Reviews

This is available, free and legally - and finally fully subbed - on Thai PBS via their VIPA app and vipa.me streaming service. If you are interested in it, please show your support for queer programming by watching legally. It is in your interest to do so.

The characters are a close-knit circle, friends since high school, their partners, families and work colleagues. Every significant character gets an episode, the core characters more than one. Noom Surawut’s Ohn is at the centre of it all, comforting and grounding with his calm, gentle demeanour.

The series aims to foster greater understanding through depicting a wide range of difficulties faced by those who are gender diverse. Adult relationships, aging, illness, death, and childhood are all touched on.

In the early episodes it can get a bit didactic with explanations but those pass quickly enough. Something it doesn’t spell out which may be helpful for MDLers to know is that Thai frameworks for orientation and gender identity don’t match up with western conceptions and can be more fluid.

As a simple example, when they use language like “gender diverse”, this includes gay and lesbian as well as trans and non-binary. Kathoey is a third gender, sometimes camp, tending towards effeminate. The characters will tell you about themselves, or one will explain to another.

“Romance” is perhaps a misleading genre, depending on how you define it - the relationships are long term and well established, seven years for one, much longer for the other. It’s not even like What Did You Eat Yesterday, with its focus on two men falling more and more in love with each other. The gay is gay, not BL gay.

Each episode is structured around a problem which keeps a character awake - the “hard nights” of the English title - and ends with enough resolution they’re able to sleep.

Many episodes are slice of life vignettes, while a few are more like short stories with a fair bit of flashback and personal history. The characters are likeable and engaging, but there isn’t a compelling story line driving everything. It’s just characters to spend time with, learn about and root for as they navigate the difficulties of being middle aged and gender diverse in Thailand.

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What even WAS that?!?

These are just my opinion, please don't come at me. This review might be all over the place, because that's the way the show was.
The good:
-The baby. ABSOLUTELY the high point of the entire show. He was precious. I need to go find behind the scenes footage of how they worked with him.
-The ending was so cute with all the scenes of the baby.
The bad:
-I love Bae In Hyuk, but to me it felt like he was struggling to get through this drama.
-I don't like love triangles to begin with, but this one went on entirely too long. Plus, the FL had more scenes and chemistry with the 2ML than ML. It's not right when they spend more time on that relationship than the main relationship. Plus, the FL acted like she liked the 2ML more, until she suddenly decided to like the ML. Did the writers realize they were running out of episodes and scramble to get them back on track? Because the ML/FL relationship certainly seemed like an afterthought. NOW, I understand why people ask about triangles before watching something.
-FL acting. Bad. It felt like they filmed a bunch of reaction shots of her and then edited them in. I often felt like her scenes were her the only one there, the rest was green screened.
-Tone of the show. So many wonderful opportunities for sweetness lost. They should have focused on trying to figure out how to co-exist and raise a baby, but the baby often seemed like just a prop.
-Unnecessary drama. When the ML's dad showed up, that was a waste.
-To me, the biggest problem was FL's actions. She was trying to become a permanent employee, stayed late all the time, not giving the baby a thought. She didn't supervise him well at all. She lost him, he got injured because she wasn't watching him, she was always pawning him off on someone else to watch him. When he got taken away, I couldn't even get emotional, because that was completely justified. Plus, her extreme reaction was painful to watch because it was so poorly acted.
-They continued to call each other "in-law" even after they were a couple. Granted, the subtitles said their names, but they were definitely saying in-law. That in itself showed the lack in their relationship.

The only reason I even gave it a rating of 4 was because of the baby.

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An emotional story that lacked closure.

This drama was emotional, heartfelt, and genuinely moving. I cried a lot. It does a really good job of pulling you into the characters’ lives, especially the family dynamics. That’s easily where it shines the most.

But outside of the emotional impact… it falls short.

There’s barely any real closure. For a story built around relationships, it’s frustrating that there are no proper goodbyes or meaningful farewells, especially between the son and his parents in the past. It just feels unfinished.

The plot also drags at times, particularly with the unnecessary love triangle that goes on way too long and contradicts what we’re told about the parents’ relationship. It didn’t add anything meaningful.

