hallucinations kinda thing (Hope this doesn't count as spoiler, I mean it's already mentioned on the synopsis lol).
This movie wasn't so great honestly. I get there is a drama that should be watched before this but even so the movie still felt overly rushed and according to the flashbacks, nothing much seemed to happen in the drama to make you unable to understand the plot properly by just watching the movie. I like the plot, it talk a bout a very serious topic which I appreciate, it has some nice mentally fucked up characters, but it still felt childish at times, idk how to describe it.
Watched 4 episode so far and am dying of boredom. Since I have seen how everyone overhype it, I had kind of a…
Sure, I love to recommend stuff lol Thai: 1- Lovely Writer. 2- Manner of Death (It's crime BL drama, nice change from your typical drama). 3- Bad Buddy. 4- Kinnporsche (This one is more on the dark and violent side, but it's still great with amazing cast and chemistry). 5- 2gether. 6- Dark Blue Kiss (This one has two seasons before it, but Dark Blue Kiss is the only one that 100% focus on the gay guys couples). 7- A Tale of Thousand Stars. 8- Grey Rainbow. 9- My Bromance (Movie).
Japanese: 1- Kieta Hatsukoi. 2- His. 3- Life: Senjou wa Bokura. 4- Cherry Magic. 5- Zettai BL ni Naru Sekai (The title of this one is very long so I just wrote the first part of it, search it here on MDL lol). 6- Utsukushi Kare. 7- Old Fashion Cupcake. 8- Ossan's Love. 9- Doushitemo furetakunai (Movie). 10- Seven Days (Two Parts Movie). 11- FUJOSHI, UKKARI GEI NI KOKURU. 12- FUKOU-KUN WA KISS SURU SHIKANAI! 13- Pornographer. 14- RESTART AFTER COME BACK HOME (movei). 15- Boys Love (Two parts movie). 16- Ai no Kotodama (Movie). 17- Bokura No Ai No Kanade (Movie). 18- Itsuka no kimi e (Movie).
Chinese (These ones are mostly "Bromance" due to ban lmao but they are very great still. The actual BL ones happened before the ban was made): 1- Word of Honor. 2- The Untamed. 3- Addicted (This one is actual BL). 4- Guardian (The couple chemistry is great, very great. There is a cute secondary couple, but the budget is very low so you gotta expect some lousy CGI lol). 5- Advance Bravely (Actual BL). 6- The Sleuth of Ming Dynasty. 7- Killer and Healer. 8- Winter Begonia. 9- Love is More than a Word (Actual BL). 10- Men with Swords (This one has no female cast at all, not even servant, support, or background characters. It was a first for me to see such a drama which I appreciated lol and it has two seasons with very nice characters. Overall these Chinese dramas I mentioned mostly focus on male characters even if there are female characters included and many of said female characters are likeable half of the time, so it doesn't get irritating to watch. Although some try to have a straight couple in the end, they don't really push it too much so I hope you give them a try, Chinese know to make beautiful emotional plots).
Taiwanese: 1- HIStory: Make Our Days Count. 2- We Best Love. 3- Your Name Engraved Herein (Movie). 4- Dear Tenant (Movie).
Filipino: 1- GameBoys. 2- Like In The Movies.
Korean: 1- Semantic Error. 2- Light on Me. 3- Where Your Eyes Linger. 4- No Regret (Movie). 5- A Frozen Flower (Movie. I really love this one, it includes both straigh and gay romance). 6- Just Friends? (Movie). 7- Long Time No See (Movie). 8- Method (Movie). 9- Night Flight (Movie). 10- Eclipse/Cutter (Movie). 11- You Make Me Dance. 12- Color Rush (Although this drama isn't super great, but it has a very unique plot which I really liked).
Vietnamese: 1- Mr Cinderella. 2- Follow My Sunshine. 3- You're My Boy. 4- Nation's Brother.
These are what I remember now, I have watched way more but most of them are trash so...if you want more dramas/movies or anime recommendations too (Both BL and non BL) feel free to ask. I basically watch stuff from all genres.
There are rumors it very hot BF - so great job Changkyu
I was upset the whole time over him not having someone be head over heels for him. I mean the guy is so cute and sweet, how can anyone not fall for his angel vibes?! Like damn I'm actually being salty here lmao
It really bothers me when it’s repeated by the straight people in the show over and over that there is no parent…
I highly agree. I myself would fully understand if I had kids of my own. I wouldn't even pat an eyelid over it. Many others are the same, they would accept their child no matter if they are gay or trans.
