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Replying to phoenixflies22 Jun 4, 2019
Title My True Friend Spoiler
omg... ZZ FOUND OUT SPC IS THE CHAIRMAN'S SON... SHE LOOKED ANGRY... guess she felt betrayed
I would have. I would take it that all this time, it has always been an act from SPC's part. I would also be mad at JR for being an accomplice. I would think, why has he hidden this from me? Is it because he fears that I would go for SPC because SPC is wealthier than JR? Then, what am I in his heart? A gold digger?
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Replying to Nessie26 Jun 4, 2019
Title My True Friend Spoiler
By only reading the comments here, it almost looks like JR is the bad, domineering guy who wants to change ZZ…
Absolutely agree with you.

Since ZZ has accepted JR as her boyfriend, logically, she should have kept some distance from SPC to avoid any misunderstanding. Although, most of the time, it is SPC who comes on to her, she should have drawn the line with him. I don't like it when she pretends she doesn't know SPC's intention and goes along with him.

I feel sorry for JR for being put in a difficult position. On one hand, he feels the responsibility as a son for his mother; he comes from a conventional family and he' s a filial pious son. On the other hand, this is the first time he meets a woman that he truly loves. Losing her may mean he may never marry again; he's not the type to simply find any woman and get married.

JR has tried to accommodate ZZ in every sense. But ZZ is the one who wouldn't compromise; she doesn't understand what it takes to have a happy family - sacrifices, like the way JR sacrifices for her by leaving Italy and coming back to China to start over.

Though I don't like JR's mother that much and wouldn't want a mother-in-law like that, what she says is not totally untrue - to have a successful marriage, both husband and wife must spend quality time together. Just that, her suggestions for ZZ to become a perfect housewife like, learning to cook gourmet food, flower arrangement, etc are a bit, .... urg! I wouldn't want to do that.

ZZ loves her work as a realtor, but she needs not do it at the expense of her family, especially her own boyfriend. She just needs to be more empathized to his needs and works things out with him if she seriously loves him.

His interview in the magazine quoting his ideal wife as someone who simply just stays by his side and be loved by him, shouldn't be taken as something unreasonable. In the right mind, who doesn't want to be loved and pampered by her man and not worried about finance and work?

Yeah, I agree with you. The scripts can be better.
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Replying to Nessie26 Jun 4, 2019
Well, I don't think JR is blindly following his mother's wishes. He is always upset (you can see his expressions,…
Yes, I know you're right about JR. Actually, my point is quite general. Time and time again, in Chinese dramas, filial piety is like the birth right of any parents whether they deserve it or not. There are times, I feel, just like to strangle those annoying parents like the shop keeper's (Miss Zeng's) parents.
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On My True Friend Jun 3, 2019
All children should love and respect their parents, but blindly obey to every wish and whim, that's called stupid, not filial piety.
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Replying to chase_kayden Jun 3, 2019
Overbearing mother-in-law? No thanks. Really, idk what to do if Aunt Bai would be my mother-in-law irl. I might…
You may be surprised how many potential mother-in-laws are thinking this way, especially in China. They normally have only 1 child. Divorce rate is high. They are so fearful that their child's divorce may ruin the family financially, especially from the perspective of the wealthier side.
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Replying to Benedict Jun 3, 2019
Zhu Yi Long must be perfect for these momma's boy roles. First in the Story of Minglan and now in this one. From…
The man-bun was supposed to make him look artistic XD (it's stereotyping).

You're right about Zhu Yi Long's roles in many dramas as a mama boy. Apart from this one and MingLan, the other one is Royal Sister Returns. Even when he played in MiYue, he was also a mama boy.

It's crazy to cast him as a man who loses his girl all the time (I think he's going to lose this one by the look of how this drama is developing). Must be p***ing off many fans.
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Replying to vionysus Jun 3, 2019
I looove Zhen Zhen's dad. We need more of him here in Asia lol.
Yes, open minded and can see further than most people.
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On Legend of the Phoenix Jun 3, 2019
Is it me or what, the male lead feels like a villain sometimes, especially when he gives a sly smile when the situation warrants seriousness?
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Replying to Onelovestorie Jun 3, 2019
I was totally interested based on the synopsis. I saw the trailer and liked it even more. Then I saw the tragedy…
The trailer is quite deceiving. So far, 6 episodes in, it doesn't feel like a very serious drama. Even the villains are silly and funny!
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Replying to ChineseDramaFan Jun 3, 2019
OMG! This is a cute youth/school drama. Can be as good as "Le Coup de Foudre" and "Put Your Head on My Shoulder".…
And I had the same hair style as Yan Ze at that age. Oh, boy!
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Replying to Kangni Xiao Jun 3, 2019
also agree.1. the acting is very cringe worthy. i'm confused by the male lead's expressions - like they randomly…
Yes, yes, yes. That's exactly what I'm thinking, "I'm confused by the male lead's expressions - like they randomly pan to him and he makes this devilish face as if he's the villain. the female lead exaggerates all her expressions, there's no subtlety in her acting."
I don't know if it is supposed to be funny or sad, then I see the FL crying, so I assume it is sad. Boy! I'm so confused.
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Replying to Kim MC Jun 3, 2019
I've seen the first two episodes and liked it but definitely agree with your points. Since this is labeled a tragedy,…
Yes, that's what I thought is the tragedy, but the way they act, as if everything is a joke! Can't fathom it.
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On Just an Encore Jun 3, 2019
OMG! This is a cute youth/school drama. Can be as good as "Le Coup de Foudre" and "Put Your Head on My Shoulder". Watched 2 episodes, loving every moment of it.
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Replying to Huruhi Jun 3, 2019
Lmao y'all won't go for another tragedy or Good bye my princess this year ! I'm out until it ends..or.. Should…
Let us watch a bit further. Will let you know.
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Replying to Oizys Jun 1, 2019
An Ge(Fei Dachuan) isn't in the cast even though he is everywhere in the drama.
Yes, he's one of my favorite characters!
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On My True Friend Jun 1, 2019
Despite being called childish, Shao Peng Cheng cares about others' feelings. He self-deprecates to make others feel better about themselves. He respects others' decisions. This is a hard-to-find trait.
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On My True Friend Jun 1, 2019
Title My True Friend Spoiler
Jin Ran's mother, with all due respect, can be a nasty mother-in-law. With a spineless and chauvinistic husband, life is going to be unbearable should anyone marry him.
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On Legend of the Phoenix Jun 1, 2019
After 5 episodes, this is my verdict:
1. Bad acting, especially by the main male lead, Jeremy Xu.
2. Bad logic.
3. I don't know if it's supposed to be a comedy or what. The exchanges can be funny and comedic. But when it comes to seriousness, it is still comedic. Furthermore, the villains are also comedic.
4. I cannot see how it can be a tragedy. Everything is a joke.

Should I drop or give it a chance and watch a few more episodes before I decide?
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On Legend of the Phoenix May 31, 2019
Title Legend of the Phoenix Spoiler
Episode 1. This really befuddled me. Why didn't the acrobatic troupe change their verses knowing that they could get into trouble for repeating the lines provided by the Princess? Some of this logic is weird.
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