Coen22:
Typically good wuxia are not centered on romance. Classic wuxia movies I recommend are Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon , The House of the Flying Dagger and Hero (the 2002 movie with Jet Li). The latest good wuxia drama I would recommend for the quality of the fight scenes is Side Story of Fox Volant.
For Xanxia, I highly recommend the serie Joy of Life and the movie The legend of the Demon Cat.
seconded crouching tiger, hidden dragon! it's such a masterpiece! the cinematography, the acting are on different level. cannot stop thinking about it ever since michelle yeoh mentioned the film was kinda like pride and prejudice but make it wuxia.
@OP: i don't feel like it (bcs i watched it on 3x speed lol), but so many people had mentioned that Love Between Fairy and Devil is one of the best xianxia with unusual trope execution (?) and all. So if you hold that drama as your standard, you might probably get disappointed often..