Definitely Meteor Garden and all of its remakes and sequels. Hana Yori Dango is one of my most memorable.
Itazaru Na Kiss and all of its remakes and sequels (I realise it isn't quite toxic, but it really takes a toll on the female lead)
Our Times (again, not quite toxic - but such a difficult time for both of the main characters, finding it so hard to just admit they like each other, some bullying etc)
He Was Cool (one of my first ever asian movies and always in my heart! This one for me was quite toxic / tough)
The majority of the dramas and movies I have watched have featured male leads who are quite controlling/jealous/toxic. I wish I could think of more but my mind is blank at the moment. Will come back if I think of any others. So sorry!