JFC. Here we go AGAIN. I really have to wonder if you would dare to say this crap to any of us face to face.Edit…
I feel like you need to be educated on this matter, considering this is an issue that is clearly making you upset. Would you like to join us in our forum? We discuss things in a very academic way, with arguments based on the novel and the drama.
You talk as if we are attracted by his flaws, that's very smart. But sorry we are actually attracted by his beauty,…
I just wrote this, right this instant.
Imagine thinking that Xiang Liu is loved because he gets people beaten up under his command, and not only that but because he also loves stepping on their wounds. Throwing people off trees, woah yeah, that's so sexy and romantic, what a wonderful man.
I swear, the more they try to justify their dislike for him, the more it shows how little knowledge they have on any of this.
And always under the guise of protecting women while simultaneously wishing they get abused one day. My personal favorite is "I hope you find yourself a real Xiang Liu one day".
its well written character indeed. The way he treated XY is questionable throughout the story from start to end.…
That's sort of a moot point. I mean, people criticizing Xiao Yao. There's no reason for her to be under such fire considering that she does love Xiang Liu. You mentioned Chinese forums, YouTube, Reddit. I thought the Chinese people were all onboard the Jing ship. Isn't that what they're always claiming? Is there trouble in paradise?
It's just that most people have only watched the drama, and for reasons of censorship and other nonsense like that, the TV adaptation had to tone down considerably her interactions with Xiang Liu, including her feelings for him.
It's a very dumb way to treat the audience, and very patronizing too, but they need to sort of sell the idea that XY loves only Jing, which is not true. So those women you're ranting against, they don't have the full picture to rely on. Though it's odd because even with all the watering-down, it's pretty clear that XY loves XL as well. She just keeps lying to herself as a form of self-preservation, which is understandable, considering the many unfortunate things that keep them apart.
So thanks for your concern about how misogyny affects us. But there really is no need to go shaming women for liking what they like, or implying that this innocuous little drama will somehow be our downfall. Also, the "you'll end up in an abusive, toxic relationship one day" is getting kind of old.
And the fact that you think that millions of people (not just women, mind you) consider Xiang Liu the best and most appealing character in this story "because of the fantasy of abuse and violence presented in fiction" is laughable and, quite honestly, pure idiocy. Who in their right mind would be attracted to his character because of these traits?
But sure, go on trying to protect us silly women who cannot distinguish fact from fiction if it makes you feel better. Much appreciated.
Okay till now. It is engaging, faster plot than most xianxia, good special effects. I like Tan Jianci best amongst…
I'm not a very big fan of this harem trope either. It's sad that they didn't actually make this into a proper reverse harem as it is in the novel, because of the censors. But still, even with the watered-down version we got in the drama, TJC still managed to steal every scene.
I remember reading somewhere that he was the right one with the wrong timing. 100% accurate. 😔
It was my first time seeing him too. I must have been living under a rock. He was everywhere doing everything like a pro and somehow I didn't know of his existence. Yes, that one with Zhou Ye will be pure bliss. Judging by the BTS, they better send me an ambulance:
I remember reading somewhere that he was the right one with the wrong timing. 100% accurate. 😔
I wish someone could slap some sense into him. He's too cruel to himself, thinking the only happiness he deserves is death with his fellow soldiers. No baby, you deserve to live and be truly happy. SMH, why so stubborn?! I just can't. Someone wrap him up in a blankie and bring him to me LOL
Earlier in the beach after XL hypnotise XY's sis in pushing her - XL was willing to walk in but XY wasnt ready…
I knowwww!!! It's all so sad, and those big beautiful eyes that can convey more than a thousand words. Who gave him permission to be like that? What a beautiful sad boy ✋🏻😔
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Imagine thinking that Xiang Liu is loved because he gets people beaten up under his command, and not only that but because he also loves stepping on their wounds. Throwing people off trees, woah yeah, that's so sexy and romantic, what a wonderful man.
I swear, the more they try to justify their dislike for him, the more it shows how little knowledge they have on any of this.
And always under the guise of protecting women while simultaneously wishing they get abused one day. My personal favorite is "I hope you find yourself a real Xiang Liu one day".
Good thing karma is real.
It's just that most people have only watched the drama, and for reasons of censorship and other nonsense like that, the TV adaptation had to tone down considerably her interactions with Xiang Liu, including her feelings for him.
It's a very dumb way to treat the audience, and very patronizing too, but they need to sort of sell the idea that XY loves only Jing, which is not true. So those women you're ranting against, they don't have the full picture to rely on. Though it's odd because even with all the watering-down, it's pretty clear that XY loves XL as well. She just keeps lying to herself as a form of self-preservation, which is understandable, considering the many unfortunate things that keep them apart.
So thanks for your concern about how misogyny affects us. But there really is no need to go shaming women for liking what they like, or implying that this innocuous little drama will somehow be our downfall. Also, the "you'll end up in an abusive, toxic relationship one day" is getting kind of old.
And the fact that you think that millions of people (not just women, mind you) consider Xiang Liu the best and most appealing character in this story "because of the fantasy of abuse and violence presented in fiction" is laughable and, quite honestly, pure idiocy. Who in their right mind would be attracted to his character because of these traits?
But sure, go on trying to protect us silly women who cannot distinguish fact from fiction if it makes you feel better. Much appreciated.
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