Look at what you can do good, don't look with evil eyes at what others do.
I understand what you mean. Completely. There is just one thing you must understand as well.
Flowers, which means personal money spent, is a fan/supporter thing. This doesn't mean that a KSH fan doesn't understand the pain KSR went through because it didn't send any flowers. It's also a problem because many KSR's "supporters" trashed KSH's page so there is less likely for them to show any gesture.
On the other side, the fans who are in charge of KSR's page should make sure the page receives the support, the love, the flowers and the kindness needed. How can KSR's page be full of flowers from KSH's fans when her own personal fans don't even send it?
As for the spamming and the hearts. don't be stressed with it and don't judge it. A page of a star is like a home to the fans. They can do whatever they want on that page. it's theirs. They keep it clean, they arrange the flowers, they write support and encouragement words, they keep the news updated, they chat with friends or visitors about that star's life and projects.
We (me, you, everyone else that is not a fan) are just visitors here. The way we behave says a lot. We don't have a right to complain how the fans are "decorating". It's their home, after all. their own personal taste. Some, even broke the door and entered full force in order to trash it shamelessly, like animals. Others, came in support to try and help them clean the broken pieces. Some, just came to watch the mess. In the end we will all have to go back to our homes. And they will slowly rebuild and redecorate.
Look at what you can do good, don't look with evil eyes at what others do.
Dammit wookii ! You fixed yourself on those damn flowers. I'll give KSR the pink flowers, so you won't feel that sad. But it is not really what you think it is. It's not lack of care for KSR.
First of all the huge amount of flowers that KSH received was gathered during years . MDL is a site full of people from all over the world. KSH's name and dramas were more accessible to them during past years which in return it brought them here and further it ended with flowers received.
2nd, believe me when I say that the amount of flowers he receives is not that big. If you look at the top you'll see people with double, going to triple. If you look right now at Bai Lu's page there are 13 people who sent 300 flowers each, just this week. 13 !! And Zhao Lusi is on 2nd place if I remember well. The guy who is on 1st place is practically a veteran.
3rd, normally the flowers are sent by fans. as I said, a fan is a person that identifies with a certain star. You can't really be upset that more people that identify with KSH than KSR are willing to buy flowers. It just happened to be so. As well as more people identify with Zhao Lusi for eg, than with KSH at this moment. And of course, are willing to buy flowers.
4th, It's true that KSR should also receive support in flowers but it can't be KSH fan's "fault" that she doesn't. This must be done by her supporters. Her fans. You can't really ask for a KSH fan to automatically give flowers to KSR, as well. It's really not fair.
And last, unfortunately people didn't mobilize in time, in order to help KSR with good words and support while she was struggling. Partly because they didn't know her and her situation and partly because for the ones who knew, either they weren't enough people to make a difference, either they didn't interfere from whatever reasons they had. This time, with KSH, lots of people interfered because the case came to be very very known all over.
And believe me when I say, that both KSR and KSH had similar childhood. They were both raised by single moms, struggled financially, developed abandonment issues because their dads didn't want to have anything to do with them. The big difference between them was that KSH received support from his mom while KSR had a mom who practically almost killed her which scared her forever. KSH started acting as a method to overcome shyness and introversion encouraged by his mom. KSR was sent to work by her own mom in order to support her family. KSH's mom stood by him during years and kept close, KSR's mom didn't even know what KSR is doing. No matter what would happen in her life, the lack of mother's love and support is hell unleashed in someone's soul. Something that will affect you during your entire life.
I'm going to offer those pink flowers. With love and support, I promise. But only because of you. I didn't give flowers to my own fav lately, so figure that. EDIT : I also gave a heart. Just don't feel sad, anymore.
Look at what you can do good, don't look with evil eyes at what others do.
Ok. I get what you mean. I can't answer you why exactly KSH because he's not my fav, nor my type. But I can answer you why usually people follow a certain actor/actress. Something that I already said to someone on MDL. A fan is a supporter of the values they consider a particular actor/actress have and they identify themselves with it. This is the core of a fandom. Among any fandom there are also some that follow that certain actor/actress for superficial reasons (these are also the first to go) and there are those who get into the fanatic sphere (God help us !)
