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So what?
fact still remains that the writers did not let the ML move on,
while making the FL shag his friend...I mean, it's not like he forced her. You are talking as if she does not have a brain or even awareness that shagging friend of her ex is a baad idea. Anyone with an iota of brain could have told her that.

The whole tone of that drama..the FL and her friend openly discuss sex, threesome etc, while the ML and his friend watch horror movies and get spooked.

It was so bizarre, like most kdramas, the ML's are bizarre fakes.

Role reversal for fun means few dramas
but every drama being like that is kind of bland.

It's like you already know the ML is a wimpy doormat right at the start of the drama.

There is nothing to look forward to when it comes to ML's in these dramas.

regarding feminist movement, it was fine long back. Now it's a BS movement.
Anyone still believes in modern feminism need their brain examined.

No feminist demanded women be sent to front lines in Ukraine-Russia war & it;s not like Ukraine does not have women or feminists.
The only thing modern feminists want is power without any responsibilities.
No feminist ever demanded equality when war happens, they usually are the first ones to run. It's the traditional women that take the gun and have the fight in them.
No feminist ever demanded the thousand odd tough jobs that men do to keep the world running. They are extremely tough, so, feminists pretend oil magically appears at pumps, groceries in markets, fish in hotels, buildings magically appear etc etc.

All for equality and even special rights for women for being women.
but feminism...yuk.

a girl friend with whom he apparently never even held hands with.

She was busy shagging some other dude while the ML could not care less about her shagging other guy.
That's not called dating life, it's called being in shit.

At least FL and 2ML have nice friendly interactions on many occasions.
the number of nice interactions between ML and his gf - zero.

I don't care, as long as the tone of drama treats ML and FL fairly.

The drama can go for realistic romance with ML and FL having dated others,
The drama can also go for ML and FL being each other's first love.
The drama can also be mixed.

The only preference I have is to see variety in my dramas with characters surprising me.

Moving was my fav kdrama this year by a long shot.
The ML's wife in that is a prostitute. It was the best Kdrama romance this year.

Going on date is not Dating.

Dating means, a relationship, usually includes physical aspects as well. Unless explicitly stated, the understanding of dating includes sex, even in teenagers now a days.
Kdramas have been pretty open about their understanding of dating for few years now, it includes sex, unless otherwise stated.

You did not mention FL but you used ManWh0res for men who sleep around. So, the question that naturally follows is, does this extend to woman as well...
What does that make FL who had physical relationships with multiple men?

You love watching asian dramas because MLs don't sleep around,
That is your preference for ML's.
If MLs who sleeps around like the FL of this drama is not your preference, just because he is sleeping around, then the sleeping around becomes the sole reason for liking or not liking.

That's why I asked if this extended to FL as well.

Glad you clarified that you are perfectly fine with FL's sleeping around but prefer pure ML's who don't sleep around.

Destined with you ML had the fakest GF in history of Kdrama.

FL saw more action with 2ML in 10 mins of the drama than what ML saw with his gf in whole of the drama...

I am not the one who used that word.
The original post was explicit in stating men who date multiple women are manwh0res...
So, was just asking if that logic extends of women dating multiple men, like the FL of this drama...

a natural question anyone would ask..

Btw, I firmly believe dating and having sex is a perfectly natural and healthy thing, for both men and women.

Your post was very specific about asians not taking sexual relationship lightly and gave that reason why ML is like that.

So, the question still remains, is the FL not behaving like an asian for having multiple lovers? After all, as per your logic, as asian does not take sexual relationships lightly. The FL does not fit this pattern.

So, a bit confused.

Do you see ML showing any kind of attraction to his GF?
Do you see them holding hands, kissing or anything remotely like that?

She even tells her lover that she was shagging him because her bf never does anything with her.

The drama makes it clear that she was the GF because their families set them up for marriage. Not once does the drama say they got together because they loved each other.

ML being experienced is not the common trope at all,
The most common trope is a Virgin ML who only ever loved the FL.
Second most trope is FL being chased by ML and his brother. The love triangle with FL, ML and few other men is another popular trope.
The ML being experienced is one of the least used tropes.

Some of the dramas you mentioned, it is exactly the opposite...

Destined with you, the ML has the fakest girl friend in Kdrama history.

She was GF in name only because of arrangement between families.
The ML is never shown to be remotely interested in his gf. The drama literally confirms they never even held hands, let alone do any bf-gf stuff.
The drama shows FL having more romance with 2ML than between ML and his gf.

Haven't watched good bad mother, so can't comment.
The other drama no one is inexperienced.

Kdramas have few rare dramas where both leads are experienced but there rarely is a drama where the FL is NOT and ML is....

Anyway, Kdramas used to fare better but the cdrama crap of having certain type of ML's, especially the cold CEO tropes has hit them hard in last few years.

Just to understand what you are saying -

FL's can date multiple men, thrash men around, get piss drunk and put their life and career before romance.

but they want a handsome Virgin prince who never liked any other woman to settle with and put her before everything else in his life...

Is this accurate depiction of the expectation?
If so, it seems like like these women have mental issues that need to be treated asap.

Btw, how is ML dating woman similar how FL is dating men, two-timing?
How is ML doing things that FL is doing a red flag?

Your last 2 lines are spot on.
No men on earth are like that. Imagine if men start demanding virgins who never even looked at other men as their wives? That's how sick this whole premise comes across and it's dangerous as well.

All of the have ML who is single woman man.

In fact, King the land has FL in a long term relationship with another man.
ML is shown as a virgin CEO.

Name a Kdrama where the FL has a trauma that affects her liking or dating men?

This year itself there are like a dozen Kdramas where the ML has a trauma and does not even look at other women.

Can you name a single Kdrama where the reverse was shown?
The ML moved on and dated multiple women
&
the FL stayed put languishing in love of ML and did not even look at other men.

The ML's in kdramas never move on, it's only the FL's that always move on and date other men.
Another example is 'Strangers Again'. ML stays put, FL shags his friend.

You can't remember because there are exactly ZERO cdramas where the ML is showing attraction to other woman than the FL.

in last 3-4 years of my Cdrama experience, the count is exactly ZERO
and I have watched almost all popular Cdramas made in this time.

Now, why don't you ask me to show a drama where FL is shown being attracted to other men than ML?

recent Kdrama - Behind your touch, the FL pretty much shown horny every time she sees 2ML
Cdrama - The Day of Becoming you, the FL has orgasm every time she is near 2ML.

I remember these 2 because the FL's were very funny in both dramas, especially in how they were attracted to 2ML's.
If you want episode numbers where the hornyness is shown, I can get them for you.

As they say, now it's your turn to prove that there ever was a Cdrama in last few years where ML was shown sexually attracted to another woman than FL.

Ask me for more, I can keep going with example of dramas where FL is shown horny for other men.

It's an incredible coincidence how almost all ML's in Cdramas and kdramas are one woman man & it reflects on the CHARACTER of a man
but
the FL's are almost never one man woman & it NEVER reflects on the character of a woman.

Just to prove my point how shitty and predictable romance dramas have become, just watch ep1 of 'Welcome to Samdalri'.

The same TYPE of ML as we discussed here
the FL on other hand has dated multiple guys.

Even before watching ep1 of that drama, I would have told you exactly how ML would have been like.

Even a before a drama is released, in most dramas, you know exactly how the ML will be.
It's funny and tragic seeing these duplicated ML's in each and every Cdrama and kdrama.
They are just carbon copies of each other.

It's the job of kdrama and Cdrama ML's to keep themselves pure for the FL.

LOL, Kdrama ML's have zero self respect.
simping is the only mode they have.