And the ending? Honestly, it just didn’t work for me. Yes, it’s emotional - but it’s also rushed and kind of hollow. He gets thrown back into the present, and all that trauma he experienced is just… his to carry alone. No real resolution, no proper payoff. It feels like the story just stops instead of actually ending. ML worked so hard in the past and the payoff is... their ultra rich now and he is famous?

I wanted something more - maybe even just a special episode to tie everything together.

In the end, it’s a drama that excels at making you feel something, and makes you think about what your parents were like before they became your parents, but struggles to follow through in a satisfying way.

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DRAMA OWNED MY HEARTT

I just finished Pursuit of Jade, and I’m still sitting here in a puddle of happy tears, replaying every tender glance, every quiet promise, every heartbeat of this beautiful story. This drama didn’t just entertain me but it wrapped around my soul and refused to let go. From start to finish, it felt like coming home to the kind of love and justice we all secretly crave.
What I loved most is how real and layered the characters felt. Fan Changyu is everything: fierce, unapologetic, soft in the places that matter most. She carries her butcher’s knife like a crown, and watching her love without apology healed something in me. Then there’s Xie Zheng—oh, my heart!!!
That quiet storm of a man, carrying so much pain behind those restrained eyes, yet choosing gentleness every time it counted. Their chemistry is electric yet so tender; it’s the kind of slow-burn that makes you hold your breath, then explodes into moments so intimate and devoted that I genuinely clutched my chest. The way they look at each other—like the rest of the world simply ceases to exist—left me breathless over and over.
The side characters stole pieces of my heart too. The innocence and purity in Bao’er and Changning’s connection felt like a warm light in the middle of all the shadows. Their friendship blooms so naturally, so healingly, that it reminded me how powerful small acts of kindness can be. Even the more complicated relationships carried so much emotional weight; every glance, every unspoken regret added depth without ever feeling forced.
The storyline is masterful. It balances revenge, loyalty, war, and romance without ever losing its heart. There were moments of gut-wrenching tension, breathtaking action, and then these pockets of pure, aching sweetness that made everything worthwhile. Nothing felt rushed or cheap, instead every emotion was earned, every turn meaningful.
I never once felt bored, confused, or let down. The script respected its characters and its audience, and that trust made the payoff so much sweeter.
Visually, it’s stunning ofcourse! the snowy nights, the battlefield dust, the soft lantern glow during quiet confessions. The music wraps around every scene like an embrace. And the acting? Tian Xiwei and Zhang Linghe poured their souls into these roles. Their chemistry isn’t just good but it’s soul-deep, the kind that makes you believe in fate all over again.
This drama reminded me why I fell in love with stories like Love Like the Galaxy, The Legend of Anle, and The Long Ballad, etc. because when love fights through pain and comes out stronger, when justice finally arrives with open arms, it feels like the universe is right again.
Pursuit of Jade is now one of my forever favorites. It made me laugh, sob, scream in joy, and feel so deeply seen. My heart is so full, so content, so unwilling to let go. It’s going to take weeks or maybe months to move on from this one, and honestly? … I don’t want to.
Thank you to every single person who brought this world to life. You gave us something truly special.
If you haven’t watched it yet… what are you waiting for? Just know your heart might never be the same. 💖

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Drama BL Korea yang Berasa Koreanya

Drama BL yang menurutku "aman" maksudku ini drama yang alurnya itu detail nggak grusak-gursuk tiba-tiba udah deket ada masalah deket lagi boom jadian, kayak ini tuh storynya lebih realistis daripada drama BL lain yang udah pernah aku tonton (ini gemes bgt jujyur). Apalagi waktu pemeran utamanya bingung sama perasaanya sendiri. Walaupun memang waktu awal episode tuh bikin aku bingung, ini beneran BL atau bromance, cuma karena acting dari castnya yang enggak ngebosenin bikin makin penasaran ini nanti endingnya gimana jadi tetep aku tonton sampai akhir. Makin lama ditonton makin pengen lanjut terus sampe kesel kenapa cuma ada 8 episode. Jadinya sampe episode terakhir aku masih kurang puas sama endingnya kayak "I NEED MOREE!!!"