Also, the core of a fandom will never condone actions of their favorite actor if the actor has broken those values. That would mean the actor has broken the trust. On the other side, to turn your back on a person that you admired and identified yourself with for so many years (some are with him from a decade ago) without an authentic official proof, would not only show that their trust and acknowledgement towards that actor was fake and superficial, but would also shake their moral ground when it comes to "when things get tough, I choose to run away".
Look at what you can do good, don't look with evil eyes at what others do.
lol...you are so sweet. Sry for interrupting. it means rather than looking down and pointing on someone else's actions (like spending money with no gain makes no sense), better look at the positive things you can do or say (like bringing a good word or a positive thought). Eg : At least these flowers are pink and pretty and they don't cost that much. Or...it's good that you can afford them...lol...things like that. You kinda' questioned what she is doing with her own money which is not really a good thing. But you were sweet. Anyway, this money goes to the MDL's Administration in order to keep the site going. The longer the site is open, the longer friends meet and chat about common things. And don't say you are not wise.
What is âfunnyâ to the point of becoming disgusting is that the âpoorâ mother of KSR, is just a woman,…
My honest opinion is that she doesn't actually care. Her story seems to be the woman with the broken dreams. She wanted to be a star but didn't make it, got married, had children, got divorced, ex husband completely disappeared. Wasn't used with working so she send KSR to work. The rest everybody knows. https://betterherdaily.com/mental-health-awareness-kim-sae-ron-teaches-us-about-trauma-and-survival/
They couldn't unleash everything because the so called proof that they had, contradicted one another. One stated…
Hi ! It is all a media show. Because they are under the eye of the public, the age of 12 and under, forces the family to file a complaint and go to trial instantly. Otherwise they will be condemned for not getting Justice for KSR. They never intended for this to go to trial due to lack of evidence. They just needed to stir the waters. As long as they stay within the old law (15, 14, 13), they have a âreasonable reasonâ not to go to trial (the actor wonât be held liable anyway) plus the actress at 12 and 13 looked completely different. Around 14-15 she started to resemble herself being major, like in the pictures they have. The actor wonât be prosecuted but a scandal will be born. The Koreans who fought to change the law 5 yrs ago, from 13 to 16, would never accept their star to be part of the old system and he would be canceled instantly.
But there is a twist. Once the family put their hands on the AI recording, they believed the voice of KSR confessing will be the one and only evidence needed and clearly they planned to suggest that if this happened in middleschool (12-15 yrs), there is a certainty he was around her during earlier years (through the industry). They were so sure they would cut a deal that they didnât even bother to make sure that AI is for real. That desperate they were. For money, of course. Which proves once again they never had evidence to begin with.
They couldn't unleash everything because the so called proof that they had, contradicted one another. One stated…
Lol. You are so right. But not because Garosero guy is stupid that he can't maintain a basic timeline. Timeline is made to suit the purpose. When 15 stopped working they lowered the age to 14, to make it more shocking. When that didn't work suddenly appeared an AI recording while at the age of 13, one time exclusive ! When that one came already after 2 failed attempts the plot thickened to FBI and other kdrama script. In order to give it weight they used the name of a respectable retired star. When this was exposed as fabricated and the one who made the tape admitted it was fake + the star came out and practically told them to FO, people that believed the story felt uncomfortable. And this is the point they grab whatever they can to justify their silliness. How would you feel to find out you were that easily manipulated ? Would you have the courage to admit you were wrong ?
It's so funny how some people are still struggling to accuse Kim Soo Hyun. I mean... would Kim Soo Hyun have waited…
What is âfunnyâ to the point of becoming disgusting is that the âpoorâ mother of KSR, is just a woman, depressed, who tried to kill KSR and her sisters in a joint suicide attempt, had to endure KSRâs 20 suicide attempts when KSR was supposed to make money instead and had no idea who KSR was interacting with during her entire life or that she even got married, because her own daughter didnât want to share her life with her. Imagine that ! This is the one who seeks Justice for her daughter. This is the one we must believe at all costs, because obviously she has no hidden agenda.
