Why are you single?

Because :-
1) I enjoy being single for now and this came from 26yo me. I know it's the right time to be panic but I just don't feel that strong urge to end my single life.
2) I don't wish to add more responsibility on my plate when I'm in that relationship.
3) My life have enough drama already. Don't need love drama (fight/ breakup/ jealous) to add on that.

- I am not very outgoing and socialising with others so its hard to know someone even if I like them from a far...
- Most people these days just care about your outer appearance so if you aren't very pretty, they may not talk with you or be interested with you
- My personality is not confident and most guys will like a girl if she is confident and mature i guess...
- A lot of people just date someone just because they want some kind of short term relationship and are not serious about it. Actually, I don't understand these people at all, seems like they just want to waste time in their life and have no plans for their future ! Of course you should date someone with the intention for marriage right??
- People don't think about their future seriously, for example, they don't work hard and always just playing around, no one will like this kind of guy if he doesn't have a good job and good morals/values.

• I can be really awkward
• I'm inexperienced in dating
• it's difficult to get to know me IRL
• but I also don't care to be in a relationship
• namely because I'm aromantic
• and more focused on studies/career
• SOs have never been a priority or interest

I choose to be.

the idea of spending the rest of my life with someone sharing everything with him making decision together is scary for me and I hate it ..... I wanna be free
I want a job and career life way way more than dating and marriage ...it was never my priority or interest

Because I still don't know if I'm qualified as someones girl, in short I'm not confident as me, myself and I :)

Like many others, I'm shy and not so confident. I don't go out that often and have to high standards because of dramas :')
But now I've met finally someone who's up to the standards, but he has no idea I feel this way. I have no courage to take a step or contact him in any way :')