Secret Love Affair

Secret Love Affair (2014)

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"Secret Love Affair" tells the story of secret romance between Oh Hye-Won, a woman in her 40's, and Lee Sun-Jae, a man in his 20's. Oh Hye-Won, works as the director of planning for the Seohan Arts Foundation. She is elegant and excels at dealing with other people. Oh Hye-Won becomes involved in a love affair with Lee Sun-Jae. He is genius like pianist in his 20's.

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Jun 18, 2014
  • Overall 9.5
  • Story 9.0
  • Acting/Cast 10
  • Music 10
  • Rewatch Value 8.0
Imagine all the negative prejudices possible that one can have against a drama, and then add a little more negative biases; that's exactly how I felt before watching this drama. I hate love affairs, so I thought I could never ever bring myself to watch this. Watching the first episode was a momentary insanity for me, and guess what? I was blown away by the brilliance of this drama!! The majestic combination read more of perfect acting and breathtaking portrayal of their passion, the amazing directing and cinematography, and most of all the phenomenal choice of classical music got me hooked.

I think this drama is severely underrated and in my opinion mainly because of its poor choice of title "Love affair" brings out the notion of betraying romantic emotions of someone and their trust at the deepest level. It's a dirty and unforgivable act. However, this story is about anything but love affair. Granted the female lead is married, but in this scenario, considering her marriage and how the relationship is, I don't think anyone who will watch this would think that this was a love affair, it simply doesn't fit the category!

This is not your average light and bubbly love; it's dark, complex, passionate, bitter-sweet, and even sometimes torturous. It's a battle where we'll cheer as hard as we can for love to win against all odds. It's a story of growth and maturing oneself through experiencing love, a story of how easily one can lose oneself if s/he is chasing the wrong goals, and how they can still go back to true happiness regardless of their past/bad choices. It’s a story to show how love can change one for better or the worse.

Before analyzing the rest of the drama, I just have to say that I LOVED the music in this drama!!!!! They played so many beautiful pieces that were very well integrated within the flow of the story. Also, unlike your average drama, the music actually added meaning and depth to the drama. Most of the pieces were classical music played by the main leads (and let me tell you, I still cannot believe that they are actors not professional pianists!!!) There was one song that was not classical music, and it fitted the drama better than Cinderella's glass shoe fitted her. Anyone who has any appreciation for classical music is going to enjoy this drama enormously. And I'm not overselling it by stating that it's through the music that we can truly understand their passion, their fears and their love.

The pacing is slow, but surprisingly it didn't bother me at all. I loved that I could take my time and savor their every single gaze, touch, and emotion. The slow pace allowed me to synchronize my emotions with them; to not only understand, but also feel how they felt for one another. I guess the only negative point of the drama is the business part of it, but trust me; this one is not as bad as the others out there. It’s not the strongest part of the drama and the writers try not to get very technical with it. But I think it wasn’t that poorly written/executed. In the scale of the drama as a whole, it didn’t bother me at all!

The characters are complex, and it takes time to truly understand them. There were times that I was very annoyed with the main actress because I didn't really understand her. Nevertheless, as the drama progressed, my understanding of the characters deepened and I start too feel their pain, their hope and most of all their passion. It had been a very long time that I had felt such complex emotions with such intensity. It was almost like I was one of them.

Well I can go on and on, but I want to keep this review at a semi-reasonable length to allow ppl to read it. So if you're a fan of classical music, or if you want to go on a very emotional and bittersweet journey of love, fear and loss, I would recommend you to definitely give this a chance.
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May 15, 2014
  • Overall 9.0
  • Story 9.0
  • Acting/Cast 10
  • Music 10
  • Rewatch Value 9.0
One thing before I rave about this drama. I don't know why they called it Secret Love Affair when it wasn't a "secret". Maybe the LOVE was a secret, because the other characters were shocked at what Oh Hye Won did at the end.

This drama is excellent. Love unexpectedly blossoms through music. I can so relate to Oh Hye Won. Sometimes a person feels like they are just moving from one read more necessity to the next (even if she was a little greedy) with out really thinking about how you are living your life. Then some one walks into your life and changes everything. The way the director portrays every emotion through music is so wonderfully done. I love that the writer actually assumed we would know what the character was thinking. The music is amazing. I even cried. Crying while watching a drama is rare for me.

Yoo Ah In is combustible. His emotional portrayal of Lee Sun Jae was perfection. I don't know any actress that could have played the roll of Oh Hye Won better than Kim Hee Ae. I really don't know how she gave off a feel of innocence. I felt like she was reliving her youth. Good for her. I was totally invested in the main characters. The rest of the people were good too, but I could have cared less about their characters. I think that is what the writer wanted. There is no second male lead. No one for you to care about except the two lead actors.

The music is phenomenal.

