Looking for a chinese drama with wuxia or anything where people are fighting like fantas and action. The twist is I don't want to watch one where the male character is some sort of prince/king/boss/top clan type of guy. I wouldn't mind if the female character is some type of queen/princess/rich family character. 

Evernight season 1  - I didn't exactly finish season 2 so I don't know if I want to recommend that cause of the cast member changes. However, season 1 was one of favorite wuxia drama of the year it was released and was quite unique. 

Fights Break Sphere

Princess Agents

WuXin: The Monster Killer series

I'm not sure if you tried other classics like Condor Heroes series and the Chinese Paladin series but I recommend those as well. 

I don't necessarily want the male character to be poor and that but I just don't want him to be a prince/rich type. Anything but that and I'll try. 

Joy of Life May not be able to fulfill all your criteria but is really good.

Young Blood

The Vigilantes in Masks

Wuxin: The Monster Killer +1

The Longest Day in Chang'An seems to have some actions scenes too but I didn't finish that so can't be too sure how many such scenes are there in the drama.