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Oh I know you're not I'm just commenting on the writing and how one sided their relationship has been so far, she certainly doesn't owe him anything but this is a love story and so far he's the only one who seems very much in love, I would need her to step up her game A LOT for me to feel like she really loves him and buy into the romance but the writers seem to be hellbent on keeping this with him doing everything. Like yeah everyone keeps praising how romantic he is but I wonder if it was the other way around would people be praising her or wondering why the ml is not doing anything.

Yeah but like you said that's not him it's his brother and considering just how much he's done and sacrificed her, it's more than nice he was ready to die for her and has done so much more for her since the start, the least she can do is not blame him for his brother's sins, let's be real she's not really doing anything else for him is she...

I mean he literally took an arrow she shot and almost died so he could save her and her family so... That's the very least she can do.

When did this happen? Towards the start or middle? Because I asked and people told me their relationship becomes mutual and equal once they get together (towards ep 24) but the way you're describing it "he spent 10 episodes doing everything for her" seems like the usual cdrama nonsense...

Agreed about 2ML, having gone through things isn't an excuse to be an awful person, I don't ship him with the FL but he's an interesting complex character and in fiction that's all he needs to be. As for the leads I like them but I don't believe they have always been there for one another, so far it's only been ML and I hope FL really steps ups her game though I don't think she will.

Thanks for the detailed answer, you're right I don't need them to be equal in status but rather in their love for each other and how much they support and care for one another which does not seem to be the case here at all unfortunately. It seems the ML is a lot more invested and doing the lion's share of the care because all I see talked about is how much he's doing for her and how romantic it is and the other way around is crickets. I like my FLs to not only be badasses and equal in their standing but also making as much effort and loving as hard as their male counterparts.

I'm watching and loving idol I I haven't seen No tail to tell yet. But they're not equals in this one right so I should just drop it right? Once people start swooning over ML and how much he's doing for FL and wishing it was them or they had someone like him with almost zero mention of what FL's role and contribution to this relationship is, it's obvious what kind of rlsp it is.

I just finished ep 2, is ML already in love with her? Already?

Did it end up being more equal after the first episodes? Is it more Hidden love and Falling into you (equal, mutual) or Legally Romance and Filter (very one sided, ml doing almost everything).

That cap was lifted a while ago but it seems platforms are not interested in going back to longer dramas.

This isn't the real world though it's a fictional relationship written deliberately to tell a story and it doesn't have to be a 100% equal but a relationship where both are putting eo first and doing their best to take care of one another vs something where it's the ML doing everything like most dramas is a pretty big difference. Let's not pretend most dramas even try and almost always it's a guy whose entire life revolves around loving the fl and a girl who has him as number 14 on her priority list. And yet plenty of dramas have managed it, you are my glory from the same writer did it really well.

I figured because people's understanding of the world equal is very... interesting. If the roles were reversed I doubt it would be considered so. I was looking forward to this one given the writer did you are my glory but alas. My favorite one from last year was Wanna Be now that was equal.

Okay question how equal and reciprocal is the romance here? I see comparisons to Best Thing and that wasn't even close to equal, so are we actually talking equal love and devotion or "equal" in the sense that people call it equal when the male lead doing everything and the female lead not being awful to him is considered equal.

Oh she falls harder? That's interesting, it's not the impression the drama is giving so far, are they following the original story closely?

Is she as committed and caring towards ML as he is towards her? Because this is giving loser in love ml making most of the effort in the relationship vibes...

I have a question. How's the main couple's relationship in the webnovel? Mutually and equally loving from both sides or more ML is down bad doing everything by himself?

Yeah that's why I said she liked him but that hardly qualifies as she's crazy about him or even in love with him, the difference in their love and devotion for each other is incredibly immense.

Are they crazy about each other, I mean he is but she hasn't done anything that would lead me to that conclusion... He's ready to die for her, telling even in death he'll cling to her like 20 other things that show this but what exactly has she done that qualifies as anything more than "mildly likes him but more so likes how much he loves her and understands her".

" Some people enjoy watching romances that lean in the direction of being one-sided. Tons of K-dramas and C-dramas are like that. But I've personally had my fill of those" Are you me? Because it's so funny to me when people pretend these kinds of relationships don't make up 9 out of 10 dramas and I for one I'm tired of it and ready for more balance and mutual devotion.

I wouldn't keep waiting for anything like that, it's just going to be more of him sacrificing anything for her with no reciprocation, it's the classic cdrama romance formula and from the looks of it this won't be any different. If you want to watch something where there's actual love and sacrifice from both sides I suggest Fated Hearts, Love of the divine tree and Blossoming love.