I was so pressed for time lately, had time only for 30 min dailies... and I am still behind on a few dramas..
So I had to binge watch 6 episodes of We Are ALl Trying Here to catch up. AND AFTER WATCHING THAT, MY EYES/EARS BECAME SHARPER. Some dramas I watched seem trash now.
Our Happy Days survived the test :) and, I am sure Our Happy Days can be even better. The key is ML actor.
i started it and then stopped, deciding to binge because it was very hard to take, the pain and angst and all…
Definitely. So focus on the good too :) Both are important :) What I am saying is: feeling the bad stuff is necessary to take us down on our knees HOWEVER if you stay stuck there, you will sink and miss the point
BE LIKE A CHILD - allow your feelings naturally and never miss an opportunity to delight in something beautiful and to play :)
I am oversimplifying this, sometimes grieving periods for adults last a long time, but no matter how long, eventually, BEING ALIVE MEANS NOTICING THE BEAUTIFUL AND ENJOYING PLAYING
Are DM and EH in a romantic relationship? Not really. There was never I love you, let's date, a kiss, any physical intimate time, spending time together in private. She came to eat once in his house with his brother. They two were never alone in a private setting, never even made a meal and ate it together, just them.
Right now, they are hanging out in a very beautiful healing friendship, supporting and healing each other, and slowly falling in love. To make it a real romantic relationship, both have to grow first.
He is not ready - remember how he left her and walked away when she was almost run by a car? And his livelihood and movie making situation too.... And his presence in the outside world... So immature.
He is not stable and mature enough to be in a real relationship. And she is not ready too - she is majorly depressed and half dead, barely alive.
But they are helping each other and healing...
and now her script is being produced and pushing her to transform her victim relationship to work and abusive ex-lover(s)..... I am sure there was more than one!!!!.. and the situation with her mother is pushing her to transform her sense of being useless... .. and DM is pushed to transform into a real movie maker he should be....
SO ... once that all transforms sufficiently to start a fire ... wow ! =====================================================
As to DM's looks. To me, he looks like he has not taken a good shower, his clothes too look dirty and are ... icky, his hairdo is ... omg awful. BUT THOSE ARE ALL EXTERNALS THAT CAN BE EASILY FIXED :)
***** ..... What is behind the shabby external look... ? **** There might be more than one pretty boys fans here.... so I will spell it out for them. And I suggest they listen to youtube videos of Stephan Speaks lmao
DM has a very strong body, we saw his naked legs in shorts in the beginning when he was depressed - wow he got GREAT LEGS! He is strong. His skipping on the street, his dancing, his catering work, his constant eating lmao his ENERGY!!!! all show that he is IN GREAT SHAPE :) DM is a well camouflaged sex bomb.
His face is not an idol's face but he is super charming, creative, and has nice skin. With a better haircut and a good shower, even his face would look great. I would just whiten his teeth :)
DM is kind, caring, affectionate, and supportive - how he tells her stories to sleep, how he hunted down her abusive ex to put her name down as the author, how he talked to her while he was upside down - he is COMMITTED, LOYAL, DEDICATED, SELFLESS, CARING. Ah now we are talking about what really matters. **** HE TRULY LOVES HER AND IS THERE FOR HER. ****
and his fantasy of the two of them frying eggs with SPAM lmao and eating it together, having fun and being affectionate, shows that DM is husband material. He wants/needs a permanent romance and a loving home. EH needs it too... .
Wow he looks better and better the more we analyze him, doesnt he?
FYI to idol/pretty boys fans: as a lover, DM is gonna shine. His putting his watch next to hers and cutely saying "we are synchronized" is some of the BEST EVER FLIRTING. That dude is a charmer. He sweeps women off their feet...
And.... He has a strong body, he moves, he eats, he is so energetic!!!! he is creative, he is actually a lot sexier than any of the pretty boys in any other dramas, pretty boys with super skinny bodies and plastic surgery androgenous faces with serious / grumpy / cold look all the time.