I say watch it. Maybe younger people wouldn't really be in to it. It isn't action packed or anything. It is a real romance.
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The basic plotline (affair) is obviously similar. But also the complexity of the relationships. Both are drams that are darker, more intense romances that really challenge views and make them think about love and life.
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Secret Love Affair is an amazing show. Definitely on par with Master's Sun. So if you already watched MS 2x and would like a change of flavor. Try Secret Love Affair which also portrays a strong female lead - a very smart mature relationship that will warm your heart and brighten your days.
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    Randz 2 days ago

    I just finished this drama and I am in awe.. such an amazing performance, music, direction .. one of the best kdramas i got to watch

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    myheartisomg Jul 17, 2017

    This drama is not an easy watch. It's dark and full of sorrow, slow-paced with many unlikable characters. But it's also beautifully moving and rewarding. The music is spectacular, as are the performances and the chemistry between the leads. Even though it's set in a world of hardened, bitter cynics, in the end it's ultimately a hopeful and completely romantic tale. Recommended if you want something a little different.

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    stamkan Jul 14, 2017 - edited

    i haven't watched a kdrama in years because nothing will match up this one to be honest

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      Randz 2 days ago

      I just finished it and i dont think ill enjoy a drama as much as i did with this one..

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    marwa Jul 5, 2017

    I fall in love with this drama .is there other drama similar to this one ??

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    Meljus3 Jun 5, 2017

    Ep 1. I can already see it, this thing could get really really addicting.

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    Caroli Zfn May 6, 2017

    after watch midas and temptation, my love for KHA has vanished but its drama that is acting, i will try to watch it after read your comments

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    Eleni Apr 2, 2017

    i cried .......too much.......this was beautiful...

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    adhistyanisa Apr 2, 2017

    I'm not into noona-dongsaeng romance actually. but, this drama was done tastefully. Still watching this drama over and over again.

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    HwangEunByul Feb 3, 2017

    what a drama!!!

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    Lotus Oct 26, 2016

    This is one of the few Kdrama that I watch! 3 times.
    Being a fan of music and playing in an orchestra in high school before, this Kdrama is better than good sex for me. It is an intense passionate long drawn out lovemaking of the heart and soul. The script and directing is captivating. The drama feels like an indie movie, not your typical 16 episode drama. (Of course if you are into instant gratification of the coarse kind with action, plot twists and heavy overacting ...this drama is not for you).... so as not everyone are into impressionistic arts. Slow and deliberate subtle bake ....if isn't everyone's cup of tea.
    But if you have patience....this drama is amazing! (And I have lots after watching 3 hours of a silent documentary film called "into the silence"....seriously...3 hours of no dialogue or narrative at all :o/)

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    nastou19 Oct 7, 2016

    I had a hard time rating this drama. The love story was intense but I had to fast-forward everything else as it was so slow. So here I was, hesitating between a 6 and an 8. I settled inbetween ;)

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    Ineta Aug 23, 2016

    This drama is definitely not for everyone. It is a must-watch if you like classical music (!), mature and very very realistic dramas with no rainbows and unicorns, where everything gets shown clearly as it is and it isn't made to be, let's say, fluffier just so it's easier to watch.
    Another thing to note is that this drama is slow-paced all the way through. For me, I found it more relaxing than boring, however after episode 10 it did get slightly draggy.
    I also felt like the main focus of the drama was not the romance. It was more about people's relationships and of course, music..
    That being said, I would like to mention that figuring out some of the characters was actually quite hard at times, as it was relating to them, at the end I felt like they kind of forgot to give endings to some of the characters.. And I found Kim Heeae's acting a little bit too cringy / fake at times.

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    naccu Aug 23, 2016 - edited

    I caught the Yoo Ah In fever after Six Flying Dragons and decided to try this drama just for him! I got to know that it's one of the worst dramas I've ever seen!! This is my personal opinion so please don't make offensive comments below :/
    It is so boring!! The cinematography may be dark and "elegant" but that's also a reason I didn't like it! Everything was so slow, even their movements.I skipped most of the part about that woman and her mother-in-law or whatever she was. It was dull.. Really boring..
    Also, I honestly can't understand how he could be drawn to her sooo much after meeting with her only once!
    Yoo Ah In may be an amazing actor but even he couldn't save this drama for me!

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    ultramarin Aug 7, 2016

    This drama is something else... I know that judging by the title and synopsis it sounds really cliche. But it's much more than that.. It's dark, it's elegant, it's deliciosly angsty and the music is indeed amazing. The leads had excelent chemistry (really did not expect this, given the age gap). So, if you want a little break from the usual happy cheesy romantic dramas, give this a try. You might really enjoy it... If think about it, it's as elegant as the movie 'In the mood for love', the story is really different tho..

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    Mimo Jul 22, 2016

    i love this drama very hee ae and yoo ah in were amazing.


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    Mar 17, 2014 to May 13, 2014
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    60 min.


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