It's Okay, That's Love

It's Okay, That's Love (2014)

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Jang Jae Yeol is a famous mystery novelist and popular radio DJ with a prickly personality. After meeting psychiatrist Ji Hae Soo when they both serve on a talk show panel delving into the criminal mind, they instantly rub each other the wrong way. But when Jae Yeol’s girlfriend plagiarizes his work, forcing him to lie low until the media storm blows over and he can prove his innocence, he unexpectedly becomes read moreHae Soo’s roommate. Jae Yeol moves into a home that he owns that is being rented by Hae Soo; Jo Dong Min, another psychiatrist and Hae Soo’s senior colleague; and Park Soo Kwang, a young man with Tourette syndrome. As Jae Yeol and Hae Soo’s personalities clash, they help each other heal from their own deep-rooted emotional scars.

  • Native title:

    괜찮아, 사랑이야
  • Also Known as:

    Gwaenchana; Sarangiya; It's Okay, It's Love

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Surprise-Lobotomy
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Oct 11, 2014
  • Overall 10
  • Story 10
  • Acting/Cast 10
  • Music 10
  • Rewatch Value 8.5
I have seen absolute darkness. I know what it's like to lie in bed, unable to leave, trapped under sheets of sweat-drenched anxiety because every single movement feels heavier than you are. I've lived for the moments you reach the surface and gasp for air, only to slip beneath the waves. Most importantly, I know how a single hand can reach into that darkness and pull you to shore.

For sake of read more argument, I am going to share something very personal. In 2009 I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. This isn't a condition that you catch like a cold, but rather one that manifests at a certain age and snowballs until it's nearly impossible to function. You can't prevent it through proper care, you can't always predict its onset and you certainly can't run from it. Essentially, bipolar disorder means I suffer from violent mood swings - severe bouts of depression and self-destructive manic states. Most people are familiar with depression on some level, but the idea of a manic state is foreign so I'll take a moment to explain it. If depression is an extreme state of sadness or hopelessness, you can think of mania as an extreme state of happiness. It's generally characterized by impulsive (and often destructive) decisions, lack of sleep and is almost always accompanied by the physical feeling of euphoria (you can think of this as something similar to the effects of several drugs like ecstasy.) This state is the most dangerous and, for me personally, meant that I would blow through money on drugs and alcohol, ostracize my friends and family because of an uncontrollable temper and sail off into the sunset feeling invincible. These impulses left my life in ruins.

I crashed hard during my third semester of college and had to withdraw. At my worst I was suicidal, faced with a crippling loneliness that I had never felt before. You can think of it like standing knee- deep and staring into a dark pool of water. The only light is the reflection of your own eyes and even those seem foreign to you. If you shout you're greeted by a distorted echo that you recognize as your own, but it's masked by an alien quality. In this sense, mental disorders create two yous; the you that you're familiar with and the stranger you can't recognize beyond a silhouette and the stain it leaves behind. You're a prisoner in your own body and every single day you feel yourself inching closer and closer to the water.

If there is a single safe harbor in all of this, it's love. When two souls dredge through the fire and connect, the bond can become unbreakable. Empathy is the great uniter; shared pain is like cement. Love will harden through pain. Two souls become pillars, lifting the other out of the water and into the sky. This is what separates this drama from the rest. This is why It's Okay, That's Love is a masterpiece.

Mental health is not a topic that is addressed very often in Korean dramas, and when it is it often comes across as comical. Mental health balances between something people think of as self-imposed, something you can shrug off if you try hard enough, and something to be afraid of. Because of this, it's usually presented as one of the two extremes: something too light, often existing as comic relief or a silly quirk meant to add flavor without substance, or as something too heavy, existing as some ethereal force that twists the mind into something less than human. It's Okay, That's Love is able to present something serious and keep a lighthearted tone without being insulting.

If you're looking at the melodrama tag and expecting something that borders on makjang, this drama is not that. The feeling of melancholy threads this drama together, but it does not weigh it down. You won't find endless sobbing, misunderstandings or two-dimensional characters. Instead, this drama showcases the marriage of two souls through unconditional love and growth. Love is strongest when flaws can fit together like a jig-saw puzzle, and the characters in this drama compliment each other perfectly. It's important to emphasize that these characters are flawed. Too often dramas shy away from characters with real problems and instead settle on external conflict to move the story in its entirety. The characters in these dramas are perfect outside of the experiences they undergo and the forces that act on them and it makes them two-dimensional. This is not the case in this drama. Most of the conflict is internal, but it's relatable and organic. Every single character is presented in a manner that allows you to love and empathize with them - it's a multi-layered story, the supporting cast is also very well-developed.