DM IS DA MAN with a charming, vibrant, warm, COMMUNICTIVE, EXPRESSIVE, AFFECTIONATE, healing personality. Not an anorexic teenage girl looking 1-dimensional dude with the personality of cardboard.
So once DM gets rid of his annoying childish behaviors and gets to the business and starts making his dreams come true, and gets a better hairdo, some new clothes, and a good hot shower, ...
woooow he will be 1000% AWESOME. She too has to overcome her issues first :) And then - they are very suited and happy romantic partners for life, most likely.
and.... When they become famous, zillion other ppl will be chasing them, so ... Hopefully their fame doesnt get to their heads and turn them flat and boring and cheating lmao
HJ is not punishing DM by producing his script... he keeps saying he wants to swim and knows how to swim, so she gave him an opportunity to swim - she pushed him into the deep water and is forcing him to swim OR sink and die.
That is tough love - he is just sitting on the shore whining and WILL do that until he dies!!! after 20 yrs he is almost addicted to sitting on the shore.... so someone had to push him into the water to ensure that this stallmate situation finally moves on AND HE FINALLY STARTS LIVING - or dies.
Is he ready to swim as he claims he is? His script is sorta kinda ready, if he did the revisions correctly. But is DM ready? Ready to collaborate with 200-500 ppl on the movie set, and not blow up, not talk trash, and not react every time someone doesnt like him or there is a problem?
CAN he stay calm and patiently and diligently communicate and solve problems as they arise?
THAT will be the test for him. He will have to overcome that if he wants to make movies so badly that he is willing to overcome his character flaws and transform, rise up above what he used to be, to get what he wants.
Let's see if making movies is so important to him as he claims :) HE HAS TO DIE TO HIS OLD SELF TO BE REBORN AS A MOVIE MAKER. That's his test :)
HJ PUSHED HIM IN FOR HIM TO PROVE HIS LOVE FOR MOVIE MAKING.
He has to transform to get what he claims is his. And I think he is perfectly capable of it. BUT it's gonna take some effort lmao That is why this is ep 8 only :)
This should not have been a romance. It detracts with what would have been a great character slice of life drama…
DM is immature man-child in many ways, that is true that he is not ready for romance - e.g when she was almost run over by a car, he was so happy HE WAS CORRECt and he just left her and WALKED AWAY!!!! instead of tending to her
BUT - he and she are not yet in a real romantic relationship. They never said I love you, they never kissed or had physical contact, they never said let's date. THEY ARE JUST HANGING OUT IN A VERY BEAUTIFUL SUPPORTIVE FRIENDSHIP. precisely bc he is not ready yet AND she is not ready too - she got issues to solve as well
But they are healing to each other and so them hanging out together is helpful and healing for both of them.
in the worst case, they will stay beautiful friends.
In the best case, they will both transform and become very deep lovers.
In any case, DM is very attractive - did you see his body? His legs are so strong. Do you see him skipping around and dancing? He is in great shape. His face is not the pretty idol type but he is manly and handsome AND HE IS CHARMING, CREATIVE, AND CARING and that is what matters :)
His putting his watch next to hers and cutely saying "we are synchronized" is some of the BEST EVER FLIRTING
Him telling her funny stories so that she can fall asleep, etc etc
How he hunted down the evil ex to make him put his name on...
HE HAS A FUN WARM LOVING PERSONALITY AND THE PHYSICAL ABILITY ;) AND THE KIND GOOD CARING SOUL AND HE KEEPS HELPING HER AND PROTECTING HER AND ADORING HER
what else do you want in a man? Once DM is able to overcome all his external world bs and becomes a more calm and confident MAN, he will be this ... amazing hot stud real man.
DM has great potential to be a really great MAN. And hopefully he makes it.
you got poor taste in men :) and you don't see the man for who he is :) that is what matters :) Open your eyes a little bit more :)
ep8I feel as if this drama is happening to real people in real time and a ripple went across the world when we…
She not punishing him... he keeps saying he wants to swim and knows how to swim, so she gave him an opportunity to swim - she pushed him into the deep water and is forcing him to swim OR sink and die.
