My Bromance - a thai gay theme movie
I can recommand these movies: 

- Takumi-kun series
- Formula 17
- Go go G-boys
- Boys Love 1-2
- Taiikukan baby
- The Postcard
- The King and the Clown
- Sukitomo
- Ai no Kotodama
- Bokura no ai no kanade
- Itsuka no kimi e
- Gohatto
- Junjou
- Fujimi Orchestra

And I can recommand the j-drama "Renai Shindan."
How about The King and the Clown? 
If you're still looking for recs, you might give the Thai Drama Hormones/Hormones 2 a shot. It's an ensemble cast, and each character pretty much gets an episode that focuses on them, but there are gay characters (both male and female) that get significant story lines. I really enjoyed it, especially the second season. The third season has just started, too. There is also Lovesick, another Thai drama, but I haven't gotten around to watching that one yet.
It's great you don't like romantic comedies because gay movies 90% of the time are very very sad. 
That being said you should watch Somewhere I have never Travelled, not many people have.
There's also currently airing a lesbian jdrama called Transit Girls
It's not explicitly gay, but I my gaydar was going crazy throughout Shoot My Heart...?
Seven days Monday thru thurday and Friday thru Sunday
It's really cute~  
Also has romance in it between the two guys~