Euh... no. Not "everyone" was focus on Chang Min even though it is true that he was the star of the show for the…
I agree with what you said, lmao nice to meet ya here as well. Anyway I need to agree that I really hate it when people assume that gay people are mostly about sex. What's wrong with the show being chill, and more emotion / romance focused than your typical western dating shows that are all about sex, alcohol, and rude remarks about each other? The reason I never got into dating shows was cause I couldn't appreciate the awfully vulgar and shallow concept they kept going for, but this and Merry Queer are the only couples/dating reality shows that I managed to watch without getting pissed off. I want to see them talk, get closer, understand each other, have fun, do enjoyable stuff, and act like normal adults than horny porn stars. Yeah sex is important in relationships I know, but it's not the most important part in my opinion, the feelings are what matter the most, otherwise it's just sex partners/friends with benefits relationship.
I mean, every person has their preferences obviously but I think everyone in here agrees that changyu deserved…
Poor boy was kinda harassed by Seon Yul lmao I mean he was just a bit too harsh on Chan Gyo who is such a sweet guy, it was a bit painful to watch at times.
Lmao I find it amusing how you treat me like a retard in a way even though you might not mean to. Just cause "TV is made by sick people" doesn't mean I should stop watching completely and go live as a hermit in the mountains to avoid the toxicity of the world. I would turn into a monk if I wanted to live such a life. That's not how the world works.
In a way I think this mindset of turn your head the other way and don't nag a big issue. Like yes, people should take and fix the wrongs if that's possible instead of pretending to be blind and letting shit happens which will make it awfully normalized. Just like BL dramas, many people started talking about how toxic BL plots and characters can be, and thanks to it, even Thailand which is popular for it's rape and abuse romanticizing in dramas culture started to make some very healthy and nice BL shows like Lovely Writer and Bad Buddy who go as far as making fun of how bad the BL industry can be. It's thanks to people pointing out wrongs that the world can move forward.
Same goes with the LGBTQ community or any other minorities, these minorities were killed and treated horribly by people before like 50 years or whatever, but since many people figured out it didn't make sense to hate on them, now they can live more openly and happily, even get married/adopt kids and all. Just cause TV is ugly or sick and I don't agree with that fact, doesn't mean I can't watch it to see how people use such technologies and learn more about the messed up side of the world, and tell my opinion and how much I don't agree with that side.
Besides not all shows are sick, so not watching TV completely cause you're afraid of the sick shows is pointless. By the way, not only TV that is sick, people on streets can be sick, in schools, work places, every where such people exist, so only way to avoid all that and stay clean like you said is by locking yourself in cave or something. Even my own parents are sick as well, does that mean I should just ignore it or just follow in their steps cause that's how the world goes? Obviously not! We should learn about these things to realize that they are wrong, and shouldn't be repeated. Telling people to get over it and don't complain, or stay away if they don't wanna support it, is not a good advice.
I fixed the comment before, feel free to read it with spaces now, if you didn't already do before. See, this is what I meant, yes, I was wrong about not making spaces that could make it easier for others to read, you pointed it out to me and thanks to it, I noticed and fixed it. You could ignore it and let me continue doing it, instead you complained and it helped me improve.
Same goes with raising kids as another example, supposedly no one is more clean or pure than kids, yet it doesn't mean their parents can always keep them away from sick people or shows. Even if they manage to do that at home, they won't be able to do it when their kids are far away in schools or streets, interacting with strangers.
So instead of trying so hard to shut them in and keep them covered, they should slowly try to make them understand the wrong and bad things so they be careful and avoid them when their parents aren't there to protect them.
I also hate how some people think dating a very young person will somehow make them get younger, it's pure stupidity (My father got married to a girl who is in her late 20's and he is is older than you...it's his third time getting married and godman it made me shudder and hate him even more, glad we had nothing to do with him since my mother divorced him anyway. Everyone assume he is her father, some even go as far saying he might as well be her grandpa since he looks quite old compared to how she looks).