Soon, KSRâs family - I really donât get the family part because parents are divorced, thatâs why the mother went full nuts and tried to kill her daughters, cause she lost her man, the father became a ghost and now he is backâŠwell..at least the mother got her man back - will lose the only lawsuit they filed with the fabricated video + the lawsuits filed against them by KSH and they will be in a devastating financial loss. In order to survive (thereâs no more KSR to support them and nothing else to attack KSH with) they will have to sell poor KSRâs phone content, bit by bit. That is, if Garosero guy wonât beat them to the punch. Now thatâs what I believe is funny. Poetic Justice for KSR.
The biggest mistake KSR family made was releasing evidence one by one. It made everyone get tired of the story…
They couldn't unleash everything because the so called proof that they had, contradicted one another. One stated the couple dated from 2015, another stated that actually they were dating from 2014 and another stated the other 2 are not accurate and actually they dated since 2013., proven to be false. or fabricated. The only real thing they have is from 2018-2019 but doesn't help them with their narrative that the actress was a minor. Fabricating proof takes time using different tools, as well as money, in order to make it look as real as possible. That is why they were released one by one. While the first one makes its impact, they are working on the next one. And they shape each new fabricated proof in accordance to the public reaction. Releasing one by one also helped them with people speculating, which brought support to them. Once every piece of the so called proof was proven to be false and/or fabricated, people turned their backs, realizing it's a scam.
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Flowers, which means personal money spent, is a fan/supporter thing. This doesn't mean that a KSH fan doesn't understand the pain KSR went through because it didn't send any flowers. It's also a problem because many KSR's "supporters" trashed KSH's page so there is less likely for them to show any gesture.
On the other side, the fans who are in charge of KSR's page should make sure the page receives the support, the love, the flowers and the kindness needed. How can KSR's page be full of flowers from KSH's fans when her own personal fans don't even send it?
As for the spamming and the hearts. don't be stressed with it and don't judge it. A page of a star is like a home to the fans. They can do whatever they want on that page. it's theirs. They keep it clean, they arrange the flowers, they write support and encouragement words, they keep the news updated, they chat with friends or visitors about that star's life and projects.
We (me, you, everyone else that is not a fan) are just visitors here. The way we behave says a lot. We don't have a right to complain how the fans are "decorating". It's their home, after all. their own personal taste. Some, even broke the door and entered full force in order to trash it shamelessly, like animals. Others, came in support to try and help them clean the broken pieces. Some, just came to watch the mess. In the end we will all have to go back to our homes. And they will slowly rebuild and redecorate.
First of all the huge amount of flowers that KSH received was gathered during years . MDL is a site full of people from all over the world. KSH's name and dramas were more accessible to them during past years which in return it brought them here and further it ended with flowers received.
2nd, believe me when I say that the amount of flowers he receives is not that big. If you look at the top you'll see people with double, going to triple. If you look right now at Bai Lu's page there are 13 people who sent 300 flowers each, just this week. 13 !! And Zhao Lusi is on 2nd place if I remember well. The guy who is on 1st place is practically a veteran.
3rd, normally the flowers are sent by fans. as I said, a fan is a person that identifies with a certain star. You can't really be upset that more people that identify with KSH than KSR are willing to buy flowers. It just happened to be so. As well as more people identify with Zhao Lusi for eg, than with KSH at this moment. And of course, are willing to buy flowers.
4th, It's true that KSR should also receive support in flowers but it can't be KSH fan's "fault" that she doesn't. This must be done by her supporters. Her fans. You can't really ask for a KSH fan to automatically give flowers to KSR, as well. It's really not fair.
And last, unfortunately people didn't mobilize in time, in order to help KSR with good words and support while she was struggling. Partly because they didn't know her and her situation and partly because for the ones who knew, either they weren't enough people to make a difference, either they didn't interfere from whatever reasons they had. This time, with KSH, lots of people interfered because the case came to be very very known all over.