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Bruh I love this show

Long overdue review (im lazy)
The whole cast is so silly LOL, I love them all so much^^ (tb when they put some of my favorite actors/actresses in one cast)
The only other thing ive seen BounPrem in is UWMA/BU and I really enjoyed seeing different sides of them in this= serious Prem and silly Boun
ep 9 was just mega silly, i loved it
Spoilers:
the time travel/everything is connected plot twist was actually so cool. (I KNEW I WAS NOT TRIPPING WHEN I SAW RAMIL WEARING A WHITE SHIRT THEN SUDDENLY HAVE A BLACK ONE ON)
wasnt a huge fan of the ending of Punn and Ramil living in the painting world for the rest of their lives, but i can see how it can be romantic and it doesnt ruin the show or anything
and JUMARK cameo had me in a choke hold

idk, good show imo, super bingeable, serious but also funny asf, jonoel brothers wholesome, p&p brothers wholesome asf, music fire esp prem's lunar vow
thats it BYEEEEE

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My beloved To My Beloved Thief

I'm not really a fan of the historical genre, but lately I've been liking more and more of them. This is how it happened with To my beloved thief. My heart beat high with every part. A pretty lovely and beautiful story with amazing actresses and actors. The chemistry was everywhere, i loved the romantic and humorous scenes, and the scenes with the prince and Dae Chu or with Im Jae I, so talented young men. This was a pure, and easy to love drama, with an important message and with little intrigue or few boring parts. Loved the beginning and the ending either and everything that happened in between. I was very touched by this story and the characters. The OST is amazing.
Please give Hong Min Ki finnaly a lead role, he deserves to be the main character in a show. Congratulations to the cast and the crew. I am grateful for To my beloved Thief, really grateful.

Ps: A second season in the present???? I would really enjoy it :)

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Pursuit of love during difficult times

As of the time of writing this review I am halfway through and because I'm getting spoilers in social media, I feel confident to already write a review. Let's get into it.
Story. First of all, if you're going into this because some clips show a cute love story of a handsome man being rescued by a woman and later marrying her as a matrilocal husband, be prepared that it's not purely a cute love story. It's a complicated romance on the background of difficult war times, corrupt officials and untangling few mysteries. I had no idea what I was getting into (I didn't bother reading the summary after absolutely head over heels falling for the cutesy love story clips from the first episodes) but man, I did stay for the whole thing. This drama is exceptionally well written. We have a strong, STRONG female lead. She's physically, mentally and morally strong. Then we have a kinda kind loving husband who quite can't express his emotions through words but he's still always caring for the female lead. I heard that Xie Zheng is even colder in the original story, he doesn't even like Changning. I'm really glad the the producers changed up his character, because this actions warmth but yet cold emotions fits the character better and Zhang Linghe really brought it out in the character.
Casting. 11/10 would not change any actor. Tian Xiwei is perfect, so is Zhang Linghe. I especially want to raise Deng Kai. I've seen him only as a villain in some other dramas and boy is he walking that path HARD. His character of an obsessive lover is so realistically acted, his cold evil aura, just PERFECTION.
Music. As I said in many other reviews, I'm not an ost person, unless it's outstanding to me personally. The tracks are okay to me.
Rewatch value. There are some funny moments I absolutely love, there's a good love story, there's mystery, there's action, I can see myself giving another watch for this drama.
Overall, I absolutely see the hype and this drama is 11/10 worth it.

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10/10 the best.

Finally i found the time to sit down and write about BOD… and honestly, i don’t even know where to begin.
after such a long time… she finally came back and I didn’t expect it to feel this personal. Watching Jisoo as Seo Mirae didn’t feel like watching a character written for a series. it felt like watching someone who could exist next to us in real life. someone who wakes up already tired, who carries responsibilities quietly, who keeps going even when she has nothing left to give. There was something so raw in the way she showed that exhaustion not dramatic not exaggerated, just there… in her eyes, in the way she moved, in the pauses between her words. You could feel that Mirae wasn’t just physically tired, but emotionally drained too like she had been pouring into everything except herself for a long time and that’s what made her so close to the heart.