Talking from experience since my mother was still 17 when she gave birth to my brother and since that day everything about her life became cursed, and the curse still continue to this day with me paying the price of her awful life decisions. Also she never managed to fully get what it's like to be a proper mother, and almost made my brother die many times as a baby cause she was still very young to know how to raise a fucking kid in a right way. That's why you should wait till you're an adult and fully prepared for such huge responsibilities. Sex and relationships aren't a game. They are not worth making yourself and maybe your future kids miserable just cause you are too horny to wait a bit. Yeah you can have sex and all that, but be careful, always use protection, and find someone decent, not just any human being who can get hard cause for females if they get pregnant, most guys just wanna run away, make the girl abort the kid (Which I actually support, I don't think anything is wrong with it, as long as the girl is convinced), or they do stay with the girl but the pressure and responsibilities drive them crazy and they end up hating each other and abusing the shit out of their kids (Like my case). Most people who are way older, just want to have fun, they don't want more responsibilities or kids, they just view these kids as sex toys to mess with for some time till they are bored.
I know everyone's opinion differs, but to me personally, I wouldn't want to date anyone who is more than 5 years older than me maximum and no more than 2 years younger. Because I have an older brother and he is 9 years older than me, so anyone who is close to that age gap between me and him, make me feel as if I'm dating an older brother figure and it makes me turned off. Let alone someone who might be as old as my dang mother. I know it might not make sense to some people but anyway I'm just that way.
Also I don't care if marrying kids happened before and all that you mentioned, doesn't make it less creepy or gross. Just like murders, yeah they happened before and still happen, does that make it normal and cool? Obviously not. Marrying a much much younger person just to convince yourself that you're young/immortal or whatever sounds more like a mental illness lmao
I know many Japanese are into this shit which is painfully clear from their fucked up loli culture in anime or idol industry, but just cause they are into it doesn't mean I should view it as normal. Some countries are into extreme misogyny or other awful stuff, does that makes it normal? No. I don't live in a bubble, I myself live in a fucked up country as well, but does not mean I should follow every stupid thing people do here like a sheep, all cause it's natural, or cause everyone are doing it.
We live in a different age than the age people married kids so they be quite fertile to produce as much kids as possible like rabbits. History is filled with dark crap, and mentally ill people and practices, we should eradicate these things instead of defend them. At least that is what I think is logical and I'm not trying to be rude to you personally at all, just I don't get why some of you are trying hard to defend it as if I said people shouldn't fall in love at all or something extreme of the sort.
At this day and age, anyone who actually have some sense would rather die than see their kid/teen get married or date someone who is an adult and is way older than them cause guess what? Most of these adults don't hang out with minors for the sake of marriage, real love, and having hundreds of kids nowadays. They do it to have sex, abuse and fetishizes the shit out of them unlike the medieval ages and guess what, tons of teens are so freaking easy to manipulate, cause many of them let their hormones control them, or go through lots of mental issues thanks to people around that might make them easy to fool, yeah I know that can also happen to adults, but most people don't act or think the same way they used to do back when they are a teenager. They do cringe and toxic stuff then become adults, and hopefully grow up and realize how stupid they were back then.
This why stuff like the Juvenile law exist, why? Cause everyone know it's hard to judge people who are still minors/not fully matured mentally, the same way as adults. You can't just let these kids do everything that adults are allowed to do and be like "As long as they act mature enough or pretend to be adult like, it's all cool and dandy". This type of mindset is the reason why there many teens who commit suicide, get pregnant...etc all cause they rush to do stuff they aren't ready for yet and it leads to them ruining their future and life along with their future kids future as well.
Some say the age of consent in Japan is 13...but if you think about it well, it's one hell of a disturbing decision, cause what would happen if a girl have sex while that young? She might get pregnant and if she doesn't abort the child, she will have to become a teen mother, at that age someone still need others to guard and guide them so they can grow into a decent human being especially with how bad of influence social medias are, so expecting them to actually raise another human being is just pure craziness.
This dramas plot is fiction, I know, but doesn't mean anything can also be viewed as normal and something to defend just cause "it's fiction". Just like some other BL dramas which romanticize rape and abuse, they are fiction, does that mean we should normalize them or be okay cause that type of thing happen in real life? No, I sure hope not! This drama isn't as dire and awful as the dramas I mentioned, I know. So far it has nothing sexual, just teens being stupid and reckless as hell, but I still won't think it's 100% cute and fine. Like seriously all the teens here could be at least 18 and the plot won't change much and nothing would be that much off, it's not really necessary for all of them to be minors. You can make an relationship with high age gap concept, without it going in the illegal path or crossing any lines.
