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He was not the one who broke up or caused the break up.
It was FL, pushed on by ML's dad.

So, ML has zero responsibility for the break up.

He is not responsible for his dad's sins.
Similar to how FL is not responsible for her mom's choices, which indirectly paved way for ML's mom death. The ML's dad blames FL's whole family, which clearly is not right....and the drama shows it as such.

The only people responsible for the break up are FL and ML's dad.
And it's up to these 2 to make it right.

If not, some could argue that ML's dad is right in thinking FL is also responsible for what happened to his wife - guilt by association.

If it was a well written drama, then I would have gone with the ML needing to take the lead since his dad was the 'issue'

Problem with the bad writing in the drama is that one hand it shows ML's dad being mad at FL's mom is wrong, due to disassociation of act of ML's mother's death by FL's mom and even FL.
i'e, ML's dad holding FL indirectly responsible for something she is not responsible for...

Now, the same drama asks ML to take responsibility for what his dad had done...

drama can't have it both ways.

FL was an adult, she made her own choice at the end of the day. It's up to her to make an effort. but since Kdrama writers are stupid, they will show ML needing to take responsibility for something he did not do, while showing ML's dad was wrong in asking FL to take responsibility for something she did not do.

It's stupid writing, like I said, these writers spend more time on surrounding FL with virgin men, than writing an actual story or developing characters.

Just look after yourself and block me...others are adults and will decide for themselves..

Anyhow...
Why are the ML's in most kdramas are all extreme virgins who never look at any other woman than the Fl though?
Any thoughts on writers who insist on ML being not just a virgin but a man who never looked at any other woman than FL?

The FL's in Kdramas don't seem to have these kinds of restrictions...any theories why ML's are so sus?

can you paragraph it pls.

i agree with a lot of what you said though.
but sometimes you need to express yourself, even if it means people are uncomfortable.

in fact my posts are meant to cause discomfort.
these kinds of repetitive, fake and frankly shitty ML's are the norm in Kdramas. its because viewers seem to like this version of fake men.

my posts, especially ones where i say something like 'pure virgin ML' is suppose to poke fun at the very obvious people are ignoring..deliberately.

there are dramas i liked in last few months, why not read my posts on those so that an informed decision on me as a person made.

anyway, i dont get all tangled up if people take shots at me online. I kind of have a smile reading those potshots...

Some one need to tell Kdrama ML's about these normal behavior,

in 90% of romance Kdramas, the normal behavior you talk about does not seem to apply to the ML's.

The FL's tend to be fine, except for the violence and rampant alcoholism.

Why do you think I replied?

FL is more of less written fine.
You can look at her and think her journey makes sense and possible. Even her self pity and sorrow can be attributed to being self-centered character. Most people are, they are more concerned about themselves than others.

ML on the other hand is a fake, wimpy simp and a door mat. Very poorly written and makes no sense.

FL did not leave the island for ML's father.
She went because of growing herself in life, a perfectly normal human thing to do to fulfill their goals and ambitions.

Sometimes point needs to made to give clarity on direction the writer is intending.

If you are offended by my comments, just stop reading my comments or block me.

It is so simple to do than get this worked up!

You forgot how the 2 male characters waited and saved their purity and virginity for the FL their whole life.

details matter.

You don't really understand bro-code.

the writer of this drama has zero idea about men

If you think I have 2 accounts, there are lot of free only writing comparisons one can do, do it.

It's not surprising that people get triggered when presented with facts about this shit drama.
It's time viewers stop patronizing crap like this so that Kdrama can go back to their golden days of producing good quality dramas.

I will keep commenting here, even after it is finished, I will comment to save future viewers from watching this trash.

Oh, don't worry, I will do the same for any future Kdrama with similar shit in it.

I don't really care about the hate comments, not one bit.
Basically tells me I am absolutely on point when people don't argue what I posted and get personal.

Kdramas usually have 1-2 shit tropes but boy this one is basically a dozen shit tropes and no story.

People who argue about bro-code have never had male friends or just arguing for sake of it.
Even in high school, men stick to bro code. These are near 40 year olds who been friends for most of their life. The writers are so stupid to write this shit of a love triangle like this.

This dramas is so badly written, from story, characters, continuity and general commonsense that the worst fault of the drama just flows underneath,

The bro-code.

Absolutely convinced that the only interactions these dumb kdrama writers have had with men is watching other kdramas.
The bro code is so easily broken, without making the 2ML look evil.
Anyone who even remotely knows men or their friendship would immediately realize the shit the writer put in with the love triangle.
Men, especially life long friends have very very clear defined bro code.

Do these writers not know OR may be the writer want to show how fantabulous FL is that life long friends break bro code for this magnificent woman!

If only the writers had never written FL beating ML every episode, this would have been way better.

Still, somehow the dynamic between a Village bumpkin ML and city return FL kinda works.
The writers went for a ML bit slow, has bit of OCD with how obsessed he is with texts and like all Kdrama ML's on the pure side...
usually I would have hated all these in a ML but this one somehow works.

This drama created the stupidest and most oblivious ML and makes it work.

The worse part of the story is that she is the one who ran away
but the writers are not showing any efforts on her part to bridge the relations she destroyed. The ones making the efforts are the people who she dumped for a better life.

And as soon as FL comes back, every man in drama starts simping her.

ML basically declares his eternal, undying, unconditional, pure virgin love for the FL. 30 minutes of each episode is ML and 2ML fighting like horny teenagers, liking boots of Fl, that's it.

If ML took 1% of time he does with Fl to deal with his father, who obviously has lot of issues....
That ML does not even put in as much efforts on his own father that he puts in for FL's mom.

And so much for FL's mom treating ML like her own son.
The drama only shows superficial shit between them, as if to prove that anything related to FL is extremely important to ML, even at the expense of his own dad.
The dynamics are extremely fake and makes little sense.
Really can't believe neither the ML's dad or the FL's mom would ever have talk with the ML regarding life......REALLY! is that how 'real life' works.

This drama is basically porn with FL at the enter & multiple men making her extremely happy.
It is so shallow and does not hide the fact every character except FL is NOT important and does not explore their stores at all.

The clincher for me the love triangle.
Why would the writer even need to have a love triangle for FL? That was what convinced me that this drama is just porn.

it's basically 'look at the FL and how all these hot men are willing to lay their lives for her. And she is playing it so cool'

Better than every other Kdrama on air currently.