when she escaped into that virtual world, it didn’t feel like fantasy for the sake of romance, it felt like a form of survival. Like she needed a space where things were gentle, predictable, and kind. A place where love didn’t come with confusion or disappointment and I think that’s what made it hit even deeper because a part of us understands that feeling the need to step away from reality even for a moment, just to breathe. Jisoo made that transition so natural. she showed how Mirae could smile a little more there, how her shoulders felt lighter, how her eyes softened… and yet, there was always this quiet awareness that it wasn’t real.

and then slowly, everything begins to shift. Not in a big dramatic way, but in small almost unnoticeable steps. Mirae doesn’t suddenly become brave.. she hesitates, she doubts, she holds back… but she still tries and that’s what made her growth so beautiful and so real. It wasn’t about becoming a completely different person, it was about learning how to face reality with a little more courage than before. Choosing something uncertain over something safe. Letting herself feel again, even if it meant getting hurt.

what stayed with me the most is how Jisoo carried all of this without forcing anything. She didn’t try to “show” emotions in a loud way she let them exist quietly. The way her eyes would linger, the way her expression would change so slightly, the way she would pause before reacting… those small details told the story more than anything else. It felt like she trusted the character, and in doing that, she made us trust her too.

I didn’t just watch Mirae’s story I felt it. I felt her loneliness, the kind that doesn’t need words. I felt her comfort in that imagined world, and the fear of leaving it behind. I felt her confusion when reality and fantasy started to blur and that quiet courage it takes to choose something real even when it’s imperfect.

and honestly… I felt proud. Not in a loud, overwhelming way but in a quiet, steady way that stays with you because Jisoo didn’t try to be something she’s not. She didn’t try to overpower the role. She simply understood it, respected it, and gave it something real. She allowed Mirae to be soft, awkward, unsure, and still strong in her own way.

this didn’t feel like just another role. It felt like a step forward something deeper, more grounded, more human and maybe that’s why it stays because it wasn’t just something we watched… it was something we recognized, something we felt, something we carry with us even after it ended.

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The story is a refreshing subversion of traditional roles as Changyu is the physical protector early on. When war separates them she takes her butcher knife to the battlefield while he fights to reclaim his title. It is a grounded epic that balances domestic life with high stakes military conflict.
Tian Xiwei ❤️ as Fan Changyu delivers a standout performance that breaks her sweet image. She is gritty and practical moving with a weight that makes her profession feel authentic. Zhang Linghe ❤️as Xie Zheng brings a nuanced vulnerability to the fallen marquis role. His chemistry with Tian Xiwei is a slow burn based on mutual respect and shared trauma. Supporting actors like Li Qing and Ren Hao provide strong humor and depth to the political intrigue.

Directed by Zeng Qing Jie the show has a high quality cinematic feel. Filmed on location in Taizhou the scenery is rich and atmospheric using natural lighting rather than heavy filters. The set design for the village and butcher shop is detailed and realistic giving the world a tactile lived in quality. The action choreography is heavy and impactful matching the characters backgrounds and keeping the stakes feeling real.

Pursuit of Jade is a rare gem that treats its characters with intelligence. It is a must watch for those who want a strong independent female lead and a romance built on partnership.

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Dating Game

The concept of an extremely advanced holodeck-esque dating simulation subscription game in the modern capitalistic society is the hook of the series as well as the most interesting part though this being a light rom-com rather than Black Mirror means the surrounding ethical implications are on the periphery, maybe even paid lip service to, but sadly not explored. The female lead Mi Rae knows that the pricing tiers are exploitative, but rationalizes herself into subscribing anyways.

Like anything, you can do so with your free will and it won't be unhealthy if you can set boundaries for yourself, but with all the very real psychosis triggered in real life by relying on an disembodied chatbot, an utterly realistic one that's virtually undistinguishable from real life is the slipperiest of slopes. The virtual boyfriend Eun Ho was the most realistic of the bunch, rebuffing the player enough as a simulacrum of sentience and they way he's emotionally upset when the player wants to leave or end subscription is so insidious. The realistic food which includes taste and texture sounds amazing, but I could see how it may be misused as a replacement for actually eating. There's a lot of pit falls and perhaps if this game really did exist in the real world, the solution it would use would be similar to the ones printed on cigarettes with warnings about potential triggers for mental health issues. It was fun how Mi Rae's friend Ji Yeon speed runs the game, a spin off showing exactly how she solves all 901 boyfriends would be amazing.