After all what I said if you still think am not making sense and that these teen x adult culture is okay then sure, you do you, and have a nice day. I won't force myself to agree with you, still doesn't mean am trying to be rude to you in person, just that I won't agree with your opinion about this specific topic.
Thai:
1- Lovely Writer.
2- Manner of Death (It's crime BL drama, nice change from your typical drama).
3- Bad Buddy.
4- Kinnporsche (This one is more on the dark and violent side, but it's still great with amazing cast and chemistry).
5- 2gether.
6- Dark Blue Kiss (This one has two seasons before it, but Dark Blue Kiss is the only one that 100% focus on the gay guys couples).
7- A Tale of Thousand Stars.
8- Grey Rainbow.
9- My Bromance (Movie).
Japanese:
1- Kieta Hatsukoi.
2- His.
3- Life: Senjou wa Bokura.
4- Cherry Magic.
5- Zettai BL ni Naru Sekai (The title of this one is very long so I just wrote the first part of it, search it here on MDL lol).
6- Utsukushi Kare.
7- Old Fashion Cupcake.
8- Ossan's Love.
9- Doushitemo furetakunai (Movie).
10- Seven Days (Two Parts Movie).
11- FUJOSHI, UKKARI GEI NI KOKURU.
12- FUKOU-KUN WA KISS SURU SHIKANAI!
13- Pornographer.
14- RESTART AFTER COME BACK HOME (movei).
15- Boys Love (Two parts movie).
16- Ai no Kotodama (Movie).
17- Bokura No Ai No Kanade (Movie).
18- Itsuka no kimi e (Movie).
Chinese (These ones are mostly "Bromance" due to ban lmao but they are very great still. The actual BL ones happened before the ban was made):
1- Word of Honor.
2- The Untamed.
3- Addicted (This one is actual BL).
4- Guardian (The couple chemistry is great, very great. There is a cute secondary couple, but the budget is very low so you gotta expect some lousy CGI lol).
5- Advance Bravely (Actual BL).
6- The Sleuth of Ming Dynasty.
7- Killer and Healer.
8- Winter Begonia.
9- Love is More than a Word (Actual BL).
10- Men with Swords (This one has no female cast at all, not even servant, support, or background characters. It was a first for me to see such a drama which I appreciated lol and it has two seasons with very nice characters.
Overall these Chinese dramas I mentioned mostly focus on male characters even if there are female characters included and many of said female characters are likeable half of the time, so it doesn't get irritating to watch. Although some try to have a straight couple in the end, they don't really push it too much so I hope you give them a try, Chinese know to make beautiful emotional plots).
Taiwanese:
1- HIStory: Make Our Days Count.
2- We Best Love.
3- Your Name Engraved Herein (Movie).
4- Dear Tenant (Movie).
Filipino:
1- GameBoys.
2- Like In The Movies.
Korean:
1- Semantic Error.
2- Light on Me.
3- Where Your Eyes Linger.
4- No Regret (Movie).
5- A Frozen Flower (Movie. I really love this one, it includes both straigh and gay romance).
6- Just Friends? (Movie).
7- Long Time No See (Movie).
8- Method (Movie).
9- Night Flight (Movie).
10- Eclipse/Cutter (Movie).
11- You Make Me Dance.
12- Color Rush (Although this drama isn't super great, but it has a very unique plot which I really liked).
Vietnamese:
1- Mr Cinderella.
2- Follow My Sunshine.
3- You're My Boy.
4- Nation's Brother.
These are what I remember now, I have watched way more but most of them are trash so...if you want more dramas/movies or anime recommendations too (Both BL and non BL) feel free to ask. I basically watch stuff from all genres.
Anyway I need to agree that I really hate it when people assume that gay people are mostly about sex. What's wrong with the show being chill, and more emotion / romance focused than your typical western dating shows that are all about sex, alcohol, and rude remarks about each other? The reason I never got into dating shows was cause I couldn't appreciate the awfully vulgar and shallow concept they kept going for, but this and Merry Queer are the only couples/dating reality shows that I managed to watch without getting pissed off. I want to see them talk, get closer, understand each other, have fun, do enjoyable stuff, and act like normal adults than horny porn stars. Yeah sex is important in relationships I know, but it's not the most important part in my opinion, the feelings are what matter the most, otherwise it's just sex partners/friends with benefits relationship.