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The food looks so good omg my mouth is watering... But it's a shame that every voice is dubbed sob you can hear…
I had the same reaction to the feeling that it looks fake. I'm not sure what it is..... maybe it's the color grading or something else but it's a little too saturated I think maybe?
Su Mo ....... you go on my list of most wonderful beautiful excellent non toxic loving loyal dedicated compelling male lead characters in all of Cdrama land. I wish you were given a better script and bigger budget and better editing but even with all those flaws I will always remember you Su Mo!!!
I love love love both PMY and Song Kang and could probably watch them both just do nothing but kiss and be cute and paint walls for 16 episodes but ....... This is feeling kind of bland? Really really hoping they prove me wrong because I'm rooting for this to be great.
How can you say "I think people should not be judged" and then immediately say "they should get therapy" and not…
Wouldn't being judgmental be stigmatizing therapy as something negative and bad rather than the useful tool it can be to help people??? Fetish is literally a diagnosis in the DSM and BDSM behavior can also be compulsive and disordered and rooted in trauma. Being sympathetic/empathetic is literally encouraging them to get therapy and explore the root causes of those compulsions which can give them tools to overcome those compulsions.
Bold of you to assume that being happily into BDSM and doing therapy are mutually exclusive
They were not in therapy in this movie. Unless you are implying the BDSM is their therapy and that's an entirely different discussion that I wholeheartedly would disagree with.
At first I was like ah, she doesn't like it , understandable but than as someone whose okay with this type of…
Are we not allowed to discuss BDSM and it's context in the movie in depth or we are only allowed to discuss it on the surface? Though I changed fields I am a licensed psychologist and we studied trauma and fetish and there are basic realities that exist with regard to them.
You shouldnt watch something where the focus is obviously bdsm play if you feel so against bdsm play. Its that…
As much as you are entitled to your opinion and seem offended by mine and seem to be overly defensive about something you clearly see no problem with there are many things that people find pleasure in that are in fact based in underlying trauma and are not actually healthy for them. It doesn't mean they are disgusting or deviant or "bad" but it also doesn't mean it isn't something that should be addressed and discussed in the same way people like to drink or so drugs before sex or have fetishes like autogynephelia or like to be humiliated or abused (with consent)
People are absolutely entitled to do whatever they want in the bedroom. But fetishes can often be a sign of underlying issues. The two are not mutually exclusive. If pointing this out upsets you I am sorry but it is a reality.
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People are absolutely entitled to do whatever they want in the bedroom. But fetishes can often be a sign of underlying issues. The two are not mutually exclusive. If pointing this out upsets you I am sorry but it is a reality.