In addition to a perfect atmosphere, this drama does something almost unheard of in a Korean drama. It presents a love story that is not about the chase, but rather endurance. Adult topics such as sex, intimacy and trust are at the forefront and allow the drama to paint a picture of actual couplehood instead of traditional guy-chase-girl or girl-chase-guy fare. You'll watch the couple grow not only as individuals, but as loving creatures. It doesn't stop at love, either, the concept of friendship as a refuge is just as strong. The entire cast grows over the course of the show, and if you're anything like me, you will grow along side them.

I really can't gush enough about this drama. It's been a very long time since I watched something that resonated within me with such perfect harmony. The soundtrack captures the moods perfectly, the actors (from main to supporting) have realistic and beautiful chemistry. The melancholy is haunting, but it won't overwhelm you. I cried, I smiled, laughed and lived with this drama. I saw those two souls grow into a love so pristine that you honestly believe they cannot live without each other. The term soulmate can only apply when two people love each other unconditionally, and they both crossed the sea in a rowboat to reach it.
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sprnaturalcraze
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Jan 8, 2015
  • Overall 10
  • Story 10
  • Acting/Cast 10
  • Music 10
  • Rewatch Value 10
I can't believe how much I love this drama...

The characters feel like real people that actually have impacts on everyone around them. This is awesome because many times writers of dramas tend to forget characters that aren't in the main couple/triangle. I love that this drama shows actions and reactions of so many people, all while being able to keep the viewers absolutely in love with the main characters. No one read more felt overshadowed or forgotten, and you can feel how everyone involved really cared about telling this story.

The cast is filled with some of my favorite actors of all time, so of course the acting is superb. The mark of a great actor is that you completely forget that they aren't their characters while onscreen, and the entire cast pulls this off perfectly.

As for the OST...probably the best I've ever heard. This is the first time I've purchased music from an OST, and I bought not one, but two songs from this drama. One particular song is used to drive the plot further emotionally, and in the two biggest scenes it's used, it works perfectly to really capture the viewers' entire being into that scene. Those scenes hurt so much, yet I found myself watching them over and over because of how heartbreaking they were and beautifully they were put together.

I already want to watch it again, and I've just finished! This has definitely become one of my favorite shows (not just kdramas!) of all time.
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In both dramas the main character has mental illness and both dramas are rly cool. Try it and enjoy :)
Recommended by Izida
I will quote the user miina, cuz she has the same reasons I have to rec Kill me, Heal me.
"Both drama the main actress is a psychiatrist. and the main actor have mental illness. the most important, both dramas very good."
+ in KmHm there is a bit more action
Try it and enjoy :)
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    Fran 14 days ago

    An exceptional drama and one of my favorites in life! The production was magnificent, I can not put into words how much this drama struck me, I loved it from beginning to end. All the emotions and themes were approached in a sensitive and beautiful way: the friendship between the characters, the psychological-emotional problems (which all had, to a greater or lesser extent), the love between the protagonists. And what about this cast? I fell in love with everyone! Watching it just confirmed to me why Jo In Sung and Gong Hyo Jin are among my favorite actors, and made me even more enchanted by Kwang Soo (whom I already loved on behalf of Running Man), and still gave me the grateful Surprise to discover a k-idol like D.O, which surprised me with his brilliant performance!

    Another wonder in the drama: the OST! Best OST of life! Amazing work done in choosing the songs, they fit perfectly. Never again has this soundtrack left my playlist. It's been many years of watching dramas and I'm sure that even after others will come, "It's Okay, That's Love" will still be among the best dramas I've ever seen.

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    Silvia 20 days ago

    The main female lead is in most cases very annoying (for me esp), if I was a man I could barely stand her with this attitude... The soundtrack of the movie is pleasant.. I feel sorry for the big brother :/ Over all not a bad movie

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    Sukkie 22 days ago - edited

    wow I loved this drama so much... I already miss it omg I want more .. Seriously one of my faves now

    How I wish I could erase my memory rn and watch it again and again with all the feels... T_T

    If you haven´t watched it yet... JUST DO IT NOW omfg!!!

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    Sukkie 23 days ago

    The music in this drama is perfect... not only the ost itself but also the timing and everything!!!