Gyeong Nam is neurodivergent coded and Seo In Guk plays the subtle personality differences between Gyeong Nam and his virtual counterpart Yeong Il very well, easily differentiating them beyond hair color, glasses, and fashion. He and Jisoo as Gyeong Nam and Mi Rae doesn't have fiery chemistry, but the writing is understandable enough as to why the characters would be drawn to each other. Jisoo's acting is serviceable, she just hasn't found that break through to the next level yet. It's not as noticeable a lot of the times because Gyeong Nam has a low key personality, but in the scenes when those emotions come through, their acting levels are pointedly night and day. The author Yun Song fully prefers to keep her month to month subscription game boyfriend which the show presents as a happy ending for her without comment or caveats. Mi Rae lets go of her customized virtual boyfriend to be with her real life dream man. It's kind of weird the show wants it both ways instead of having a strong stance even as a romcom. They seem afraid to be alienating the future virtual AI boyfriend having audience.

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A Light-Hearted and Fluffy Show to Help You Reminisce Your Youthful Memories

Truth to be told, I wasn’t expecting much when I suddenly dropped “Generation to Generation” due to its awfully choppy editing with lack of chemistry and emotional impact added to the top of the list. I was getting bored at that time and decided to have a sneak peek at “Too Young to Love”, although I was 100% fully aware that it might only offer an ordinary cliché story about high school romance and other predictable tropes whatsoever. Still, due to my itchy fingers, I finally skimmed through the first 22 episodes as I didn’t watch the ending (needless to ask, it must be a happy one).

So, the story is centered around two individuals who are pursuing their dreams in their youth, Yi Lan and Tong Xiaole. Well, they have this kind of neighborhood relationship and it’s pretty understandable for them to develop a platonic friendship. Yi Lan has always wanted to become a professional cellist like her mother but is constantly deterred by her father’s refusal due to her mother’s death in the past, which makes him traumatized and becomes hostile against Yi Lan’s dream. Meanwhile, Tong Xiaole always lives alone as his parents frequently goes to business trips, and because of lack of communication, they always clash whenever it comes to his university’s major. His father urges him to take financial major for it is widely known as a highly prospective major for employment these days. On the other hand, Xiaole has no interests in financial thingy and prefers the art of photography to create meaningful stories behind the lenses and frames of a camera. Joining them are Chen Fan – a wealthy chaebol heir who has a knack in composing songs, Qiao Mengmeng – the socialite of their group, and Luo Ningzi – a fellow cellist, at first she doesn’t see eye-to-eye with Yi Lan but they reconcile soon after, and also Chen Fan’s girlfriend whom he has a rocky relationship with.

As I emphasize on the upper paragraph, I’m deadly serious when I say I have zero expectation on this show, but it turns out be surprisingly… decent, yet not decent enough to take a nosedive on the second half (college life, adulthood, and etc.). Some issues are tackled realistically as my current high school life’s (for instance, fighting with parents over majors, pursuing your dreams instead of taking a lucrative major, homeroom teachers constantly got scolded by principals over scores, straight-A students’ choices in majors, and many more). However, some parts are also portrayed as illusions for us young watchers (organizing a little concert amidst the imminent Gaokao, running to the rooftop of school to set off fireworks (wow, we would be given a good beating for it if it really happened in my school), and other forgettable things).

For the acting, I guess it’s still laudable despite the cheesy dialogues. This is my second time watching Zhang Xinyi (I once sneaked in to “Be Passionately in Love”) and from my perspective, she still has rooms for improvements in the future (please don’t let her cry much, she’s beginning to remind me of my dearest friend who always cries whenever someone has an upper hand against her). For Xie Binbin, I don’t know what to say, but his role as Tong Xiaole seems to have a hybrid personality (half warm and half cold), which makes it harder to decipher his true feelings. Others are meh, but Luo Ningzi definitely deserves a praise for humbling the high-and-mighty chaebol boy.

OSTs are limited and I wish there would never be any singing concerts in the coming times. It’s totally frustrating to see the leads lip syncing while the original song plays in the background. Somehow, the sound and the lip just don’t match seamlessly. I’d better watch K-Pop MV instead of this.