Is he ready to swim as he claims he is? His script is sorta kinda ready, if he did the revisions correctly. But is DM ready? Ready to collaborate with 200-500 ppl on the movie set, and not blow up, not talk trash, and not react every time someone doesnt like him or there is a problem?
CAN he stay calm and patiently and diligently communicate and solve problems as they arise?
THAT will be the test for him. He will have to overcome that if he wants to make movies so badly that he is willing to overcome his character flaws and transform, rise up above what he used to be, to get what he wants. Let's see if making movies is so important to him as he claims :) HE HAS TO DIE TO HIS OLD SELF TO BE REBORN AS A MOVIE MAKER. That's his test :)
Metaphorically, HJ nailed him on the cross and said RESURRECT YOURSELF. NOW!
His script is sorta kinda ready, if he did the revisions correctly. But is HE ready? Ready to collaborate with 200-500 ppl on the movie set, and not blow up, not talk trash, and not react every time someone doesnt like him or there is a problem?
CAN he stay calm and patiently and diligently communicate and solve problems as they arise? THAT will be the test for him.
i started it and then stopped, deciding to binge because it was very hard to take, the pain and angst and all…
So funny - I see all that but it isnt THE main thing - the main thing is that DM still has that inner field of flowers and is alive and well and trying, AND I FEEL GOOD after watching an episode. *** DM IS SO ALIVE AND VIBRANT *** I binge watched 6 episodes to catch up and that made me feel so much better.
i started it and then stopped, deciding to binge because it was very hard to take, the pain and angst and all…
So funny - I see all that but it isnt THE main thing - the main thing is that DM still has that inner field of flowers and is alive and well and trying, AND I FEEL GOOD after watching an episode. *** DM IS SO ALIVE AND VIBRANT ***
She wanted to hate debut Dong Man's script and has no idea that he has rewritten it all. She's not ready
omg you are so literal... I give up talking to you. HDM IS A LAZY BUM WHO NEVER GOT OFF HIS BUTT TO IMPROVE HIS SELF PRESENTATION and keeps lollygagging
sure he wrote 14 scripts and submitted them, has part time jobs, etc but he never ever REALLY put himself into it
He is lazy on his inner work - not out of sheer laziness but out of fear, insecurity, complancency, etc.
But you dont seem to be able to see anything but literally, there is no ability in your thinking for complex and paradoxical
So I give up on talking with you. YOU ARE WASTING MY TiME.
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That is the actress too, I think. Someone here said she is good friends with JH actor.
So I had to binge watch 6 episodes of We Are ALl Trying Here to catch up. AND AFTER WATCHING THAT, MY EYES/EARS BECAME SHARPER. Some dramas I watched seem trash now.
Our Happy Days survived the test :)
and, I am sure Our Happy Days can be even better. The key is ML actor.
All business owners should go undercover through their company to find out what is really going on
What I am saying is: feeling the bad stuff is necessary to take us down on our knees
HOWEVER if you stay stuck there, you will sink and miss the point
BE LIKE A CHILD - allow your feelings naturally and never miss an opportunity to delight in something beautiful and to play :)
I am oversimplifying this, sometimes grieving periods for adults last a long time, but no matter how long, eventually, BEING ALIVE MEANS NOTICING THE BEAUTIFUL AND ENJOYING PLAYING
Not really. There was never I love you, let's date, a kiss, any physical intimate time, spending time together in private. She came to eat once in his house with his brother. They two were never alone in a private setting, never even made a meal and ate it together, just them.
Right now, they are hanging out in a very beautiful healing friendship, supporting and healing each other, and slowly falling in love. To make it a real romantic relationship, both have to grow first.
He is not ready - remember how he left her and walked away when she was almost run by a car? And his livelihood and movie making situation too.... And his presence in the outside world... So immature.
He is not stable and mature enough to be in a real relationship.
And she is not ready too - she is majorly depressed and half dead, barely alive.
