Yes, I watched Devil Beside You a while back and remember liking it - the male lead was more of a teasing tormentor in a charming way if I remember correctly, but when it comes to You Always Inhabit My Heart, so far, no such luck when it comes to the jerk - he's just a complete jerk with zero charm. If what you are looking for is a charming jerk, you're not going to find it here. He's the least charming character imaginable and if she ends up with him, I'm literally going to scream at her through my monitor.
As for the female lead, I get how they are trying to show how broken she became after her relationship with the jerk, but it's hard to watch her act the way she does. If she acted stronger, I don't think the jerk would bother with her anymore. I would love to see some progression in that the female lead doesn't act like either a spaz or a doormat all the time, but from what I've seen so far, I'm not going to hold my breath on that one. I did try finding the manga it was based on to see if it got any better, but I couldn't find it online.
Anyway, wish I had a better suggestion for you, but yea, the category I think is very limited lol... Figured it might be worth a shot since it reminded me of some of your criteria.
I will have to watch Cheese in the Trap at some point, though. Sounds like it would be a much more enjoyable show. It's been on my watchlist for a while now, but just haven't gotten there yet :)