Overall, a pretty mundane show to pass your time or maybe to ignite your past memories of adolescent years or even become a background noise while you’re multitasking. I’m sorry if my words are somewhat offensive (I’m not proficient in using euphemisms) to you guys and I hope you have a good watching experience. Good bye in “Pursuit of Jade”, good luck, and happy watching!!!

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Mmmm so good and tasty.

This is good.

Japanese dramas are usually rated lower than their foreign counterparts because they are sometimes pretty sucky… or they could be missing some sort of fundamental quality that a viewer is seeking.

I can't lie, I've felt like J-dramas have been on a downward trend since the 2010's but every once in a while Japan will surprise me with something good actually.

Romantics Anonymous is one of those for sureeee.

I will start off with the negatives since there is so much good to discuss.

This show is wayyy too short, the modern “Netflix” format of 8 episodes is much too short for a story this heavy. The lack of runtime makes it so that the viewer is left feeling rushed through the story. 10-12 episodes would have been perfect. The episode titles follow a gimmick where each episode is named after a branded chocolate piece in a box set… They literally skip over some of the pieces because they don't have enough time to dedicate an episode to it.

All my criticism is linked to that lack of runtime. The rushed ending, the shallow exploration of the characters' backstories… All of it was addressed as best they could but… it was still a jot unsatisfying.

Anyways, everything else was GREAT.
Liked that it tackled phobias and gave plausible reasons for why they form and can sometimes get worse. LOVED seeing people get professional help from a mental health specialist, and introducing coping mechanisms and self affirmations to an audience who may not have ever heard of them.

It can be powerful to see characters whose problems mirror your own, seeking out help…

The romance was delicate and slow, very cute and satisfying. I loved seeing two adult strangers get to know each other, admire each other and finally realizing they are soul mates.


Both leads were amazing! Haven't seen Oguri Shun do a rom-com in a while… but… uh… he's had the sauce for twenty years… he'll always have it…

Haven't seen Han Hyoju in anything since W… but here she is quirky, earnest, and lovable as Lee Hana.

Love that no one's issues are magically fixed by the end. They just make progress towards wholeness.

Great watch, I've been obsessed with it since I completed it.

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Asked For Plot, Got Plotholes

There aren't enough pretty people with competent acting skills capable of covering up the massive plotholes littered throughout this drama. What starts out as an honestly truly interesting plot concept devolves into a chaotic mess as soon as the plot hits it's first wall and needs to reset.

From then on, everything they have previously established is thrown out the window as "required" scenes rearrange when they happen and rules are suddenly created that didn't exist in the first episode. By the time the story makes its way to its finale you're no longer thinking that your brain hurts but rather sitting with a blank-eyed stare thinking that you're now so numb you can no longer feel the pain so 'sure' pile on more ridiculousness.

The characters somehow manage to make you care for them in an inverse proportional way. Where the usual dramas want you to care most about the main leads, I honestly didn't... Throughout the entire show they managed to stay completely one-dimensional to me with the sum of our Jin Zhu being "I don't want to die, I want to live" (whatever that means... who knows, we know nothing actually about HER), and Lou Siyi being "I want to marry the female lead".

Meanwhile, the supporting characters are where I actually FELT something. Zhou Nanzhi is the sort of character trapped in a seemingly no-win situation... he laments at one point that as soon as he gave in he lost but realistically, what was HE supposed to do alone? (Also, his character is one with one of the bigger plot holes I swear). We had Luo Li who was always so confident she was one step ahead as she crumbles when plot points become clear to her. Even the Princess, Empress and the barely there little Prince had meaningful moments that dug deep into the feeling of realizing you're trapped... I never honestly felt that with the leads and it left them flat.

I honestly can't talk about the actual story without getting angry because it takes a VERY good idea and just fumbles it so bad with nonsense. Not the sort of nonsense that is "suspend your disbelief, this is a comic world" but rather "you wrote yourself in a corner and said f-k it let's just keep writing".

Score:
(Starting at 5/10)
enjoyment 0
story 0
main leads 0
support .5
intimacy/chemistry 0
coherence/plotholes -1

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