But they are helping each other and healing...
and now her script is being produced and pushing her to transform her victim relationship to work and abusive ex-lover(s)..... I am sure there was more than one!!!!.. and the situation with her mother is pushing her to transform her sense of being useless... ..
and DM is pushed to transform into a real movie maker he should be....
SO ... once that all transforms sufficiently to start a fire ... wow !
=====================================================
As to DM's looks. To me, he looks like he has not taken a good shower, his clothes too look dirty and are ... icky, his hairdo is ... omg awful. BUT THOSE ARE ALL EXTERNALS THAT CAN BE EASILY FIXED :)
***** ..... What is behind the shabby external look... ? **** There might be more than one pretty boys fans here.... so I will spell it out for them. And I suggest they listen to youtube videos of Stephan Speaks lmao
DM has a very strong body, we saw his naked legs in shorts in the beginning when he was depressed - wow he got GREAT LEGS! He is strong.
His skipping on the street, his dancing, his catering work, his constant eating lmao his ENERGY!!!! all show that he is IN GREAT SHAPE :)
DM is a well camouflaged sex bomb.
His face is not an idol's face but he is super charming, creative, and has nice skin. With a better haircut and a good shower, even his face would look great.
I would just whiten his teeth :)
DM is kind, caring, affectionate, and supportive - how he tells her stories to sleep, how he hunted down her abusive ex to put her name down as the author, how he talked to her while he was upside down - he is COMMITTED, LOYAL, DEDICATED, SELFLESS, CARING.
Ah now we are talking about what really matters.
**** HE TRULY LOVES HER AND IS THERE FOR HER. ****
and his fantasy of the two of them frying eggs with SPAM lmao and eating it together, having fun and being affectionate, shows that DM is husband material. He wants/needs a permanent romance and a loving home. EH needs it too... .
Wow he looks better and better the more we analyze him, doesnt he?
FYI to idol/pretty boys fans: as a lover, DM is gonna shine. His putting his watch next to hers and cutely saying "we are synchronized" is some of the BEST EVER FLIRTING. That dude is a charmer. He sweeps women off their feet...
And.... He has a strong body, he moves, he eats, he is so energetic!!!! he is creative, he is actually a lot sexier than any of the pretty boys in any other dramas, pretty boys with super skinny bodies and plastic surgery androgenous faces with serious / grumpy / cold look all the time.
DM IS DA MAN with a charming, vibrant, warm, COMMUNICTIVE, EXPRESSIVE, AFFECTIONATE, healing personality. Not an anorexic teenage girl looking 1-dimensional dude with the personality of cardboard.
So once DM gets rid of his annoying childish behaviors and gets to the business and starts making his dreams come true,
and gets a better hairdo, some new clothes, and a good hot shower, ...
woooow he will be 1000% AWESOME.
She too has to overcome her issues first :)
And then - they are very suited and happy romantic partners for life, most likely.
and.... When they become famous, zillion other ppl will be chasing them, so ... Hopefully their fame doesnt get to their heads and turn them flat and boring and cheating lmao
That is tough love - he is just sitting on the shore whining and WILL do that until he dies!!! after 20 yrs he is almost addicted to sitting on the shore.... so someone had to push him into the water to ensure that this stallmate situation finally moves on AND HE FINALLY STARTS LIVING - or dies.
Is he ready to swim as he claims he is?
His script is sorta kinda ready, if he did the revisions correctly.
But is DM ready? Ready to collaborate with 200-500 ppl on the movie set, and not blow up, not talk trash, and not react every time someone doesnt like him or there is a problem?
CAN he stay calm and patiently and diligently communicate and solve problems as they arise?
THAT will be the test for him. He will have to overcome that if he wants to make movies so badly that he is willing to overcome his character flaws and transform, rise up above what he used to be, to get what he wants.
Let's see if making movies is so important to him as he claims :)
HE HAS TO DIE TO HIS OLD SELF TO BE REBORN AS A MOVIE MAKER. That's his test :)
HJ PUSHED HIM IN FOR HIM TO PROVE HIS LOVE FOR MOVIE MAKING.
