I think I only watch rom-com with such setting:
A Gentleman's Dignity (pretty much all 4 couples around 40 except Kim Min Jong's partner around 20)
A Virtuous Business (1 couple around 50, 1 couple around 40, FL around 40, ML is younger by like ehm 8 years i kind of forget, another SFL is around 30, her partner is younger by a few years iirc)
Crash Course in Romance (main couple nearly 40)
Doctor Cha (over 40, happy ending imo since FL being free from prideful cheating husband and unfillial children)
My Husband Got a Family (main couple maybe more than 35, side couples with various ages but 1 SFL with neck full of aging line (whose partner is younger but poorer) is around 35, others under 35 except the newfound parents)
The Greatest Love (leads between 30-35, Dokgo Jin - I still remember his name, unbelievable- maybe 35?)
And maybe Return (it's not romance drama, but it's exciting and crazy with all villains around 35, with the two partner in justice over 35 i think)