Tushan Jing and Xiao Yao, here's to a Happily Ever After

I find it kind of insulting to XY when I see " X L gave her to Jing"

XL  did NOT GIVE XY to his competitor jing in the novel or drama.

Why? Because: 

1-  you give something to someone when you have it in the 1rst place.  XL never had XY as "his" in the 1rst  place so he could never give her to Jing. Never .

2- Jing was never xl's  competitor.  To be someone's  competitor, you have to 1rst be on the same level and want the same price. 

Jing had already won the game long before XL even tried to become a player  . Jing  knew for sure when he was in XY's heart fully. L

XL knew this thanks to the bug. This is why  he did not reply to XY's SOS.  Had he replied, XY would have spend time been 2nd best and still be hurt by XY's  love for Jing.  He knew the depth of her love for Jing. He would not be winning anything. Not even consolation price. And that is the truth of the matter. 

Even during her break up period, Bei was not in XY heart as a potential lover. She was using him to escape the hurtful reality.

When she went in the sea with Bei, that was so she could escape seeing Jing and the pain that seeing him again brought her. 

This is in no way her treating XL as her potential lover. XL knew this more than any one. 

In fact the only person who gave XY  to someone was Jing.   He did this when he paid XL to break  Feng Long's  wedding. This is both the novel and the  drama fact. 

 peng-peng:

I find it kind of insulting to XY when I see " X L gave her to Jing"

Ahhh....True! That does make XY sound like a "thing" which she is not. I was referring to the opportunity. I should have said XL gave up the opportunity to be with XY. Thanks for pointing that out.

 peng-peng:

Jing was never xl's  competitor.  To be someone's  competitor, you have to 1rst be on the same level and want the same price. 

For me, based on the epilogue in the book and the things XL did for XY, these are not something one will do for a casual friend as it involved giving up lives, spending a great number of years & blood to heal someone etc. I believe that XL also loved XY. In that sense, he and Jing are her love competitors.

 peng-peng:

XL knew this thanks to the bug. This is why  he did not reply to XY's SOS.  Had he replied, XY would have spend time been 2nd best and still be hurt by XY's  love for Jing.  He knew the depth of her love for Jing.

Yes, maybe XL / FFB said no to XY's offer of wandering the world together because it might have been that he did not want to be her #2 since #1 place is already taken in XY's heart. But then that should not have been a block for XL/FFB if XY was the most important to him. Based on the events of that point in time, Jing was already married, the opportunity was there for XL even if he were in 2nd place in XY's heart. XL would have taken this opportunity if XY was #1 in his heart, but XY was not his #1 either. 

 peng-peng:

This is in no way her treating XL as her potential lover. XL knew this more than any one. 

This is on XL for blowing hot and cold to XY. He never gave a definite answer to her. We the audience know what XL did for XY, but she would not have known. She never knew how XL truly felt about her. Because of that uncertainty, XY's heart will not dare to let XL in. If XY had known for sure, I think that might have been another story. 

And we also know she can be quite hard hearted, like with CX after the "killing Jing" incident. I wonder if after she left with Jing for her travels, would CX ever get the chance to see her again? I am guessing no. CX lost XY forever. So if FFB had left with XY at that point in time when she asked him, I think Jing might never see XY again. T_T I am glad that story did not happen. But instead, the people who are meant to be together, are together. I am happy for YaoJing. 𓃦❁ 

 ChunTian:

And now I am expecting the snake hoards to come after me. LOL ?⟡?⟡?⟡?⟡?

Yeah, I told Peng Peng, I was referring to the opportunity and should have said XL gave up the opportunity to be with XY and not XL gave up XY to Jing.

I know you didn't mean that <3 but perhaps some have thought that lol.

This is a YaoJing thread. If you want to spread the Yaolui  best to go to the appropriate thread. 

"XL gave XY to jing" is a phrase that has been used by the YaoLiu a lot in their thread  and in the main mdl comment section since the drama aired. I do not like to see it spread here . 

The drama and novel were both extremely  clear. XY was not interrated in XL romantically.  She friendzoned him . Nothing could change this. She told him in his face many time. Even he rejected her friendship in S2 saying" a friend that he cannot touch"   She knew who was in her heart and who she wanted to spend the rest of her life hear. 

Also " a snake hoard coming at you".  Why call us that?  

You made a comment, I read and do not agree . I did not call you name.

I am tired to see  comments  "here" accusing Jing of this and that or taking Jing positive acts and give it to XL.

I am tired to see comments  here from  the same people  who are known to white wash every single negative acts of XL but turn every good acts from Jing as negative. 

That's all . 

 peng-peng:

This is a YaoJing thread. If you want to spread the Yaolui  best to go to the appropriate thread. 

I am not spreading anything here that Yaoliu is the best. Do go back up the comments to see for yourself if I am a YaoLiu fan.

 peng-peng:

Also " a snake hoard coming at you".  Why call us that?  

 peng-peng:

You made a comment, I read and do not agree . I did not call you name.

 If you take a closer look, I was responding to the Sunbath's comment that >>" XL himself would be insulted to hear someone say this lol. << 

Since I have "insulted" XL, I was joking that the snake hoards are going to come at me. I do not understand how that became about you and YaoJing supporters being called a snake hoard. I am also a YaoJing supporter, why on earth would I call myself a snake hoard too? LOL

 peng-peng:

"XL gave XY to jing" is a phrase that has been used by the YaoLiu a lot in their thread  and in the main mdl comment section since the drama aired. I do not like to see it spread here . 

 peng-peng:

I am tired to see  comments  "here" accusing Jing of this and that or taking Jing positive acts and give it to XL.

I am tired to see comments  here from  the same people  who are known to white wash every single negative acts of XL but turn every good acts from Jing as negative. 

I understand where you are coming from and do not like what XL supporters say about Jing in the main thread. But you need to first identify who are the Xiang Liu fans who say the above statements and other negative things. I am not one of them. I have been on the YaoJing thread for a while now. I would have been thrown out earlier on if I was talking like one of those YaoLiu fans from the main page. LOL

If you need to tell me your point of view, please do, I am open to it. Like what you mentioned about saying to give up XY as though she is a thing etc, I have not thought of it that way and am happy that you have pointed it out to me.  But there was no need to be so fierce in the way we speak to fellow YaoJing fans without the full picture. It was just assumed I am a YaoLiu fan here, which is not true. 

Anyways, chill.

I'll be on my way. TGIF everyone.