He has to transform to get what he claims is his.
And I think he is perfectly capable of it. BUT it's gonna take some effort lmao That is why this is ep 8 only :)
BUT - he and she are not yet in a real romantic relationship. They never said I love you, they never kissed or had physical contact, they never said let's date.
THEY ARE JUST HANGING OUT IN A VERY BEAUTIFUL SUPPORTIVE FRIENDSHIP.
precisely bc he is not ready yet
AND she is not ready too - she got issues to solve as well
But they are healing to each other and so them hanging out together is helpful and healing for both of them.
in the worst case, they will stay beautiful friends.
In the best case, they will both transform and become very deep lovers.
In any case, DM is very attractive - did you see his body? His legs are so strong. Do you see him skipping around and dancing? He is in great shape. His face is not the pretty idol type but he is manly and handsome AND HE IS CHARMING, CREATIVE, AND CARING and that is what matters :)
His putting his watch next to hers and cutely saying "we are synchronized" is some of the BEST EVER FLIRTING
Him telling her funny stories so that she can fall asleep, etc etc
How he hunted down the evil ex to make him put his name on...
HE HAS A FUN WARM LOVING PERSONALITY
AND THE PHYSICAL ABILITY ;)
AND THE KIND GOOD CARING SOUL
AND HE KEEPS HELPING HER AND PROTECTING HER AND ADORING HER
what else do you want in a man? Once DM is able to overcome all his external world bs and becomes a more calm and confident MAN, he will be this ... amazing hot stud real man.
DM has great potential to be a really great MAN.
And hopefully he makes it.
you got poor taste in men :) and you don't see the man for who he is :) that is what matters :) Open your eyes a little bit more :)
Same for other awards
17 of them trash rated future eps for Filing for Love
etc
Is he ready to swim as he claims he is?
His script is sorta kinda ready, if he did the revisions correctly.
But is DM ready? Ready to collaborate with 200-500 ppl on the movie set, and not blow up, not talk trash, and not react every time someone doesnt like him or there is a problem?
CAN he stay calm and patiently and diligently communicate and solve problems as they arise?
THAT will be the test for him. He will have to overcome that if he wants to make movies so badly that he is willing to overcome his character flaws and transform, rise up above what he used to be, to get what he wants. Let's see if making movies is so important to him as he claims :)
HE HAS TO DIE TO HIS OLD SELF TO BE REBORN AS A MOVIE MAKER. That's his test :)
Metaphorically, HJ nailed him on the cross and said RESURRECT YOURSELF. NOW!
But is HE ready? Ready to collaborate with 200-500 ppl on the movie set, and not blow up, not talk trash, and not react every time someone doesnt like him or there is a problem?
CAN he stay calm and patiently and diligently communicate and solve problems as they arise?
THAT will be the test for him.
but you have to see what is not seen
it is all in the DM's inner flowers
What he acts is so diverse.
In It's OK not to be OK, he was a mentally disabled
In Mr Plankton he was a hilarious clumzy man in love
In Climax, he was a chaebol snotty villain
etc etc etc etc
If you click on his name in the Casting in MDL for this drama, you will see
And he was a fantastic dad in Twinkling Watermellon too :)
AND IT IS ALMOST THE SAME AND SOMETIMES THE SAME FACIAL EXPRESSIONS that make him either nice or slimey psychotic
How old are you....
omg you are so literal... I give up talking to you.
DO NOT EVER WRITE TO ME ANYMORE. YOU ARE WASTING MY TIME.
sure he wrote 14 scripts and submitted them, has part time jobs, etc but he never ever REALLY put himself into it
He is lazy on his inner work - not out of sheer laziness but out of fear, insecurity, complancency, etc.
But you dont seem to be able to see anything but literally, there is no ability in your thinking for complex and paradoxical
So I give up on talking with you. YOU ARE WASTING MY TiME.
PLEASE DO NOT EVER WRITE TO ME ANYMORE