And believe me when I say, that both KSR and KSH had similar childhood. They were both raised by single moms, struggled financially, developed abandonment issues because their dads didn't want to have anything to do with them. The big difference between them was that KSH received support from his mom while KSR had a mom who practically almost killed her which scared her forever. KSH started acting as a method to overcome shyness and introversion encouraged by his mom. KSR was sent to work by her own mom in order to support her family. KSH's mom stood by him during years and kept close, KSR's mom didn't even know what KSR is doing. No matter what would happen in her life, the lack of mother's love and support is hell unleashed in someone's soul. Something that will affect you during your entire life.
I'm going to offer those pink flowers. With love and support, I promise. But only because of you. I didn't give flowers to my own fav lately, so figure that.
EDIT : I also gave a heart. Just don't feel sad, anymore.
Also, the core of a fandom will never condone actions of their favorite actor if the actor has broken those values. That would mean the actor has broken the trust. On the other side, to turn your back on a person that you admired and identified yourself with for so many years (some are with him from a decade ago) without an authentic official proof, would not only show that their trust and acknowledgement towards that actor was fake and superficial, but would also shake their moral ground when it comes to "when things get tough, I choose to run away".
Eg : At least these flowers are pink and pretty and they don't cost that much. Or...it's good that you can afford them...lol...things like that. You kinda' questioned what she is doing with her own money which is not really a good thing. But you were sweet.
Anyway, this money goes to the MDL's Administration in order to keep the site going. The longer the site is open, the longer friends meet and chat about common things.
And don't say you are not wise.
Kim Soo Hyun's 'My Love from the Star' Confirmed for June Broadcast on Largest Broadcasting Station in South America
https://m.entertain.naver.com/home/article/382/0001198821
A whopping 1.07 million views..Kim Soo-hyun maintains 1st place in Star Ranking for 3 consecutive weeks
https://m.entertain.naver.com/home/article/108/0003331247
And the impressions of a Korean fan (opinion started to shift, media still not supportive, everybody is waiting for the Court ruling)
https://x.com/S216B/status/1925410636558999939
https://betterherdaily.com/mental-health-awareness-kim-sae-ron-teaches-us-about-trauma-and-survival/
It is all a media show. Because they are under the eye of the public, the age of 12 and under, forces the family to file a complaint and go to trial instantly. Otherwise they will be condemned for not getting Justice for KSR. They never intended for this to go to trial due to lack of evidence. They just needed to stir the waters. As long as they stay within the old law (15, 14, 13), they have a âreasonable reasonâ not to go to trial (the actor wonât be held liable anyway) plus the actress at 12 and 13 looked completely different. Around 14-15 she started to resemble herself being major, like in the pictures they have. The actor wonât be prosecuted but a scandal will be born. The Koreans who fought to change the law 5 yrs ago, from 13 to 16, would never accept their star to be part of the old system and he would be canceled instantly.
But there is a twist. Once the family put their hands on the AI recording, they believed the voice of KSR confessing will be the one and only evidence needed and clearly they planned to suggest that if this happened in middleschool (12-15 yrs), there is a certainty he was around her during earlier years (through the industry). They were so sure they would cut a deal that they didnât even bother to make sure that AI is for real. That desperate they were. For money, of course. Which proves once again they never had evidence to begin with.
This is the one who seeks Justice for her daughter. This is the one we must believe at all costs, because obviously she has no hidden agenda.
Soon, KSRâs family - I really donât get the family part because parents are divorced, thatâs why the mother went full nuts and tried to kill her daughters, cause she lost her man, the father became a ghost and now he is backâŠwell..at least the mother got her man back - will lose the only lawsuit they filed with the fabricated video + the lawsuits filed against them by KSH and they will be in a devastating financial loss. In order to survive (thereâs no more KSR to support them and nothing else to attack KSH with) they will have to sell poor KSRâs phone content, bit by bit. That is, if Garosero guy wonât beat them to the punch. Now thatâs what I believe is funny. Poetic Justice for KSR.
Fabricating proof takes time using different tools, as well as money, in order to make it look as real as possible. That is why they were released one by one. While the first one makes its impact, they are working on the next one. And they shape each new fabricated proof in accordance to the public reaction.
Releasing one by one also helped them with people speculating, which brought support to them. Once every piece of the so called proof was proven to be false and/or fabricated, people turned their backs, realizing it's a scam.