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    makeuptemple Feb 18, 2017

    I don't remember any other KDramas that I have watched that I got hooked from the first second. one of the other facts that I got hooked is my favourite main leads. Jo In Sung from the that winter the wind blows and Go Hyo Jin from the master's sun. do not under estimate the msin leads and the drama. I'm willing to sacrifice from my sleep and watch this drama under my duvet at one go. every character has their own story and with their stories they can write at least 3-4 dramas

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    Chuu Feb 18, 2017

    I'm sooo in love with the OST ❤ it's the best thing of the drama, imo. I also like the male lead. Other than that, there's nothing that keeps me interested in this drama to keep watching. I'm annoyed with almost every character?? Or, most of all, I really dislike the roommates and the female lead.

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    Chuu Feb 17, 2017 - edited
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    shivangi Feb 3, 2017 - edited

    Don't even think once, just watch it.

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      redxxxcrimson Feb 5, 2017

      this comment got me in the spot ^^

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      shivangi Feb 5, 2017

      im very choosey in my dramas and this one is funny, romantic and emotional

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    mickey Jan 28, 2017

    nice drama all in all. from acting to osts and the plot too. scriptwriter did great on this one!

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    fanixx Jan 12, 2017 - edited

    Even my friend who doesn't watch kdramas at all, decided to give this drama a try and he instantly fell in love with it. He knew about this drama when his sis-in-law showed him an OST MV of it. He got interested and gave it a try. He even rewatched this drama. 10/10 from him.

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    Jia Jan 4, 2017 - edited

    I finished it and again it shows - I dislike shows everyone loves and like shows everyone seems to hate.

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      JaeWookPhillip Jan 4, 2017

      im kinda like that too hahahah

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      ClassyApples Feb 7, 2017

      Same. I didn't like this drama at all, but everyone else seems to love it. I dropped it after episode 6. Can't stand the main lead author guy and his rapey aura.

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    Sharn Dec 26, 2016 - edited

    It's been a while and yet I still can't move on from this. This drama is beyond words.

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      Herison Dec 28, 2016

      IKR!!! The same thing happened to me...

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      iamgeralddd Dec 29, 2016

      "It's been a while.." for me it has been almost two years that i can't move on XD

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    SaraD Dec 12, 2016

    That scene in ep 11 when Tang Tae Yong started 2 cry ,in the doctor office, brooooke my heart.. He is a real good friend T_T He made me cry.. I wanna give him a reward for such great crying scene!

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    JaeWookPhillip Dec 7, 2016 - edited

    [HELP PLESAE!!] does this drama have the typical kdrama story that solely revolves around love? im not sure if i should watch it since i dont want to waste my time and might as well watch a better drama during the time.The story line would have to be strong and there would have to be bigger problems than love, if you know what in mean. Please give me your advice !! :D

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      Jia Jan 3, 2017

      You're welcome, I'll probably finish it tomorrow anyway as I don't have anything else to do so I can report back to you then ^^''

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      JaeWookPhillip Jan 3, 2017

      thatd be great, thank you so much for your consideration~~

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      Jia Jan 4, 2017

      You're welcome and I just finished the drama.
      It does have bigger problems than the love story, especially the past trauma and events leading to the psychological problems but the love story and the way it helps the characters overcome hardships is sure the dominating factor.
      If you're interested in psychology as a topic and family dramas you could try to continue this drama but it's not something that was really outstanding in the Korean Drama world to me

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      JaeWookPhillip Jan 5, 2017

      ok, thanks for the detailed overview of the drama, i really appreciate you taking the time to write this for me. Personally i feel that time is more expensive than money so its verryyy helpful to have people like you who can help others understand if this drama is the right drama for them, especially when im the type of person who feels compelled to finish what i started. Once again thank you, and please it keep up :D :)

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      Jia Jan 5, 2017

      You're welcome, I never dropped a drama either no matter how bad I thought it was so I get the trouble of wasting time with something you don't enjoy. If I can I will always help :D I think I just need to watch more haha

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    Christina Nov 14, 2016

    This drama is amazing! The acting, the characters, the music ... it all felt so real. This drama is definitely worth watching :)

Details

  • Country:

    South Korea
  • Type:

    Drama
  • Episodes:

    16
  • Aired:

    Jul 23, 2014 to Sep 11, 2014
  • Aired On:

    Wednesday, Thursday
  • Network:

    SBS
  • Duration:

    60 min.

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  • Score:

    8.8 (scored by 14,134 users)
  • Ranked:

    #44
  • Popularity:

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